Interesting topic the "Penthouse forum reviews". Do you really want to know? Let start with reviews in general. I have found over the years that reviews are very dangerous. It is a no win situation. I go though a period when I write a lot of reviews. Then after getting attacked by members of a board, persecuted by SPs, being banned from agencies, having SPs refusing to see me, and threatening PMs, I stop. Some members of a board even think because of what I do with SPs it reduces other pooner's chances of getting good service. Really? But ok......
I never review in Europe. I think it is like crapping in you own back yard. Might be easy but it can sure smell up the neighborhood. Making it very unattractive to live there.
I use to review in Toronto but then a recent negative review I wrote blew up in my face and so have so many other reviews in the past. So pulled back there as well. I still think there is a cross on Young street with my name on it with a number of people holding a match. This is especially true when you mess with people's emotions. Ok to fuck someone up the ass and urinate on them is ok but do not ask for emotional simulation. One SP told me that she would rather be called a whore, be fucked hard, and short changed than have to survive a day at the spa, have dinner with me, and be given gifts and do any over night with me. Go figure.
I have learned on Perb it is a no win situation as well. If you do a negative one you get attacked by the white knights and SPs. If you do a good one you can feel the sarcasm in the responses and your reviews are asked to be pulled. As one Perb member pointed out he would not see a SP I saw because of the gushing review I would post. So now I do them more for me. So I do only the good ones that bring back good memories. Sorry it is every man for himself. No one believes what you write anyway so what is the point.
I find it funny a review is like a car accident everyone wants to take a peek but no one wants to own it. It should be the other guy who takes it on the chin. Many SPs hate them as it hurts their business once they are established. They say they are not "kiss and tell" ladies. Only at the beginning when ladies are attempting to get established do reviews serve a purpose. Many established ladies have a "no review policy". Her regulars do not want to know what she does with other clients. It makes them feel, well "less special".
I recently did a bunch for the memories and did not realize that good reviews can be so damaging for a SPs. Sharing our experience was a problem as her other high end clients read them and those clients were hurt as it took away from there experience with her. Her clients kept asking the SP why don't you do that with me. So I had them removed. I do not write them to hurt any one. It is to recall positive memories and to make my experience more enjoyable.
On the style. I use to write the short versions. But as the objective changed so did my style. Moving from the L, A, B, S type to the so call "Penthouse style" allows me to relive the moment in the style I like. You need to ask the SP what she likes. Most do not like them, especially if it hurts her client's Impression of her. High end ladies do not like them at all. Not good for business. Even wonder why the best SPs have few reviews. Those starting out need them but the high end ladies live off referrals outside Reviews. One SP told me many of the high end clients would never see a lady on PERB. Interesting. The high end clients seek other ladies, lower volume, exclusive ladies. High end clients to not want to know what she does with others, only what she will do for him. Who wants other guys seconds? You want to stick your face where a guy just blew his load?
On prior approval of reviews. Yes, in most cases I have the SP review it and comment on her take of the event. Now I am asking the SP to give me her take on the night and I like to compare our vision of the night. All Off line of course. What was her take on what happened? It makes it so much more enjoyable for me to feel special.
Since most of my dates are dinner dates and over nights and involve some type of event. I have much more to recall than a one hour or two hour roll in bed. Mine tend to require more planning and a number of elements. Recently just did one where I had the SP spend the day at the spa. Then had her come to me in a limo service. Brought her up to the penthouse suite to be met by two guitar players and singers. Had the room decorated with a Christmas tree, candles, in a holiday theme. Then had dinner served, by our own private waiter, in the room we were the serenading took place. A little private dancing. Which turned into a karaoke event, her singing with the guys. This was followed by a two hour special visit by a SP that my SP wanted to see for her total pleasure. Followed by an over night for the two of us. Not sure I can do it justice in a few paragraphs. Does not matter as I would not review her again, too much trouble for her, her clients, and me. Many of the PERB members dislike my reviews so what is the point. They provide no value for those members. As one member put it. "Just the Facts" "just the facts". Does she dfk and bbbj? Besides they can not relate to my events as they are totally foreign to many who are interest in just a half hour, one or two hour date. Now I just review for my own pleasure. Maybe I am getting too old for this.
I have had a SP review my review and approve it. Then I was asked to remove it and or change it once it was posted. Her other clients did not like it. I think the one that stung the most was when she ask me to take it off because it was too explicit. Then when I did she posted one that was as explicit as what I wrote. To add to that others were as explicit as mine. There are other elements that were coming to play. But the review was the symptom not the disease.
I normally do not keeps lists or keep notes on the SPs I have seen over the years. I do remember special moments with those special ladies I have had the pleasure of seeing. I wonder if they remember me. But it is like the wind on a hot Spanish night. It comes and goes. If you wait there will another one to follow. Each as beautify as the last. But in that moment it feels so good! Don't get attached as it will be gone as soon as you blink an eye. Don't feel bad another one will be by in a heart beat.
Over all reviews are not a good thing. You are damned if you do and damned if you don't. But that is just my opinion and I have learned my opinion does not mean much any more.
But I could not resist this topic.
