really off topic question about jelousy for married men and others?

[resercher]

This is something that I am guessing the married men know the answer to but I just do not get it .


why do married women get really mad


When there husband looks at or sees A photograph or picture. Of an atractive women who he will never meet or have sex with .I am not talking about pornography Though i dont get that either . In both these cases there was no nudity,



Example 1 a married frend of mine was at a comunity yard sale His wife got really mad and started to yell using really abusive language about some woman. Mostley insulting her intelleigence .

I later found out that the cause of her anger was a photograph of Maryline Monroe. Husband told me his wife would hated Monroe Any time she saw a picture of Maryline Monroe she had this reaction. The photograph just showed Monroe's face that was it .

I mean the women is dead and had been dead for about 32 years when this happend . I do not even think there would be a skeltion left if sombody tried to dig up the body . Her husband is not going to have sex with Monroe? I am pretty shure he never met her.


Example 2
I saw the same thing happen once in a electronic game store around cristmas time A wife was there with her husband . Think they where there to get a gift for one of there chidren . This time it was not an actual girl . The ofensive women " and i use the term loosley" was in fact the picture on the cover for an xbox game of some kind . Again yelling at her husband with abusive language From the wife towards the picture .

Im like Wtf. Is she worred that lara croft or whoever was on the game's box cover . Is somehow going to jump out of the box and fuck her balding middle aged overweght husband. In the middle of the electronic game store ?

It was a picture on a stupid xbox game I mean this time it was not even a real person ?

Does anybody have any clues as to why some married women behave like this ?

 

[SolidSnake]

Hormone imbalance from menopause? Extreme insecurity? Who knows?

 

[apl16]

Lol.......I consider myself lucky. My ex used to be annoyed by women that had large breasts commenting about how they can't be real. She would always point out all thin women with big boobs telling me to look. Take a good look. I always complied with happiness in my heart and loins!
Maybe it because if I got horny enough she was in for a good time later. She is one of the most intelligent people I've ever known.

 

[manni]

I've gone through that jealous GF experience in my 20s and 30s.
could never understand why the silent treatment after getting caught rubber-necking in public.

in hindsight, I think it's basically insulting their feelings, even though we men, think nothing of it.
they're thinking, 'why look at her when you can have this? there's a reason why I'm the GF.'
and age has nothing to do with it. I always thought girls under 30 (no kids) are still unsure of themselves,
not confident.

now in my late 40s, I wouldn't want a significant other because I know
I will be sneaking behind her back, going to AMPs or indies. plus, feelings get hurt
and it's just not a good situation for either party. P4P suits me just fine, NSA.

life's mysteries I guess.

 

[deepflyball]

This is something that I am guessing the married men know the answer to but I just do not get it .


why do married women get really mad


When there husband looks at or sees A photograph or picture. Of an atractive women who he will never meet or have sex with .I am not talking about pornography Though i dont get that either . In both these cases there was no nudity,



Example 1 a married frend of mine was at a comunity yard sale His wife got really mad and started to yell using really abusive language about some woman. Mostley insulting her intelleigence .

I later found out that the cause of her anger was a photograph of Maryline Monroe. Husband told me his wife would hated Monroe Any time she saw a picture of Maryline Monroe she had this reaction. The photograph just showed Monroe's face that was it .

I mean the women is dead and had been dead for about 32 years when this happend . I do not even think there would be a skeltion left if sombody tried to dig up the body . Her husband is not going to have sex with Monroe? I am pretty shure he never met her.


Example 2
I saw the same thing happen once in a electronic game store around cristmas time A wife was there with her husband . Think they where there to get a gift for one of there chidren . This time it was not an actual girl . The ofensive women " and i use the term loosley" was in fact the picture on the cover for an xbox game of some kind . Again yelling at her husband with abusive language From the wife towards the picture .

Im like Wtf. Is she worred that lara croft or whoever was on the game's box cover . Is somehow going to jump out of the box and fuck her balding middle aged overweght husband. In the middle of the electronic game store ?

It was a picture on a stupid xbox game I mean this time it was not even a real person ?

Does anybody have any clues as to why some married women behave like this ?

I tell my wife that she should only worry when I stop looking at other women....

 

[westwoody]

Women generally resent attention being paid to other women.

 

[apl16]

As a girl with big boobs I couldn't walk into the bathroom at a nightclub or go to a house party without girls wanting to feel my boobs. Or show them to their boyfriends. Girls can be funny that way.

I'm a dumbass! I should have asked if it was OK to prove it with a feel test!

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

I dunno...I don't get it. I've never been one of those women; I'm more likely to be the one elbowing my fella and muttering "Did you see the ASS on that girl...?" with admiration & lust as a sweet young thang wiggles by..

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

It's interesting spending time with women in their 40s / 50s and the difference in what they are socially used to when it comes to men and sexually explicit photos they looks at.
..

Again, I think it has more to do with UPBRINGING/EXPERIENCE than age. It's true that a lot of women of my generation still had the experience of 'only bad girls enjoy sex' or 'sex is just for reproduction' indoctrination when they were young. I wasn't raised that way; never saw sex that way. I'm part of the 'if it feels good, DO IT!' generation!

 

[Feenix]

It has been said already. Jealousy is a by product of feelings of inadequacies.

