I see a lot of people make posts preferring Japanese girls. Frankly I don't see much difference between Japanese, Korean and Chinese girls. And I get the feeling that if the pooner were Asian, the preferences are different than say a white pooner. So I am putting up this poll....
Preference for what kind of Asian girls?
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At first there's doesn't seem to be much difference, but once you've been through quite a few, some subtleties begin to emerge. Japanese exude a subservient attitude and are very accommodating. Chinese women are more business-like, when from Hong Kong, or "seeking" when from the Mainland. Chinese women from Taiwan are similar to Hong Kong'ers, but can be sweeter. Native Taiwanese on the other hand are different and more akin to Japanese - having lived under Japanese colonial rule in the past. Koreans are more emotionally intense with spikes going in both directions. That can be a bonus if she takes a fancy to you at the onset - lots of sexual energy, but you could also end up with a fiery dragon on the way out. Thais are somewhat similar to Japanese but the gamut can run from demure to friendly to downright rude. Vietnamese can be pushy, Filipinas confused, Singaporean Chinese similar to Hong Kong girls and Malays too compromising. Balinese women are infectiously shy, and Indonesians have way too many cultural restrictions. Indian women give up too much to the point of being dangerous, whereas Pakistanis - well, let's not go there. Haven't been with Nepalese or Tibetans, nor Cambodian or Laotians who are blood cousins of Northeast Thais, but I think you could probably count on one hand, the number that are in this business.
That's been my experience anyway...
That's been my experience anyway...
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Hey Maury,
What an interesting reply! Definitely thought provoking. Have you travelled in the Far East much? Does that account for all your experience, or was it somehow all local? And what do you mean by "seeking"? I heard that Taiwanese women can be very rude and too business like. Can you tell me more about Korean women intensity spikes going both ways? This is too fascinating.
What an interesting reply! Definitely thought provoking. Have you travelled in the Far East much? Does that account for all your experience, or was it somehow all local? And what do you mean by "seeking"? I heard that Taiwanese women can be very rude and too business like. Can you tell me more about Korean women intensity spikes going both ways? This is too fascinating.
Well East coast girls are hip
I really dig those styles they wear
And the Southern girls with the way they talk
They knock me out when I'm down there
The Mid-West farmer's daughters really make you feel alright
And the Northern girls with the way they kiss
They keep their boyfriends warm at night
I really dig those styles they wear
And the Southern girls with the way they talk
They knock me out when I'm down there
The Mid-West farmer's daughters really make you feel alright
And the Northern girls with the way they kiss
They keep their boyfriends warm at night
I've travelled extensively in all the countries mentioned, however my experiences were both there and here. I'd have to say that the ones that make it here undergo a transformation that can be unpleasant after a few years. Spoiled? Maybe... I like 'em fresh off the boat, as it were. The ones born here are hopeless, and assume all the worst characteristics of our culture, IMHO.
As for the Korean spikes, I mean sexual energy. I was with one fine sinewy lady in Spokane on several occasions, and she turned into a wired octopus during copulation. It was almost hard to restrain her as she pushed and pulled in all directions; we explored every nook and cranny of a king-sized hotel bed at the Red Lion Hotel on the outskirts of town. One really felt stretched in every sense of the word after a lively session with her. I also experienced same with other Koreans, so there seems to be a trend here. Great memories...
By seeking, I mean they are looking to hook up. Once they find a good prospect, they quickly set their talons, usually by being very submissive in the early stages.
Again, I'm trying not to stereotype as there are all kinds of women out there, but when you see the same familiar characteristics surfacing time after time, well...
And my preference btw is exclusively Asian...
As for the Korean spikes, I mean sexual energy. I was with one fine sinewy lady in Spokane on several occasions, and she turned into a wired octopus during copulation. It was almost hard to restrain her as she pushed and pulled in all directions; we explored every nook and cranny of a king-sized hotel bed at the Red Lion Hotel on the outskirts of town. One really felt stretched in every sense of the word after a lively session with her. I also experienced same with other Koreans, so there seems to be a trend here. Great memories...
By seeking, I mean they are looking to hook up. Once they find a good prospect, they quickly set their talons, usually by being very submissive in the early stages.
Again, I'm trying not to stereotype as there are all kinds of women out there, but when you see the same familiar characteristics surfacing time after time, well...
And my preference btw is exclusively Asian...
