Race perference

[genhunter]

Do any of you who are asian run into any problem or mis-treatment with non-asian SP? or they are not as into it because of your racial background?

Just wondering if there is a race preference or does most SP can care less as long as they get paid?

 

[SGTSLEUTH]

Do any of you who are asian run into any problem or mis-treatment with non-asian SP? or they are not as into it because of your racial background?

Just wondering if there is a race preference or does most SP can care less as long as they get paid?

I know ladies that won't see East Indian Men

 

[genhunter]

I know ladies that won't see East Indian Men

so safe to say no horror stories for being Chinese then?

 

[SGTSLEUTH]

so safe to say no horror stories for being Chinese then?

Not that I have heard so far.

 

[wpgguy]

I've heard of a few Asian ladies that won't see Asian clients in case they would have a relative show up as a customer, but I have to admit I think it seems to be more of an issue in Toronto than out west.

 

[Moose]

I've never had any problems.

 

[MrIncredible]

I haven't been turned away, but sometimes I think the service is lacking. A few sp with stellar reviews were mediocore when I went, even after it was a couple of times. I can't say for sure it is race related could be YMMV as always.

 

[Funloverking]

I've heard of a few Asian ladies that won't see Asian clients in case they would have a relative show up as a customer, but I have to admit I think it seems to be more of an issue in Toronto than out west.

That'd be quite awkward, you show up and it's your cousin.. or even worse your sister or daughter.

 

[wpgguy]

That'd be quite awkward, you show up and it's your cousin.. or even worse your sister or daughter.

No, the worst would be Mom or Grandma

 

[87112]

I'm Chinese, never had 1 issue in all these years. Granted I only see Asian now but in the past when it all white women none said no.

 

[BC_Boy]

im asian and never had problems. in fact, IMHO, i've often been on the positive end of YMMV with caucasian SPs.

 

[wolverine]

I've known quite a few SPs who refuse to see Middle Easterners and East Indians because they supposedly have a tendency to haggle over price and be abusive. I don't believe that attitude is limited within race lines.

 

[Funloverking]

No, the worst would be Mom or Grandma

I think daughter is the most awkward still, but mom and sister are close second, and grandma is just sick.

 

[Annalise Lane]

I've known quite a few SPs who refuse to see Middle Easterners and East Indians because they supposedly have a tendency to haggle over price and be abusive. I don't believe that attitude is limited within race lines.

I'm on this side of the fence, unless they are Canadian born and raised. With no accent from EI I have never turned them away but with one, I seem to always be busy. EI gents are EXACTLY as others discribe, not so clean, abusive, hard to communicate with, and fuss over donation.

Anyone here with a good way to put "I'd rather not see you" Please pm me it's a struggle to stay polite, yet get your point across.

 

[genhunter]

this may be off topic, since im new to this just wondering who drives the experience? The SPs or the client?

would shyness be a turn off for SPs?

My last question before moving forward to my first experience

thanks for all your help and opinions by the way.

 

[Funloverking]

this may be off topic, since im new to this just wondering who drives the experience? The SPs or the client?

would shyness be a turn off for SPs?

My last question before moving forward to my first experience

thanks for all your help and opinions by the way.

Depends on the SP, but a lot of SPs treat you extra well if you tell them it's your first time.. but someone please correct me if I'm wrong..

FLK

 

[felix29]

this may be off topic, since im new to this just wondering who drives the experience? The SPs or the client?

would shyness be a turn off for SPs?

My last question before moving forward to my first experience

thanks for all your help and opinions by the way.

Not from what I have experienced.

What you will need is a more agressive SP, one who can take charge of the situation and make the suggestions that you are likely to want but to shy to suggest

 

[genhunter]

Not from what I have experienced.

What you will need is a more agressive SP, one who can take charge of the situation and make the suggestions that you are likely to want but to shy to suggest

so if you are shy and you happen to meet a non-aggressive SP, then two people would just stare at each other and chat for the entire duration? or is the general rule of thumb be, if you dont ask, you dont get kinda approach.

Or if I put it in a different word, does most SP assume what most client want (standard menu), I mean is there ever that chance that if the SP finds out your a newbie she would take advantage of it by holding back or not suggesting anything extracurricular

 

[felix29]

so if you are shy and you happen to meet a non-aggressive SP, then two people would just stare at each other and chat for the entire duration? or is the general rule of thumb be, if you dont ask, you dont get kinda approach.

Or if I put it in a different word, does most SP assume what most client want (standard menu), I mean is there ever that chance that if the SP finds out your a newbie she would take advantage of it by holding back or not suggesting anything extracurricular

I have found that the more open/aggressive an SP was the better the experience. It tends to be a little more akward with a non aggressive SP.


Now of course being shy and not asking for more exotic fare, you are not going to get the wild times that some reviewers have posted