Seeking Arrangement

[LusciousLouis]

I'm curious if anyone else here plays around on the Seeking Arrangement website.

I have had some good and some bad experiences with girls I have met through it. I've had a couple longterm arrangements that worked out perfectly where both parties were happy with what they got out of it. But I'm finding lately that more and more girls are going on it trying to lure men into paying them an 'allowance' with the promise of an ongoing companionship before ever spending quality time with them.

What many girls are doing lately is saying "Let's meet for coffee/drinks/dinner but can you pay me the allowance for our first week together today because I promise you that you'll be seeing me regularly" - But after she leaves with your money you never hear from her again. I never fall for it but I can see how some guys would, only to lose their money and never get anything for it.

Do any other perb members use SA and if so, have you noticed this as well?

 

[franz]

I'm curious if anyone else here plays around on the Seeking Arrangement website.

I have had some good and some bad experiences with girls I have met through it. I've had a couple longterm arrangements that worked out perfectly where both parties were happy with what they got out of it. But I'm finding lately that more and more girls are going on it trying to lure men into paying them an 'allowance' with the promise of an ongoing companionship before ever spending quality time with them.

What many girls are doing lately is saying "Let's meet for coffee/drinks/dinner but can you pay me the allowance for our first week together today because I promise you that you'll be seeing me regularly" - But after she leaves with your money you never hear from her again. I never fall for it but I can see how some guys would, only to lose their money and never get anything for it.

Do any other perb members use SA and if so, have you noticed this as well?

Have an account but never used it to meet any girl. And I agree with you the request of allowance beforehand is fishy, thats pretty much why I don't trust this. One Backpage girl had done this to me, asked donation and left.

 

[psc14868]

Had an account there. Did meet some genuine girls in 2014. Lately it feels like all girls want money deposited to them before spending quality time. Cancelled the account.....

 

[trebrep]

My experience really made me treasure the excellent SP experiences I have enjoyed over the years

I created an account in 2015 after the laws changed (C36) thinking things might never be the same in the SP world. Met a few women after lots of online bullshit.

One was straight forward but didn't really yank my chain so the thought of a permanent arrangement didn't appeal to me.

Met two others, one of which seemed to pan out well. Smart masters student, and gorgeous. Started out great but it didn't take long for the the drama to start. Calling me all the time. Expecting little chats every evening. Asking if I "really cared about her". Then she used the "L" word (likely didn't mean it of course - manipulation). Ran away as far as I could. Threatened to "out" me to my SO. I called her bluff by telling her to go ahead. She didn't. Crisis averted.

I didn't really realize how much I value the simplicity of what we do here. SP and client. Agreement made, fun had and then you part ways into your separate worlds. No fuss, no muss. I have made friends with many SP's and genuinely enjoyed sharing discussion above and beyond on many occasions. But we all understand that the twain shall never meet. You go your way, I go mine.

If others have great arrangements, all the power to them. My experience soured me on that approach and made me treasure the wonderful SP's I have met. Speaking of which, I can't wait until Destiny Xu reschedules....

 

[Aellyn Rose]

Here is another thread about SA. Quite recent.

 

[redgreen]

I tried SA in 2014 and found it frustrating. My first venture was a student in her late twenties, beautiful, but completely unrealistic about how things would work. She wanted her education paid for, and holidays and basically to be treated like a princess. We did hookup twice, and while it was good, and she was hot ... didn't compare to a professional sp. Thanks but no thanks.

The second venture, started and ended with drinks. She was late 30s, looked good, but wanted $800/month in advance and we would have a "date" weekly. It just looked and felt like an escort although Ive never seen her advertise. Who gives a stranger $800 over drinks? Not me.

I'm sticking to the escort system, simple, fun and so much variety. Keeping a few regulars is fine with me.

 

[LusciousLouis]

Thanks for sharing your experiences.

The second venture, started and ended with drinks. She was late 30s, looked good, but wanted $800/month in advance and we would have a "date" weekly. It just looked and felt like an escort although Ive never seen her advertise. Who gives a stranger $800 over drinks? Not me.

As hard as some of them try, I refuse to exchange any money until we have our first 'private & intimate' date.

On another note I had a date this past Wednesday with a girl from SA who I'd been chatting with for a couple weeks. It was honestly a really fun date. She was funny, pretty, very interesting and intelligent and we had a great range of conversations. But she was about 30 lbs heavier than her pics.

The last SB I had was a gorgeous little Canadian/Vietnamese spinner. Pretty face and smile, smart with great conversation, and a sexual dynamo. Not clingy and texting in between dates was minimal. She was pretty much the perfect SB. The arrangement was going well for a little over a month and then suddenly.....nothing. About a week after our last date I texted her but never got a reply. Tried two more times over the next few days with no reply. Within a couple days her SA profile was gone - or she blocked me...lol.

It's nice to see the influx of Quebec girls coming through Winnipeg lately. At least I have that to look forward to for now :thumb:

 

[LusciousLouis]

Here is another thread about SA. Quite recent.

Thank you Aellyn