Sorry dude... that is quite right. When I travelled in Thailand a long long time ago (when I hadn't pooned even once, 15 years ago), I met some incredibly beautiful Thai girls. One was just a street vendor and I can still recall her face! I remember staring longingly at her face while I pretended to look at the stuff she was peddling. I couldn't believe the radiance coming from her face. Her eyes connected with mine and I felt like I was looking into the sun.dittman said:
.... And demand everything you have later.... speaking from experience, gotta be very cautious with those mainland Chinese girls. I swear they were born with a dagger attached to each leg.Maury Beniowski said:
My experience is with GF's & SP's, about 20 total, in US & Asia. If in the US, they were raised in Asia. I won't speak to stereotypes or generalities, just my own encounters. Not a big fan of Asian-Americans (bananas for the most part!), they seem like any other American woman (fat & loud). I've had serious Asian fever for eight years, exclusively date Asian women, go mostly for Asian sp's.
I've never understood the idea about submissive Asian women. All the ones I've known always get their way. What I love about them (aside from their bodies) is that they can be smart, powerful, & strong, but still be WOMEN: soft & feminine!
One reason, other than my attraction to the traditional culture, for my interest in Japanese women is that they're here by choice for adventure. They're not desparately escaping from a shitty poor place, as are many other Asian women. So they don't need me for a visa or support.
Currently my GF is Japanese. Sweet, clean, sensitive, polite, helpful, shy, humble in public or in front of my parents, but in bed we go at it like wild ravenous hyenas (no complaints there!). Out of bed, sometimes a bit too quiet in voicing her needs, and if I misread those needs and make the "wrong" decision because of no input from her, she lets me have it, so yes, can be really passive-aggressive ("Wanna go for a walk, honey?" "Whatever you want darling"...so we go, & it turns out she didn't want to at all, & is angry that I couldn't tell that was the case....grrrrr)
On my trips to Japan have met many of the penpals I've found on the internet. Very open, friendly, and we always had fun in unexpected exotic ways...
Was engaged to a woman from Taiwan who by her own description thought herself more Japanese than Chinese. Manipulative, secretive, and proud of it. Refused to ever tell me her age!
Had a GF who was from mainland China. Smart, earthy, very open & relaxed about sex, no American Christian hangups. Very refreshing.
Hard to generalize about Chinese women, as there are many nationalities & 50 ethnic groups. Many cultures with varying views of sex. But every Chinese woman I've known well, ranging from a snobbish gold-digging social climber to a sweet simple country bumpkin, none could ever bring themselves to say "I'm sorry, I made a mistake."
Was introduced to a chick in Shenzhen (SW China), spent some good times with her & thought we connected well, she played all manner of crazy games with me, used me to get her BF to return from Paris & marry her, even though she swore he was history. But was she hot!
All my experiences with Viet-Americans: the package certainly gives me instant hardons, but the baggage is a bit much. Pushy, smart-ass (sometimes that can be exciting though), have yet to really get involved with one.
SPs? My first ever was a Viet in HK. 33, had a kid, but had a tight hot body & pussy. She was very kind & patient, invited me to stay at her apt. overnight so we could have some away-from-the-club action.
So many SP's lie & say they're Japanese, I get so sick of it, but I can always tell.
I so wanna go to Thailand!
Indonesia too. I know there's so much Muslim anti-sex anti-woman repressive bs there, but judging from the multitude of ads on adultfriendfinder.com, there's an underground of very liberated sexual women there, many of whom appear to be educated & speak English. I know guys who've been very successful at getting freebies there.
So my preference order (judging from my hardon size : Japanese, Thai, Indo, Viet, Chinese, Cambodian, Korean.
I've never understood the idea about submissive Asian women. All the ones I've known always get their way. What I love about them (aside from their bodies) is that they can be smart, powerful, & strong, but still be WOMEN: soft & feminine!
One reason, other than my attraction to the traditional culture, for my interest in Japanese women is that they're here by choice for adventure. They're not desparately escaping from a shitty poor place, as are many other Asian women. So they don't need me for a visa or support.
Currently my GF is Japanese. Sweet, clean, sensitive, polite, helpful, shy, humble in public or in front of my parents, but in bed we go at it like wild ravenous hyenas (no complaints there!). Out of bed, sometimes a bit too quiet in voicing her needs, and if I misread those needs and make the "wrong" decision because of no input from her, she lets me have it, so yes, can be really passive-aggressive ("Wanna go for a walk, honey?" "Whatever you want darling"...so we go, & it turns out she didn't want to at all, & is angry that I couldn't tell that was the case....grrrrr)
On my trips to Japan have met many of the penpals I've found on the internet. Very open, friendly, and we always had fun in unexpected exotic ways...
Was engaged to a woman from Taiwan who by her own description thought herself more Japanese than Chinese. Manipulative, secretive, and proud of it. Refused to ever tell me her age!