When we feel secure in ourselves and our relationships, we do not worry if our partners ogle members of the opposite sex. I love being in threesomes of both kinds, and watching and hearing my partner being pleasured by another person. If I were younger my ideal relationship would be with a woman who enjoys swinging.

I would try to avoid being in a relationship with a jealous type.

Oh! And BTW, Erica! I am ogling your breasts in the pic above. Just don't tell my wife. :eyebrows:

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

It has been said already. Jealousy is a by product of feelings of inadequacies.

When we feel secure in ourselves and our relationships, we do not worry if our partners ogle members of the opposite sex. I love being in threesomes of both kinds, and watching and hearing my partner being pleasured by another person. If I were younger my ideal relationship would be with a woman who enjoys swinging.

I would try to avoid being in a relationship with a jealous type.

Oh! And BTW, Erica! I am ogling your breasts in the pic above. Just don't tell my wife. :eyebrows:

Feenix, you can ogle away anytime! Hell, bring a friend along; we'll all mutually ogle!

 

[ashley]

This is something that I am guessing the married men know the answer to but I just do not get it .


why do married women get really mad


When there husband looks at or sees A photograph or picture. Of an atractive women who he will never meet or have sex with .I am not talking about pornography Though i dont get that either . In both these cases there was no nudity,



Example 1 a married frend of mine was at a comunity yard sale His wife got really mad and started to yell using really abusive language about some woman. Mostley insulting her intelleigence .

I later found out that the cause of her anger was a photograph of Maryline Monroe. Husband told me his wife would hated Monroe Any time she saw a picture of Maryline Monroe she had this reaction. The photograph just showed Monroe's face that was it .

I mean the women is dead and had been dead for about 32 years when this happend . I do not even think there would be a skeltion left if sombody tried to dig up the body . Her husband is not going to have sex with Monroe? I am pretty shure he never met her.


Example 2
I saw the same thing happen once in a electronic game store around cristmas time A wife was there with her husband . Think they where there to get a gift for one of there chidren . This time it was not an actual girl . The ofensive women " and i use the term loosley" was in fact the picture on the cover for an xbox game of some kind . Again yelling at her husband with abusive language From the wife towards the picture .

Im like Wtf. Is she worred that lara croft or whoever was on the game's box cover . Is somehow going to jump out of the box and fuck her balding middle aged overweght husband. In the middle of the electronic game store ?

It was a picture on a stupid xbox game I mean this time it was not even a real person ?

Does anybody have any clues as to why some married women behave like this ?

You never know till you've walked a mile in someone's else's shoes? ( I could be mistaken on the saying )
Who knows if your married friend is being totally honest with you sounds bazaar to flip over A dead famous woman Marilyn Monroe? Doesn't make sense ...either your friends crazy for marrying her or there's something more to this??? Who knows maybe he gives this dead famous woman more attention then his wife? The fact that he has any pictures of this lady Marilyn Monroe for his spouse to find knowing it drives her this crazy tells me there's something deeper ???
You don't know if maybe he is a pornographic addict and so the wife is extra sensitive. Or it could be a case of this guy does have roving eyes for other women and is appropriate ...maybe she finally lost it because he was being a prev while buying their child's Christmas gift the Xbox. Or she has caught him cheating. And men you don't have to rubber neck while out with your lady??? I mean you may behave that way when she's not around? Or she's just psycho

 

[ashley]

Some married guys seem to have never mastered the art of making their wife feel special, needed and wanted. I know it took me a long time but once you do she won't give 2 shits about him looking at an old glam photo of a star like Marilyn.

Agreed ...

 

[Tugela]

It's interesting spending time with women in their 40s / 50s and the difference in what they are socially used to when it comes to men and sexually explicit photos they looks at.

Women my age are used to dating guys who are constantly scrolling through The Chive looking at almost naked 15 year olds all day. It's our normal. We might not stay in relationships because of it but it's not shocking to any 20 or 30 something to see your partner do that, or be surprised when their phone consisted of tons of naked pictures of women.

But recently I had a friend in her late 40's show me a text she caught their husband sending to his friend talking about how he'd love to fuck this 20 something in a photo he sent. She's telling me it makes her feel disgusted and that she doesn't know who he is anymore and is thinking about divorce. Her argument is their daughters are the same age. To me, being used to seeing that on a regular basis had me kinda shocked. I couldn't help but think, this is just what most men do and it's no big deal if it's not an obsession or porn addiction. I just break it down to the generational gap.

I do think what your talking about comes down to insecurity in themselves and the relationship mixed together with a history of issues related to love and sex. Or maybe just being sick of the marriage and their partner and any excuse to lose it they take. But, we never know the real dynamics of any relationship. Maybe that women caught him having an affair with a marilyn monroe look alike last week... Or maybe she's just nuts. We never know the whole story. But either way I hope to never be a part of anything that toxic.

It is not a generation thing, it is insecurity, because she knows that he will never look at her like that now, but once, a long time ago, he did. So she feels she has lost something, but this other woman in the image now has it, and she is threatened by that. Instead of expressing what she is really feeling, she projects onto her daughters and consequently the husband is a sick fuck for thinking of his daughters like that. So instead of it being an issue with her, it becomes an issue with him.

People do this kind of stuff all the time, and not only on sexual matters, on everything to do with life.