Seeing (or not seeing) a SW who looks like someone in your life

[FreeG]

The subject line could go either way!

Have you ever seen a SW with a big reason being that she (or he, or they of course) looked like someone in your personal life? Maybe you fantasized about a co-worker or neighbor or friend...

Conversely, have you decided AGAINST seeing a SW because they looked too much like someone in your life (maybe a good friend, relative, etc)?

For me, I was about to setup a date with a highly reviewed SW then stopped... when I looked at her pictures again, it just struck me how much she looked like a relative and I just knew I wouldn't be able to get that out of my mind. No judgment here if you'd disagree with that or if you're able to separate such things in your mind, good on ya.

 

[Real Sonny Burnett]

Are you asking this question because today is Halloween? 🎃 😀

 

[FreeG]

Are you asking this question because today is Halloween? 🎃 😀

haha, no that's just a coincidence. Just a general question/curiosity/conversation starter.

 

[Mr. J]

I personally would steer clear of someone that looks like someone close to me. In my mindset, such a thing could be opening pandora's box.

 

[phukedup1]

I did have an appointment once with a lady who looked a lot like a former coworker who I disliked. While the lady herself was great, I found the resemblance too distracting to truly enjoy myself.

 

[masterpoonhunter]

I don't know you guys. I mean you are just fucking her not having a relationship of any ilk. I sure have no trouble of getting my dick dipped into some gal who resembles someone from my past, actually might be kinda hot.
One of my serious regrets was not banging my secretary way back in the day. Did find a semi look alike some time ago and quite enjoyed fantasizing we were back in the old office on my desk.

 

[LC18]

I sometimes meet men that look like other men that I know from my personal life. I have to physically stop myself from saying “you remind me of someone I know”.

As long as they don’t remind me of a family member I don’t really mind to be honest. There are so many “unique faces” on Earth, you will at one point meet someone that looks like someone else.

 

[FreeG]

I did have an appointment once with a lady who looked a lot like a former coworker who I disliked. While the lady herself was great, I found the resemblance too distracting to truly enjoy myself.

See, that would mess me up too!!

We could be in the middle of a fantastic date and I’d be biting my tongue from shouting “I TOLD YOU I SENT THE EMAIL YESTERDAY, JANICE!!”

Meanwhile, there’s a SW I see on Twitter who looks like an attractive acquaintance I know, and it’d be a lovely fantasy to see her (the SW, that is!)

 

[rampart]

Met a play for pay woman on Live/links years ago that reminded me of a good friend's wife ie. same height, hair color, & body. Asked if I could use my friends wife name while banging her which she enthusiastically said yes. Paid for 1.5 hours and ended up getting 2hours. The woman got right into it and it was a fantasy come true. Still have a tough time looking at my friends wife without thinking of those couple of times with her doppleganger.

 

[TerrR]

I’m actually wrestling with this issue currently. I have started visiting a lady who is well known and well reviewed. I’d like to say I was drawn to her because of her reviews and also because she’s gorgeous. My problem is she resembles my ex in more ways then one.
She is NOT my ex and I need to keep reminding myself of that.

(now that I’ve said this out loud I am questioning my choice)

 

[GeeBeeP]

I met an SP who looked VERY similar to a colleague from many years ago. I didn’t know it when I arranged to meet her (no face out pics available) but I realized it instantly when I walked in the door. The woman from my past was hot AF but married and had no interest in me. Would I have at the time? Fuck yes.

Did I think about it while we were in bed? Fuck yes. Have I done it again? Also fuck yes!!!

 

[204fun]

Met a play for pay woman on Live/links years ago that reminded me of a good friend's wife ie. same height, hair color, & body. Asked if I could use my friends wife name while banging her which she enthusiastically said yes. Paid for 1.5 hours and ended up getting 2hours. The woman got right into it and it was a fantasy come true. Still have a tough time looking at my friends wife without thinking of those couple of times with her doppleganger.

I've played out this same scenario with an SP who looked like and had a very similar demeanor to a friends wife. It was a thoroughly enjoyable role playing session that the SP and I have repeated a few times. Overall it was far preferable to making a dumb decision and trying to make a move on my friends wife

 

[vancitysir]

An ATF of mine looks a bit like a woman I dated long before the provider was born. I guess I must have a “type”

Alternatively, I recently left a session with a provider who resembled a former colleague feeling satisfied though a bit disconcerted. I’m retired, so I feel better that there’s no risk of intrusive thoughts during working hours!

 

[kelcaine]

On the flip side I have had clients who look a lot like people I know or celebrities. I had one repeat client who looked like the first guy I feel in love with when I was 18 years old. His parents didn’t approve of me because I didn’t follow his family’s religion, so we broke up, and I have many happy memories with this ex boyfriend, so I won’t lie there was some fantasies of mine in my head during our sessions.

The only time I had a client that looked like someone I didn’t like was someone who looked like my ex husband. My ex has a very distinct and unique look, and I had to do a double take looking out the peephole. I just kept reminding myself in my head that this man wasn’t my ex husband, but it felt uncomfortable. But I still went on with the session.

I think if you come across a provider who looks like someone you know, and you’re not comfortable it’s okay to not go through with a session. This happened to me one time, where someome walked in I booked in who insisted I was someone else and decided to walk out. I was upset feeling my time was wasted but also understood if this person felt uncomfortable.

 

[rlock]

I personally would steer clear of someone that looks like someone close to me. In my mindset, such a thing could be opening pandora's box.

How hot is this Pandora and what are her rates? ...

 

[luvsdaty]

I saw a sw that was Suzette Meyers doppleganger, Suzette was a beautiful redhead news anchor that hosted CKVU news back in the day. Her working name was Cher and she only worked for a month but I saw her four times in that month and it was awesome

 

[Uncled]

Years ago I met a service provider that was almost the spitting image of Mariah Carey (face and knockers).

 

[DorianGrey462]

Well I’ve never had that hang up myself but never went looking either. But that changed when I moved to the interior and was getting settled and looking to see what was out there. I searched LL and lo and behold I saw someone I actually knew from growing up. Twenty years but I knew it was her. I had had a crush on her growing up and actually got excited at the prospect but then stopped. It was weird. A year and a bit goes by and I keep seeing her ad. So I call and book.
I get to the incall and we chat, she has no idea who I am. We are about to start and I decided to come clean. It took her a second and she was worried because I knew her real name, I even offered to leave if it was weird.
well this isn’t a review but her answer was to drop to her knees. It was pretty surreal to fuck an old crush, but haven’t regretted it and I have repeated.

 

[masterpoonhunter]

Years ago I met a service provider that was almost the spitting image of Mariah Carey (face and knockers).

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When she was in her prime my unit stood at attention at the site of her!!

 

[Bunghole1]

Years ago I met a service provider that was almost the spitting image of Mariah Carey (face and knockers).

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Damn. Lucky you. I hope shes still available and I get to experience her someday.

If I ever find a female provider that is a spitting image of one of my top favourite celebs when it comes to looks I would most likely be broke. If you dont act on it it could be a forever missed chance with so many retiring from the business at any given time. I know I will never have the chance to be with any of my favourite celebrities but if I could get with their lookalikes? Count me broke. The hard part is how random it all is. With faces mostly hidden its hard to know unless they do show their face, someone points it out in a review or you play the booking lottery and hope that someday you strike gold.

I dont watch enough taboo storyline porn to know its perfectly fine to get randy with your sister or cousins lookalike. I mean your not blood related. Its only weird if you make it weird. I think it would be very nice and respectful to let the provider know how much she looks like your sister or cousin after the deed is done. I mean you dont want to tell her first and make it awkward. That would be rude.