Should i tell him ???

[funnguy694u]

My cousin has bin with this cute little spinner type for almost 3 years now,and in this time she has bin flirting with me whith out him knowing...
I have not returned any flirts and have tried to keep my distance from her,but it seems to be getting worse... The last few times i was over visiting my cousin,she would get very frisky when he would leave the room to go to the washroom or whereever he goes... But tonight was the last straw for me when she jumped on my lap and tried to feel me up.. ..wtf do i do ????
Should i just quit visiting him or should i tell him ????
He and I have bin best bud's forever !!!!

 

[CJ Tylers]

If you are serious that this is what she is doing, then you really should tell him pronto. I assume you're discouraging her whenever she makes these advances?

 

[Maury Beniowski]

Aww, fuck her and get it over with...

It happens to a lot of us in our lifetimes. Otherwise, you'll always wonder what she was like.

It's obvious you've been envying him. She's horny and she wants you (you think). Get it over with.

Let her stroke your ego for a change; up to now it sounds like you've been stroking your own a bit much.

 

[Damien Jones]

Tell HER to stop first...

and then tell him it she does not. This gives her a chance to stop and their relationship a chance to survive, just in case she was just kidding around, although it does not sound like it. She's not worth losing a guy you've 'bin best buds for ever'.

D

 

[BYSON]

well i know what i would do in this situation I would fuck her and still be able to look my cousin in the face but than im a pig with no control. I wouldn't tell you're cousin you should set the bitch straight if you don't like her comming on to you but hold on. she is a spinner and if you never had a spinner you're missing out

 

[Lefty]

best friends girl

Talk to her, not him. Just tell you like her but you're not comfortable with her flirtations. He's your best friend etc. Ask her to stop. Fess up, you have probably flirted back and been complicent too.

Now perhaps she's looking for a 3-some so keep that option open. Ask her if that's what she would like? If she does, I suggest SHE brings it up with dear-ol-Cuz.

Don't tell him without talking to her.

If he's really your best friend, keep your hands to yourself. Don't even think about it. What's a fun fuck worth compared to a valued friendship.

Get it over with. Have a couple of pops and call her to set her straight.

She loves your cousin and won't want to hurt him. Maybe he's just lame in the sack and she's looking for a safe outlet.

 

[LonelyGhost]

this is a NO-WIN situation: no matter what you do, this will end badly.

so you might as well fuck this chick's brains out six ways from saturday and have that to console you while your cousin badmouths you to the family, friends and anyone who will listen.

if you don't boff the bitch, she will probably do someone else anyway and then your cousin will blame you for not warning him. if you do warn him, he will hate you anyways for being the bearer of bad news and for seeing something that he didn't see.

best case is you tell the chick to suggest a threesome with your cousin and see where that leads ... if he freaks and she tries to blame you, just deny, deny, deny!

oh yeah, and avoid family reunions for a while!

 

[hargow]

loyalty

lifelong friend? it seems that the answer is definitely not "just get it over with and tag her, dude".

in this case, it seems to be a clear case of bros before hos. tell her first and if she won't back off, then tell him. if you want you can approach it from the "you're a nice girl, but you're my best friend's girl, so that's not cool." that way she knows that you're not repulsed and if she wants to suggest any 3 way shit to your cousin that all these other guys are fantasizing about then great. but my bet is that isn't going to happen.

it's definitely not worth a fling to lose your best friend is it? if you really want to bang a spinner, there are a ton of them on here who, for a nominal fee will hook you up and at the end you'll still have your friend.

 

[FuZzYknUckLeS]

You can always make new friends.

 

[Randy Whorewald]

You should fuck her ASAP. This kind of opportunity does not come around often. You can talk to you friend later.

 

[nanaimo1]

I agree with Randy...............you should fuck her.......................theyre prolly gonna break up anyways....shes gonna move to a different city........youll never see or hear from her again and youll be pissed you never had a sample.

 

[schizo_man]

frik Im glad Im not friends with alot of you guys here. Whatever happened to doing the right thing? Doesn't family come first? Just because ya poon doesn't abdicate yourself from any responsibility to do the right thing.
She needs to be told to stop, and you do need to tell your cousin. Put yourself in his place.

 

[chilli]

To the guys who are saying fuck her - do you guys even understand women or are you guys fuckin idiots?

Most women are attention whores and flirt with men to see how far the man will go - they quickly lose interest once the "chase" is over.

Maybe she will fuck him, but a good chance she won't - she'll get half way and go - oh my I can't....

If the OP fucks her - he might as well say good bye to his best friend.

You guys are fuckin morons.

 

[Randy Whorewald]

To the guys who are saying fuck her - do you guys even understand women or are you guys fuckin idiots?

Most women are attention whores and flirt with men to see how far the man will go - they quickly lose interest once the "chase" is over.

Maybe she will fuck him, but a good chance she won't - she'll get half way and go - oh my I can't....

If the OP fucks her - he might as well say good bye to his best friend.

You guys are fuckin morons.

Only one way to find out if she's serious is to fuck her. If she does fuck funguy - then it wasn't

mean to be (between her anf FG's cousin). He will not lose a friend, you can't get rid of cousins

that easily. He's actually doing the guy a favour.

 

[schizo_man]

Only one way to find out if she's serious is to fuck her. If she does fuck funguy - then it wasn't mean to be. He will not lose a friend, you can't get rid of cousins that easily.

wow, such loyalty to a friend Family feuds are much worse than a squabble amongst friends.
Plus, this really isn't something that guys can let go. If my best friend fucked my girlfriend, I'd be seriously wanting to fuck him over.
Time to think with the big head folks.

 

[Randy Whorewald]

wow, such loyalty to a friend Family feuds are much worse than a squabble amongst friends.
Plus, this really isn't something that guys can let go. If my best friend fucked my girlfriend, I'd be seriously wanting to fuck him over.
Time to think with the big head folks.

Better to keep it in the family than have a total stranger do it and find out much, much later!!

 

[schizo_man]

Better to keep it in the family than have a total stranger do it and find out much, much later!!

not really. It would be easier to deal with knowing that a stranger did it than a man you are supposed to trust. Plus, being the good friend that he is, he'd be able to help his cousin deal with it. Have you ever had this kind of thing happen to you?

 

[Randy Whorewald]

not really. It would be easier to deal with knowing that a stranger did it than a man you are supposed to trust. Plus, being the good friend that he is, he'd be able to help his cousin deal with it. Have you ever had this kind of thing happen to you?

Yes its happened to me and I found out about it much sooner than I would have, had it been with

a stranger. I still see my cousin regularly, no hard feelings to this day although it happened over

30 yrs ago.. I appreciate him having saved me more trouble in the long run.

 

[schizo_man]

wow then you must be the exception, not the rule. I do tend to think that you're bullshitting though

 

[Randy Whorewald]

wow then you must be the exception, not the rule. I do tend to think that you're bullshitting though

I may be an exception Schiz, but this sort of thing impacts each of us differently. You cannot predetermine how you would react unless you have been there yourself. I still maintain there is obviously not much of a future between FG's cousin and the gal in question.