Given what some of the ladies have put up with, I think you could easily get away with eating bacon bits off their tits. It may be a bit strange but it probably wouldn't upset most (unless of course they are Muslim). So why not ask? 
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I feel you on this, I’m exactly the same, I just try my best to have fun…
Personally, and I’m probably out of the ordinary in this, I prefer to have dates after dark…I like to host if the provider offers outcall, so I can block out my bedroom and get the vibe how I like it lighting wise, but I’m way hornier and feel friskiest after dark for some reason, and summer in this city makes that difficult.
Something that’s been on my mind for a while now…..
Is it ever ok to try to chat up your gym crush at the gym?
If so, what’s the best approach not to be intrusive of their sacred space?
What kind of signals can I interpret as in invitation to say hello versus someone just being friendly?
Is it stalkery to try to low key pay attention enough so you could follow them out when they leave and do it then?
I see some guys that seem a little bit predatory to me and approach/follow around every cute new girl that comes in, and I’m not sure how it pans out for them - granted I’m likely projecting a bit here.
I suppose if you just don’t give a shit and keep it light it is no big deal, but I usually tend to reside the fantasy (delusion?) that I’d rather not be intrusive and believe that I’d have success if I were to take the chance, but that my crush probably prefers not to be bothered when they are trying to get their sweat on.
Is it ever ok to try to chat up your gym crush at the gym?
If so, what’s the best approach not to be intrusive of their sacred space?
What kind of signals can I interpret as in invitation to say hello versus someone just being friendly?
Is it stalkery to try to low key pay attention enough so you could follow them out when they leave and do it then?
I see some guys that seem a little bit predatory to me and approach/follow around every cute new girl that comes in, and I’m not sure how it pans out for them - granted I’m likely projecting a bit here.
I suppose if you just don’t give a shit and keep it light it is no big deal, but I usually tend to reside the fantasy (delusion?) that I’d rather not be intrusive and believe that I’d have success if I were to take the chance, but that my crush probably prefers not to be bothered when they are trying to get their sweat on.
Yes, If you are attractive and she is giving you non verbal signals to chat her up.
I agree, I don’t know, which is why I attempted to qualify that statement ( poorly it would seem ) - I try not to judge others as a rule and typically interrupt those kinds of thoughts when they arise with exactly the kind of statements you made, i was more using him as a counterpoint, and don’t get me wrong we are cordial and are gym acquaintances and friendly - it’s prolly that I am envious, it’s just a lurky vibe I sense when there is a new super hot lady there….
I don't think any of us can answer this without seeing the guy and seeing how he interacts with them.
He could be a stud who is banging multiple hotties at the gym. Or he could be that annoying, socially inept guy who hits on girls who have him in the friend zone.
But as the above poster says, don't always assume the guy is the pursuer. One of my good friends is a personal trainer at one of these fancy gyms downtown, and he is basically a male prostitute to the girls he trains, they specifically ask to get trained by him, and then they ask him for sex or ask for him to do "home workouts". Sometimes he isn't even attracted to them, he just doesn't want to lose them as a client.
If you are attracted to a woman and you want to show that you are interested in her, just be sure you know the difference between flirting and harrassment:
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As summer slowly arrives motorcycling and bicycling is on my mind. In no particular order.
Couple weeks ago when I saw a doctor at a clinic, the topic of why there was a shortage of doctors came up. The doctor told me that there is only 230 positions for a medical student, when there are over 1000 applicants. The reality is there isn't enough money to train up the doctors and that is there is not 600-700 students, you only get 230.
So I am thinking if they ever do put in more student positions, will the medical people in BC actually hire that many doctors? Or will most of them go work in the USA.
This has been a ongoing battle in Canada, educate people, train them and only to have them go to the US for more money?
This not only happens in the medical field, but also in other field too.
Just thought to add this article on brain drain....
https://universityaffairs.ca/features/feature-article/canadas-accidental-brain-drain/
So I am thinking if they ever do put in more student positions, will the medical people in BC actually hire that many doctors? Or will most of them go work in the USA.
This has been a ongoing battle in Canada, educate people, train them and only to have them go to the US for more money?
This not only happens in the medical field, but also in other field too.
Just thought to add this article on brain drain....
https://universityaffairs.ca/features/feature-article/canadas-accidental-brain-drain/
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I love walking with a man and grabbing his arm instead of his hand. I feel safer and it’s easier for him to give me forehead kisses 🥰
Thinking women on sügar báby websites aren’t escorts or seeing multiple sûgar dâddies is very naive. Unless you are giving a significant allowance it is very unlikely that she’s only seeing you.
BC election is almost here. None of the choices inspire me, which depresses me. It’s even a struggle to pick the least bad option.
Had my first session with a BBW. Not my cup of tea even though she tried hard. Even so, I still want to book with a lady with a little soft tummy. I don’t know why though.
My to “do list” just keeps getting longer and longer and sometimes I feel a little bit defeated because of this.
I hope I’m around to see us land people on Mars.
I love these dry fall days.
Had my first session with a BBW. Not my cup of tea even though she tried hard. Even so, I still want to book with a lady with a little soft tummy. I don’t know why though.
My to “do list” just keeps getting longer and longer and sometimes I feel a little bit defeated because of this.
I hope I’m around to see us land people on Mars.
I love these dry fall days.
