Question to SP's on the behaviors of us married pooners

[Sleepmonger]

I’m curious as to our SP’s opinions on the behaviors of the married pooners they meet. It’s fairly obvious that a lot of us are indeed married. Some have to be discreet about it, some say they are in open relationships, and finally some actually are in open relationships.

My question is this: Does it make you feel awkward if pooners are open with you about their family lives? Would my wearing a wedding ring, or mentioning things about my life at home, bother you?

Obviously I’m not talking about during the act. Anyone who talks about someone else during sex deserves a slap upside the head

I’ve been around likeminded individuals for so long that I never even thought it might bother some SP’s.

 

[Puddlegurl]

Doesn't bother me one bit either, we all have personal reasons we do what we do, to be perfectly honest I prefer married or attached clients as it keeps it simple, you don't get the uncomfortable discussions about going for coffee, or a date etc. I have been told by a few single clients they hope to meet a girlfriend/escort by pooning as that's the kind of woman for them,lol..

 

[blazejowski]

I used to take off my ring when I pooned, but now that I have been married a number of years, there's not only a tan line on my finger, but a "dent" there, too, so a girl would have to be blind not to notice....

 

[Dgodus]

I used to take off my ring when I pooned, but now that I have been married a number of years, there's not only a tan line on my finger, but a "dent" there, too, so a girl would have to be blind not to notice....

Ahaha you're basically branded now.

 

[blazejowski]

Ahaha you're basically branded now.

Well, that and the dead look in my eyes.... lol...

 

[Ray]

Well, that and the dead look in my eyes.... lol...

And the blue balls...

 

[Dgodus]

And the giant, swollen, stretched to the limit, bursting at the seams, blue balls...

Fixed it for you.

 

[skiguru]

Who was it that said there are only 2 kinds of really happy people in the world; married women and single men.

 

[apis]

Hi all

New to PERB and this whole world. I haven't seen any of the wonderful ladies on this board yet but have scheduled to change that this Friday! This topic was on my mind though. I'm glad to hear from Puddlegurl and Vanessa as I'd rather be upfront about it - if nothing else it opens up more topics of conversation. What are other ladies' thoughts?

 

[AnnaSteel]

It shouldn't bother the sp... Single or attached it doesn't matter but if it wasn't for any of you guys none of the girls would be here either

 

[deleted Miss Lux]

I agree with the other ladies as well... It doesn't bother me if I know or they talk about it. Sometimes people need a safe place to talk and I think that is a part of what we offer at times

 

[mistressfreyja]

I feel like I am in no position to judge. I like communicating and getting to know each other with those who also enjoy getting to know me. It's not about the details, but rather building rapport and a comfort level.

 

[Avery]

This thread reminds me of a conversation I had a few years ago with a well-known Toronto escort (long retired). I asked her, "So, what have you learned from your two years in escorting?" She replied, "How unfaithful men are!"

 

[satinguy]

I have come to accept that married men cheat, especially if they travel for business. If I ever get married this is something I will just accept and hope that he's smart enough to be honest about it and stick to cheating with escorts.

Will you Marry Me Miss Melody?

 

[FunSugarDaddy]

Do I get American citizenship?

Be careful what you wish for, as I have several US clients who now have to file US tax returns (as well as Canadian) for the rest of their lives and hate it wish a passion.

 

[satinguy]

Do I get American citizenship?

A lifetime of happiness, joy, and intimacy but sadly no American Citizenship. 100% Canadian but i am a pretty good cook, a great BBQer, and i do my own laundry. I would definitely do yours as well and i enjoy shopping with Ladies but sadly can't provide the Stars and Stripes.

 

[thebuttdance]

If I can surmise from reading -men who feel a lack of personal pleasure in their lives may act unfaithful to a marriage in a hedonistic context, which can be hurtful to their wives; at the same time, it's good for business for the lady to disregard and encourage for a professional context.

 

[satinguy]

AND you live in Edmonton?
2 strikes sir.

I could move, California perhaps?

 

[Strawberry]

Who was it that said there are only 2 kinds of really happy people in the world; married women and single men.

Would totally disagree, bad sex between married people is a result of laziness. This comes from a poonette ...... Don't hear much from us on here, lol . Here is an idea why don't all you fellow pooners try pooning with your wife !!!! You might be surprised she may like it !!!!!! My hubby and I have the best times when we do, we all learn new stuff and I have meet really fun interesting sp . Also it keeps me motivated to stay sexy and in shape because of the hot girls we spend time with
And no I don't think the sp mind you married pooners talking as it provides interesting stories for us marrieds who have a blast together
I love to have my cake and eat it to !

 

[Sleepmonger]

Would totally disagree, bad sex between married people is a result of laziness. This comes from a poonette ...... Don't hear much from us on here, lol . Here is an idea why don't all you fellow pooners try pooning with your wife !!!! You might be surprised she may like it !!!!!! My hubby and I have the best times when we do, we all learn new stuff and I have meet really fun interesting sp . Also it keeps me motivated to stay sexy and in shape because of the hot girls we spend time with
And no I don't think the sp mind you married pooners talking as it provides interesting stories for us marrieds who have a blast together
I love to have my cake and eat it to !

What method of "pooning with your wife" are you suggesting? I've tried the MFF way, but the language barrier made things troublesome for me, and less interesting all around. I think the only way that would work is with someone like Yoko Anna.

I've also tried the "pooning with your wife" where she is the escort. Called her from work and set up a 2 hour appointment for later that day. She set up an incall in a spare room and got a reasonable "donation" out of it to spend on whatever she wanted. Not all that much of a stretch for us, but it was still lots of fun to keep her on a tight schedule.