R&T etiquete

[bcneil]

I hope this doesn't sound like toblerony thread, but an unusual thing happened last night.
I was just getting back from Vegas, plane was delayed 4 hours, so I needed a massage after spending the day sitting around in Mccarran. So decided on a place I knew I would be driving by anyways.

Get my massage nice and everything. The flip, and after literally 2 minutes asks why I don't cum.
I am not sure what to say, so I said something like I like to take it slow.
She tells me I need to concentrate more and cum. Then something about how she makes them all cum by now.
Now I know she is just bullshitting that most clients cum in 2 minutes.

But, what is acceptable? I enjoy the tug more than the massage and like to enjoy it.
Is it rude to take a few minutes anyways? I can see if a guy expects another 60 minutes after the flip before he cums.
I have been to some places where it seems like they are trying to get you off asap, but if you ask them to slow it down, I have never had a problem.

How long it too long? This lady last night got me all concerned that I am this bad man, trying to wear out girls hands. :doh:

 

[lenny]

Hurry up & cum, man, she needs to get to her crack pipe!

 

[zenoofelea]

This is a great topic, thanks for posting!

As a masseuse, I often wonder the same thing. It's hard to know how much time to allocate for the happy ending at the end of a massage session.

It's been my experience that the 'average' R&T client orgasms within 5 - 10 minutes of beginning direct stimulation of the penis and balls.

Some guys cum before the flip, some cum within a couple minutes, some need to take longer just because it takes them longer.

But I would agree that you were being rushed after 2 minutes.

Why is this so difficult? It behooves any good masseuse to get in synch with her client through communication. Why leave it to chance and how your last customer performed? If one pays for an hour, one should expect an hour of enjoyment tailored to one's own preferences, not a bell curve analysis of previous clients.

 

[McDiver]

Why is this so difficult? It behooves any good masseuse to get in synch with her client through communication. Why leave it to chance and how your last customer performed? If one pays for an hour, one should expect an hour of enjoyment tailored to one's own preferences, not a bell curve analysis of previous clients.

I guess you can tell how long it takes for you to cum to the second. lol Most of us haven't perfected that yet and have a different experience every time, so I am not sure how the masseuse is expected to figure that out.

 

[Arrrg]

How about R&T technique? If it's not good, I'll take forever to cum. I love it when it feels like I'm getting a BJ but I'm not. I have not idea how they do that.