Always YMMV
I've learned that. Not having a great deal of self-esteem, I don't expect great service, but I try to give it. I know that sounds backwards, but I've said before that a woman who enjoys the session is as much of a turn-on as her getting me off time and time again. That said, not everyone responds to each other in such a responsive manner. I always consider the reviews as an A1 experience, else why else write about it, and anticipate that I'll have whatever experience transpires.
Hope for the best, expect the worst is too strong a term for it; that involves pessimism that has no place in the contact between two people. But hope for the best, and have no expectations, for me, usually results in a very happy result for both parties.
Thankfully, sp's are highly sexual, otherwise they wouldn't be doing what they do (the classy ones). I think they ought to be rewarded for that.
Two cents, cheers, and have fun!
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