Had a GF who was from mainland China. Smart, earthy, very open & relaxed about sex, no American Christian hangups. Very refreshing.
Hard to generalize about Chinese women, as there are many nationalities & 50 ethnic groups. Many cultures with varying views of sex. But every Chinese woman I've known well, ranging from a snobbish gold-digging social climber to a sweet simple country bumpkin, none could ever bring themselves to say "I'm sorry, I made a mistake."
Was introduced to a chick in Shenzhen (SW China), spent some good times with her & thought we connected well, she played all manner of crazy games with me, used me to get her BF to return from Paris & marry her, even though she swore he was history. But was she hot!
All my experiences with Viet-Americans: the package certainly gives me instant hardons, but the baggage is a bit much. Pushy, smart-ass (sometimes that can be exciting though), have yet to really get involved with one.
SPs? My first ever was a Viet in HK. 33, had a kid, but had a tight hot body & pussy. She was very kind & patient, invited me to stay at her apt. overnight so we could have some away-from-the-club action.
So many SP's lie & say they're Japanese, I get so sick of it, but I can always tell.
I so wanna go to Thailand!
Indonesia too. I know there's so much Muslim anti-sex anti-woman repressive bs there, but judging from the multitude of ads on adultfriendfinder.com, there's an underground of very liberated sexual women there, many of whom appear to be educated & speak English. I know guys who've been very successful at getting freebies there.
So my preference order (judging from my hardon size : Japanese, Thai, Indo, Viet, Chinese, Cambodian, Korean.
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Yes, that's true for the most part. There are a few jewels out there, but most of the prizes are still over there, un-tapped. I'm somewhat sympathetic to their cause however. Coming over here for most of them was not an easy task, by any stretch of the imagination. Having got through this, at times paying a bounty, leaves them hopelessly indebted, agressive, and mighty hungry.georgebushmoron said:
The first opportunity (read sucker) that comes along may be the only one, and he may damaged goods - loner, drunk, social outcast or a vile prick. So they claw on, and hope the ride will be short, the guy will join his ancestors and the Pot O' Gold they seek will finally be in hand. Of course it seldom works out that way, so they bounce around, and probably settle for the snake that brought them over.
It's amazing how we manifest our preferences. Some will say straight forward that they like this group for these reasons and some will say based on my experience this group was the best. It seems to take less energy to place people in categories than it does to know them in their own right. Rather, when we seek out and give praise to the special characteristics in others, not only do we feel better about them, but we ourselves are better from the experience.
Once an East Indian girl who was attending a college in the American South said to me that she was beautiful, sexy, intelligent and happy but she couldn't find any one to love her. I thought to myself, she hasn't connected with someone who feels confident enough within themselves to appreciate her but her day will come. No matter what we think of ourselves, there will be someone who doesn't like us or puts us into a category. Shouldn't we ask, wouldn't it be better to judge people as individuals and develop relationships accordingly rather than putting them into categories?
Personally, I've had good and bad experiences with girls from various backgrounds. My personal preference would be a girl who's appreciative of me as a human, easily loving, a strong desire to please, has a high degree of passion and enjoys learning. Whether she's a Black Japanese, Canadian Chinese, or American Korean, I would like to believe won't impact her spiritual and human qualities to share in a compatible relationship.
Once an East Indian girl who was attending a college in the American South said to me that she was beautiful, sexy, intelligent and happy but she couldn't find any one to love her. I thought to myself, she hasn't connected with someone who feels confident enough within themselves to appreciate her but her day will come. No matter what we think of ourselves, there will be someone who doesn't like us or puts us into a category. Shouldn't we ask, wouldn't it be better to judge people as individuals and develop relationships accordingly rather than putting them into categories?
Personally, I've had good and bad experiences with girls from various backgrounds. My personal preference would be a girl who's appreciative of me as a human, easily loving, a strong desire to please, has a high degree of passion and enjoys learning. Whether she's a Black Japanese, Canadian Chinese, or American Korean, I would like to believe won't impact her spiritual and human qualities to share in a compatible relationship.
You rock! Best damn thing I've read on PERB in a while.Sunset said:It's amazing how we manifest our preferences. Some will say straight forward that they like this group for these reasons and some will say based on my experience this group was the best. It seems to take less energy to place people in categories than it does to know them in their own right. Rather, when we seek out and give praise to the special characteristics in others, not only do we feel better about them, but we ourselves are better from the experience.
Once an East Indian girl who was attending a college in the American South said to me that she was beautiful, sexy, intelligent and happy but she couldn't find any one to love her. I thought to myself, she hasn't connected with someone who feels confident enough within themselves to appreciate her but her day will come. No matter what we think of ourselves, there will be someone who doesn't like us or puts us into a category. Shouldn't we ask, wouldn't it be better to judge people as individuals and develop relationships accordingly rather than putting them into categories?
