Question for married pooners

[BobbiVan]

I agree

How can you make such a generalized statement? Surely, not everyone's marriage is on solid ground, sometimes its not worth saving a relationship but people stay together "for the kids", financial reasons or any number of other reasons. Get your head out of the sand man!!

Some of the married clients I see are in a position where their wife has completely lost interest is sex all togeter. Or she has a medical problem,or HE has a medical problem that makes her feel uncomfortable. They are still totally in love, but he still has his needs.

I know for a fact that before I get married, there will be a pre-nup signed.... it will state clearly that if sex isn't happening "inter-marriage" at least once a week, we are able to go ELSEWHERE....

Sex is what keeps us happy... if these married guys didn't come see me, imagine how miserable they would make their wives/children.

If I were married and couldn't have or didn't want to have sex, I would rather him see a professional; where there are no emotional feelings involved than him seeing his secretary, whose begging him to leave me and buy her a condo.

Honestly... sometimes honesty would work, but pretty much only if she wasn't putting out for a good reason.... If she was giving it to you evry second night.. I wouldn't try telling her you poon, there isn't a logical/rational reason why.

my 2 cents..

 

[dick slap]

Technical point

Uhhhh... which planet is this on?

Honesty in you maybe, but sure as fuck not in her! Women take lying lessons from their mothers and older sisters!

As for the other comments about pooning only being for single guys, who are these posters? Teenage members of the Sunday school debating club?

If an sp is giving you a hummer and you have your eyes closed and imagining it is your wife then you may in fact not be cheating. However, if during sex with your wife you scream out "suck that dick whore 'till it blows pecker snot all over your tonsils" you may have a problem.

It's a joke - just fun...

DS

 

[Ray]

Interesting range of responses.

I'm not worried about the moral aspect. Everyone has their own reasons, I'm not going to rationalize mine, nor do I need for anyone to rationalize their reasons.

I understand sarcasm, so enjoyed those responses too.

I do tend to take out large sums of money from the ATM once a week, (because this keeps the service charges down, dontcha know!), and use cash for day to day expenses. I tend to take a consistant amount of money every week, so when I have money left over, it gets set aside for misbehaving.
I tend to spend a lot of time at strip clubs, rather than the escort services. I was curious, knowing how much I spend at the strip clubs, knowing if I was using SP's on a regular basis, the cost would be quite a bit higher, and wondering how to cover those tracks.

A seperate bank account creates too much of a paper trail.

I generally reserve my serious misbehaving for when I go to Vegas every other year, as this involves large amounts of spending money that you can dismiss as having lost at the casinos.
I couldn't get away with that at home.

 

[BS Detector]

HAHA...TO Funny !!! I told Smother in a PM that someone will use the old "for the kids" crap." AS IF the kids area actually better off in an un-happy home and learn the fine arts of cheating, covering it up and lying. All kids should be exposed to that, right?

Bobbi...If there is an agreement (written ot not) then:
1. it would NOT be cheating.
2. he would most likely NOT be needing creative ways to explain the spending


Forget my thoughts on this matter (because it has already been long known I am judgemental lol) but if the guys WHO SAY it is ok to fuck around on their spouse REALLY BELIEVED the crap they spew, then they would not be here looking for way to hide that fact. It is THAT simple!!!!! Despite numerous request by myself to explain why they do not tell their spouse, they have never been able to explain. The answer is obvious, despite their rationalization, THEY, themselves think it is wrong and THAT is why they need to come here to get "creative accounting" lessons from fellow chea...er I mean perbites.

Understand, no where above did I offer MY thoughts on this but only an interpretation as to what the facts are

I'm curious Bobbi. Do you really believe all the married guys you see have wives with medical conditions? Or the cases where they are just not intimate, do you really believe that the rest of their relationship is satisfying? I think you and I both know the answer to those questions. I too know of couples where one ot the other can not have sex that often or at all and they say that if they are really in love, they find ways to be intimate and satisfy each other. There is one exception and in THAT case, the one unable has given their blessing for the other one to satify their needs elsewhere.

 

[ihatemyskirt]

Heres to the liars, cheaters, manipulators, story tellers, blame layers, reverse psychologists, head gamers, 20 buck here and there sneakers that pay our rent girls!!!!

I am proud to be here.

 

[Dr Macoy]

Completely Separate bank account and my own business.
The only folks who know my true income are me my accountant and Revenue Canada. And I pay most of the domestic bills anyway.

I am with sidewinder on this one my significant other has never had more Knowledge about my finances than I took care of my responsibilities.I spend a small fortune on JW Black and Cohibas and its none of her business I work hard and live up to my responsibilities
Damit kirk I am a doctor not a marriage counselor Macoy Out

 

[Rod Steel]

Heres to the liars, cheaters, manipulators, story tellers, blame layers, reverse psychologists, head gamers, 20 buck here and there sneakers that pay our rent girls!!!!

Well, that includes just about everyone in our society, politicians, lawyers, judges etc.

 

[smackyo]

Don't need to justify the spending to anyone when you're wearing the PANTS in the household

too funny.

 

[vic krooz]

i used to have my own credit card...secretly of course and used my brothers address so my bill got sent there...and i would do cash withdrawls from the card and pay them back as i could not three hundred at a time but 100 here and there...my wife never caught on....