You might want to be a bit more specific..There are so many great service providers in this city, you could get recommendations on here for 100 different women, but what are you looking for other than around 30 and easy to talk to?
Emmy St. Clair has a very good reputation for being sweet, so you might want to check her out. But she doesn't take clients over 60 (and other great service providers also have age limits), and you said you're "older". How old are you: 60? 80?
I love Clementine Smithereens; she's great at making me feel comfortable, she's in her late 20's, and I would recommend her. But maybe you're looking for a BBW, or a spinner, or, or, or...who knows. Anyway, you should probably just look through the review section on here and you will find lots of great options.