Personally, I've had good and bad experiences with girls from various backgrounds. My personal preference would be a girl who's appreciative of me as a human, easily loving, a strong desire to please, has a high degree of passion and enjoys learning. Whether she's a Black Japanese, Canadian Chinese, or American Korean, I would like to believe won't impact her spiritual and human qualities to share in a compatible relationship.
Sunset said:It's amazing how we manifest our preferences. Some will say straight forward that they like this group for these reasons and some will say based on my experience this group was the best. It seems to take less energy to place people in categories than it does to know them in their own right. Rather, when we seek out and give praise to the special characteristics in others, not only do we feel better about them, but we ourselves are better from the experience.
Once an East Indian girl who was attending a college in the American South said to me that she was beautiful, sexy, intelligent and happy but she couldn't find any one to love her. I thought to myself, she hasn't connected with someone who feels confident enough within themselves to appreciate her but her day will come. No matter what we think of ourselves, there will be someone who doesn't like us or puts us into a category. Shouldn't we ask, wouldn't it be better to judge people as individuals and develop relationships accordingly rather than putting them into categories?
Personally, I've had good and bad experiences with girls from various backgrounds. My personal preference would be a girl who's appreciative of me as a human, easily loving, a strong desire to please, has a high degree of passion and enjoys learning. Whether she's a Black Japanese, Canadian Chinese, or American Korean, I would like to believe won't impact her spiritual and human qualities to share in a compatible relationship.
Absolutely true. It would be extra-special for me if she happened to be a hot asian chick though.
Agree with you Yogi...
Anyone who is over sixty and born in Taiwan (Formosa), is fluent in Japanese.
"Whatever you want" means "No", or is a negative expression for the Japanese. The Japanese feel it is very rude to say No, but have a way to let you know if you don't catch their drift. You can pretty well assume this to be the norm throughout Japan, and to a limited extent, other areas in Asia as well.yogi said:
Anyone who is over sixty and born in Taiwan (Formosa), is fluent in Japanese.
A fine Credo, if only the World worked that way...
As some have suggested, we are limited to express the wealth of our experience. Categorizing is one result, not necessarily the desired one. Cultures imprint characteristics in individuals that make them distinct from others in foreign lands. Sure, one is bound to find look-alikes, sound-alikes, talk-alikes or think-alikes donning similar personalities, or other unifying factors in persons living at opposite ends of the earth, if one looks hard enough. That's a given.
However, as I said previously, some traits begin to emerge in the general populace that, when viewed globally, bring out eerily similar and sometimes quirky indiosyncracies, that leave one invariably pigeon-holing individuals for the sake of rationality.
You could substitute all references to people in your reply with cats, fish, birds and plants. Idealism knows no bounds, but alas it is the stuff of dreams. Experience is the best teacher, and that was the nature of GBM's inquiry; seeking out what distinguishes say, Koreans from Chinese.Sunset said:Personally, I've had good and bad experiences with girls from various backgrounds. My personal preference would be a girl who's appreciative of me as a human, easily loving, a strong desire to please, has a high degree of passion and enjoys learning. Whether she's a Black Japanese, Canadian Chinese, or American Korean, I would like to believe won't impact her spiritual and human qualities to share in a compatible relationship.
As some have suggested, we are limited to express the wealth of our experience. Categorizing is one result, not necessarily the desired one. Cultures imprint characteristics in individuals that make them distinct from others in foreign lands. Sure, one is bound to find look-alikes, sound-alikes, talk-alikes or think-alikes donning similar personalities, or other unifying factors in persons living at opposite ends of the earth, if one looks hard enough. That's a given.
However, as I said previously, some traits begin to emerge in the general populace that, when viewed globally, bring out eerily similar and sometimes quirky indiosyncracies, that leave one invariably pigeon-holing individuals for the sake of rationality.
Interesting thread on asians.
My background is Korean and Irish, my mom is from Ireland and father from Korea. I grew up with my Irish family and never learned a word of Korean. I have been to Ireland, but never to Korea. I have not become close to anyone who is Korean so I find it interesting to read here about korean women.
My background is Korean and Irish, my mom is from Ireland and father from Korea. I grew up with my Irish family and never learned a word of Korean. I have been to Ireland, but never to Korea. I have not become close to anyone who is Korean so I find it interesting to read here about korean women.
I am white but prefer asian men. I do love the Japanese men, I find them a little more of a stockier build and more athletic with nice strong features. Good family values and no drama.
