Should beta males settle for sloppy seconds?

[Harmony-bc]

I have never understood why guys don't want to be in the friend zone. I know one thing about me, is I make a really good friend, a much better friend than I do girlfriend, hahha. (I'm commitment and intimacy phobic with no desire to be monogamous) I also have some really amazing looking friends that my other friends get to meet.

I'll tell you the secret. Have fun, party, laugh, be silly. Be friends with tons of girls. The more friends that you have that are female, the more females you meet, and the more you learn about what makes females tick.

If you are going to feel sorry for yourself, and refuse to be friends with girls, and only want to hang out with them cause maybe you might get laid, you will never figure them out. I don't need an alpha male, but I definitely don't need a dejected, crybaby either.

Your attitude will keep you single for the rest of your life. Not your looks or your bank account, its your attitude that is off.

 

[edmontonsubbie]

I have never understood why guys don't want to be in the friend zone. I know one thing about me, is I make a really good friend, a much better friend than I do girlfriend, hahha. I also have some really amazing looking friends that my other friends get to meet. (I'm commitment and intimacy phobic with no desire to be monogamous)

I'll tell you the secret. Have fun, party, laugh, be silly. Be friends with tons of girls. The more friends that you have that are female, the more females you meet, and the more you learn about what makes females tick. If you are going to feel sorry for yourself, and refuse to be friends with girls, and only want to hang out with them cause maybe you might get laid, you will never figure them out. I don't need an alpha male, but I definitely don't need a dejected, crybaby either.

Your attitude will keep you single for the rest of your life. Not your looks or your bank account, its your attitude that is off.

spot on......(lengthening message to 10 characters....and rolling eyes)

 

[Thatotherguy]

So true!

I'll tell you the secret. Have fun, party, laugh, be silly. Be friends with tons of girls. The more friends that you have that are female, the more females you meet, and the more you learn about what makes females tick. If you are going to feel sorry for yourself, and refuse to be friends with girls, and only want to hang out with them cause maybe you might get laid, you will never figure them out. I don't need an alpha male, but I definitely don't need a dejected, crybaby either.

Your attitude will keep you single for the rest of your life. Not your looks or your bank account, its your attitude that is off.

Quoted for truth. Harmony tells it like it is!

 

[mimi]

I recommend a sex change. You would be much happier as an ugly woman. You already have the disposition of everyone's favourite mother-in-law and you savour the poor pitiful me role. As a woman you could get drunk at bars and let desperate men fuck you every weekend.

The little penis operation is not so bad, they just turn it inside out, you still get the same fantastic feelings...

Just try not to talk too much during sex.

 

[vince_chase]

It seems like even though women deny them sex and love throughout their teens and 20's, beta males should be thrilled to fill the provider role when women are finally ready to settle. I don't know about anyone else, but I could never bring myself to love a woman who spent her prime years banging 10, 20, or even more alpha males while rejecting/friendzoning average guys like me left and right.

If I don't get a girl within the next few years, I'm going to give up on the relationship thing and just see escorts for the rest of my life. I probably couldn't even be a provider type anyway (not ambitious enough and not attractive enough otherwise), but if I could I'd feel the same way. I think a lot of guys have adopted a similar attitude. Is there something wrong with this?

no,there is nothing wrong. you are who you are right now. you will change with time and maturity.
the world will be a very boring place if everyone is the same.
there is bit more to dating/finding a mate then sex. you will find that companion sooner or later who will give you something escorts can not - someone to grow old with.

don't give up!

 

[maroonedsailor]

Yes, you are fortunate that your chromosomes lined up to produce something that women would voluntarily sleep with. Give yourself a pat on the back for that.

From your posts, I gather you're in your early 40's. Better enjoy women actually being attracted to you while you can, because it's not going to last much longer.

Even the alphas lose out from this free-for-all dating system in the end, since once they lose their looks women will just toss them aside. Actually, in a way these guys have it worse than betas, since they're not used to being unwanted.

Dumbfuck!!!!! The world is full of seriously ugly guys with hot chicks. Alpha is about attitude not about looks - ask Henry Kissinger - If you're uglier than that there's always plastic surgery. If you're ugly inside then I'd say you're just fucked all around. great sex starts with LIKING women. Seems to me like you are a long way from that.

 

[Bartdude]

i don't need an alpha male, but i definitely don't need a dejected, crybaby either.

your attitude will keep you single for the rest of your life. Not your looks or your bank account, its your attitude that is off.

thank you !!!!

 

[HB40]

I recommend a sex change. You would be much happier as an ugly woman. You already have the disposition of everyone's favourite mother-in-law and you savour the poor pitiful me role. As a woman you could get drunk at bars and let desperate men fuck you every weekend.

The little penis operation is not so bad, they just turn it inside out, you still get the same fantastic feelings...

Just try not to talk too much during sex.

LMAO! That cracked me up, great post Mimi.

 

[BC_Boy]

I have never understood why guys don't want to be in the friend zone. I know one thing about me, is I make a really good friend, a much better friend than I do girlfriend, hahha.

im capable of being just friends with an attractive female if I dont have feelings for her; however, if i am feeling for her, then no way can i be just friends. its just too hard and too much temptation - kinda like dangling a carrot in front of a rabbit. just my honest opinion

 

[Fullhouse]

If I don't get a girl within the next few years, I'm going to give up on the relationship thing and just see escorts for the rest of my life. I probably couldn't even be a provider type anyway (not ambitious enough and not attractive enough otherwise), but if I could I'd feel the same way. I think a lot of guys have adopted a similar attitude. Is there something wrong with this?

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Grow up, grow some balls, and lose that shitty attitude. You're continuously sniveling and looking for pity and sympathy, and it's really starting to get very boring.

You seem to dislike all women, and think all women hate you. Maybe you're playing on the wrong team and don't even know it.

Go visit a few gay bars. You sound like perfect bitch material for some guy.

Get a life !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Bartdude]

For all we know he's got a degradation and abuse fetish - and he's trolling to be insulted

 

[bcneil]

Um he`s gone

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