When I first starting this 'hobby' last Christmas, it didn't take me long to realize that the term GFE was meaningless. In fact, I lump it together with some other slogans like "Greatest Dad" and "World Famous Hotwings". You ignore them because they can't have any basis in reality. I'm sure many an alcoholic father has swilled booze out of his Greatest Dad coffee mug and I'm almost certain the people of Darfur don't know what a Hotwing is.
So imagine my surprise when I recently found myself in the middle of an honest to goodness girlfriend experience. And Oh My God, what an experience. Remember that scene from Scent of a Woman, when the BLIND Al Pacino comes back to the limo after seeing the escort and he says 'what a beautiful woman'? That was me. Totally impressed, almost speechless.
This isn't a review, I get the feeling she doesn't like reviews and wants to keep everything very private and discreet. So I won't reveal her name or the city she was in. I'll just say that it wasn't my own city. The title of this post should give you a hint as to which city it was. I did some traveling this summer and I started doing research a couple of months ago because I knew I wanted to find a really great SP for a particular night. It's always a gamble when seeing someone new, but I'm getting better and better at reading between the lines of escort ad's and emails, so I know who to stay away from and who to see. You can never be certain until after the first time of course, but I'm sure the experienced pooners know what I mean.
So what made it a GFE? It wasn't just really hot sex, but hot sex mixed with lots of intangibles, here is a short list...
-Absolutely professional behaviour. No ignored emails, no dancing around questions, no rudeness. If she preferred not to answer a question she would say "I prefer not to answer that question" instead of simply ignoring the question altogether. We arranged for her to call my hotel when I got into town, the phone rang at the precise minute she said she would call. I reciprocated by knocking on her door at the precise minute our appointment was to begin. Inside everything was ready to go, just like we planned it. No unpleasant surprises. No TV blaring, no phone ringing, etc.
-She understated her beauty. I'd seen her pictures, but they were discreet (and very tasteful). So I had no idea how pretty she was. What made it great was she wasn't vain at all. She still blushes at compliments, she's still touched by kind words.
-Absolute confidence in herself. I don't mean arrogance disguised as confidence, that's a weakness. I mean she knew who she was and what she was all about. And because of that I think she feels very safe and secure with men. It's such a turn on for a man when a woman feels that way in your arms. Most escorts are very guarded. It's completely understandable why they are, I don't blame them one bit, but it's such a pleasant surprise when they have the confidence in themselves to let that guard down. I think that's why many pooners praise older escorts.
-She has a full life outside of escorting. Which means she has lots of interesting things to talk about. Maybe I'm getting old, but I like to talk with my SP.
-She had a great sense of humour and was quick to laugh. This goes back to confidence. She felt at ease and was ready to have a good time. In fact, I got the impression that she really wanted to have a good time. This makes a big difference. I'm sure Escorts appreciate a client that feels comfortable and at ease. It kills the mood when one of the people is a bundle of nerves. Usually it's the client, but not always.
-Lastly, and this is the only time anyone's done this. She sent me a very nice email afterwards. The session is over but she's still thinking about her clients.
So I'm sure she'll have a long and successful career as an escort. Her client list must be full of great guys that will take care of her for years. That's the reward for great service.
What's on your list of things that define great service?
So imagine my surprise when I recently found myself in the middle of an honest to goodness girlfriend experience. And Oh My God, what an experience. Remember that scene from Scent of a Woman, when the BLIND Al Pacino comes back to the limo after seeing the escort and he says 'what a beautiful woman'? That was me. Totally impressed, almost speechless.
This isn't a review, I get the feeling she doesn't like reviews and wants to keep everything very private and discreet. So I won't reveal her name or the city she was in. I'll just say that it wasn't my own city. The title of this post should give you a hint as to which city it was. I did some traveling this summer and I started doing research a couple of months ago because I knew I wanted to find a really great SP for a particular night. It's always a gamble when seeing someone new, but I'm getting better and better at reading between the lines of escort ad's and emails, so I know who to stay away from and who to see. You can never be certain until after the first time of course, but I'm sure the experienced pooners know what I mean.
So what made it a GFE? It wasn't just really hot sex, but hot sex mixed with lots of intangibles, here is a short list...
-Absolutely professional behaviour. No ignored emails, no dancing around questions, no rudeness. If she preferred not to answer a question she would say "I prefer not to answer that question" instead of simply ignoring the question altogether. We arranged for her to call my hotel when I got into town, the phone rang at the precise minute she said she would call. I reciprocated by knocking on her door at the precise minute our appointment was to begin. Inside everything was ready to go, just like we planned it. No unpleasant surprises. No TV blaring, no phone ringing, etc.
-She understated her beauty. I'd seen her pictures, but they were discreet (and very tasteful). So I had no idea how pretty she was. What made it great was she wasn't vain at all. She still blushes at compliments, she's still touched by kind words.
-Absolute confidence in herself. I don't mean arrogance disguised as confidence, that's a weakness. I mean she knew who she was and what she was all about. And because of that I think she feels very safe and secure with men. It's such a turn on for a man when a woman feels that way in your arms. Most escorts are very guarded. It's completely understandable why they are, I don't blame them one bit, but it's such a pleasant surprise when they have the confidence in themselves to let that guard down. I think that's why many pooners praise older escorts.
-She has a full life outside of escorting. Which means she has lots of interesting things to talk about. Maybe I'm getting old, but I like to talk with my SP.
-She had a great sense of humour and was quick to laugh. This goes back to confidence. She felt at ease and was ready to have a good time. In fact, I got the impression that she really wanted to have a good time. This makes a big difference. I'm sure Escorts appreciate a client that feels comfortable and at ease. It kills the mood when one of the people is a bundle of nerves. Usually it's the client, but not always.
-Lastly, and this is the only time anyone's done this. She sent me a very nice email afterwards. The session is over but she's still thinking about her clients.
So I'm sure she'll have a long and successful career as an escort. Her client list must be full of great guys that will take care of her for years. That's the reward for great service.
What's on your list of things that define great service?
