Why is it some guys see the same sp's regularly while other guys always see different ones? Myself I prefer to see the same girls regularly that way things are more comfortable and you know what to expect and what your getting. Now I'll admit I don't see only one regularly I see around 5 or so regularly, based on what I feel like for looks or services provided. So I may choose one because she is a wildcat in bed or I may choose another because she is very sensual or erotic. Or I may choose one because of certain services she provides or because a service she does is better than the other girls, sorry ladies but every bj is different and some women just got the knack. The other reason I choose regulars is so I know I'm not walking into a house with 3 guys waiting to kick my ass and take my money, so theres that. The other reason is you develop a rapport with the ladies and its much more relaxing than with a new one everytime. With a new girl you never know what you can do and there the possibility of the dreaded "Don't do that, I don't do that never have" had that happen a few times kinda puts a damper on the session. So what are your reasons for choosing a regular or a different one.
Regular sp's or Different everytime
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I will venture and say that it may be a matter of economics: Guys who have enough money to poon a lot can settle down after a while with the 2 or 5 best ones and stop bothering with new ones. Guys who don't have enough money to see more than 2 or 3 a year will feel that maybe they're "missing out" on some SP out there that they haven't tried. I'm in the middle tending to the latter kind, so I want to carefully select my SPs until I find the ones I prefer to repeat with (I have only repeated once, but, for example, I haven't been with two of the most highly appreciated SPs in this forum, and who knows, maybe once I meet them I won't try out any new ones unless they come with REALLY high praises).
I think I have TWS (Tiger Woods Syndrome) myself, I love to try as much new beaver as I can. I have repeated with a few and am not opposed to it by any means but I do love variety.
I also have a touch of the Tiger Woods. I don't get to poon too often, so I usually go with someone new. Sort of making up for a slack sex life in my early 20's. If I had the money, I would repeat with quite a few girls, but for me it's rare. Only times I go are with my steady girl, who charges me minimal, and one SP who I became friends with, but not anymore...
Oh wow I asked one of my regular sp's about this topic why would some guys see the same sp's regularly and why would some see different ones all the time. So she had a different take on the subject and that was that some guys have to see different ones all the time. So I asked her why is that and she simply responded because they are such a-holes the girls won't see them twice, they save their numbers and if they call again they never answer it or they block it. So I guess if you treat the women respectfully then they might actually want to see you, what a concept. Must be why I have never been turned down a repeat with a sp how about the rest of you. Might be time for an attitude adjustment, or you'll never realize how great these women really are when they want to be with you, instead of wanting to get rid of you.
I generally like to stick with regulars with occasional trips to new lands. The "problem" is that these regulars tend to get on with their lives and retire or simply move on to other things. This is great and I am genuinely happy for them. While I try new SP's for the thrill and adventure, I usually end up developing new regulars 
when I was going out on a regular-ish basis, I would rotate for variety...yes. But, it was more to prevent myself from developing too much in the way of a connection, or feeling, for whomever I was with. Just a habit from when I first started out, as I did have this happen a couple of times. It just kept things simple...
To obtain this list of regulars, they had to have been "new" girls at one time. I to have a few ladies that I see on a regular basis, but also test the waters once in a while hoping to find another regular lady. Also for the variety. It is nice to be with a lady whom you are familiar with, but the excitement of being with a lady for the first time is also wonderful.
So you start out this topic asking a question like you're actually curious and then you come back with this sad "pat yourself on the back" stupidity? Give it a rest
Good point Rexxx, I guess the old adage of I need to pat myself on the back is so true....
Just to add my penny which of course is worthless now lol. I like both aspects seeing a regular as the chemistry develops the experience can be more intimate and intense. But I also love the idea of new experience's as well!
I like to find one SP that hits all my hit buttons and stick with her so that her business goes well and she continues to provide the services that really do it for me. Sometimes the search for that SP brings the variety portion of the thread into play but I dislike the hit and miss of it. I'm willing to spend the extra $$'s for a couple of hours of an SP's time and really enjoy her company and MSOG. I don't always achieve it but it sure is fun to try with someone I get a connection with.
I know sometimes it's just that they remind me of an encounter from my younger and more virile days and sometimes it's just the connection with a beautiful new lady that rocks my world. I really hate the "get in, get on, get off". I also find that when I see the same SP a few times they get more adventurous. Cool fantasy outfits, fucking in front of the mirror in the bathroom. Destroying the back end of a couch while you bend them over....having them lie to me that I'm awesome! Lol!
Lie to me baby!
I know sometimes it's just that they remind me of an encounter from my younger and more virile days and sometimes it's just the connection with a beautiful new lady that rocks my world. I really hate the "get in, get on, get off". I also find that when I see the same SP a few times they get more adventurous. Cool fantasy outfits, fucking in front of the mirror in the bathroom. Destroying the back end of a couch while you bend them over....having them lie to me that I'm awesome! Lol!
Lie to me baby!
I like to have a couple of regulars going all the time. However finding that total package is few and far between. I mostly look for a spinner to athletic build, dfk, bbbj, daty, non-smoker, and clean in call location. Most of the time if I can find 5 of my 6 requirements I am happy.
