if u knew me well deke u would know that i would NEVER do that intentionally. i have a hard enough time trying to be ME and having them trust my obvious difference without the trashy gossip, that defending them as i see them before slammin' them, is the last thought on their minds when trying to figure me out. from the treatment received by them just accepting me as me is not even considered, understandably. i think select others can and have already cornered the market on fickle comradery, slander, and competive misdoings from what i've witnessed. unfair, slimey and nothing i would give the time of day to .... those types!!! i have with full acknowledgement reccommended others knowing and accepting my own business loses, recommended others for requests for recommendations. so suggesting i do make a statement to harm others which i believe would come back to myself many times over is ignorant and damaging to me and my statements agendas!! again... i'm new, and puter stoopid as i've already admitted. little puter details are still lost with me. i was simply interested in what y'all had to say, had some time and read fast. i read what was here, listed and offered for me to read upon and since they were not CLOSED are open for my new opinion. i had no idea i posted more than 100 times....again i thought they just MISSPELLED "SENILE" and maybe talk to much!! hee hee....so don't "b" about the age of one's thread if commented on if u leave it to be commented on. besides....since when does one posted thought followed by an opinion have an expirey date. these thoughts and situations still occur a year later different names different folks...maybe it was meant for me to read and renew to remind and draw attention to that particular thought to revive those things that have been forgotton. ever think of that. ALL HAPPENS FOR A REASON!!!! when u reminice on events with pals in your life do you really think about how LONGGGGGGGG ago it was how over it is... move on!!!! no there are reasons!!!! i still want my change back from my quarter....my opinion is apparently less than 2 cents and i request my change!! wink....xo...azen......have a beer k!!