Prearranged/Planned Sex.....is it for you?

[cruiser]

One of the aspects of seeing a SP is that it takes the "surprise" out of knowing whether you'll get laid or not, because you know in fact that's what you're seeing them for. Let me share a story for the masses.

I was married in a previous life..and my wife was someone who didn't like sex. She had said on more then one occassion that she could "go a month without it". Thus, when it came to have any intimacy, it was something that was planned (day of the week and a time). If I did try anything during the week, it was "wait for Sunday"...and then when Sunday came along, intimacy may (or may not) occur depending on whether she was: tired/in the mood/not in the mood, etc. In saying that, I was "burnt" on more then one occassion about literally being stood up about being promised something, and then her not following through.

Now relating to SP's, how do you view it that there is no element of surprise for sex? It's a planned event. However, when you're in "normal" m/f relationship, sex is something that isn't planned, but tends to happen "spontaneously".

Do you think SP sex is different then "relationship" sex ? Do you think that it's more mechanical in nature?

Interested in what others have to say......

 

[maroonedsailor]

For me it's seldom 'planned'

even if it's prearranged it's different every time and obviously some are far better than others. Chemistry counts. You may hit it off and you may not BUT at least you will get your rocks off which you might not get from your SO. On the other hand SP's also get tired/burned out. The best I've ever had was a present from my skipper during a layover in India. I was hard all night and never stopped from sundown to sunup. YES we took breaks LOL - long enough to have a drink and eat. Kissed and fucked and sucked and licked and on and on. If I'd had any sense at all, I'd have just moved to Calcutta but sad to say I never saw her again. More recently I had a 35 year old working girl in Phoenix (I'm 0ver 50) who just loved to suck my cock and would call and ask nicely for me to let her have some. Also not planned or prearranged but very different from married sex. So maybe it's kind of a dumb question. or not

 

[PuntMeister]

When the ground is parched, and someone turns the sprinkler on to water the grass, it matters not if rain was in the forecast....

 

[maxx50]

Can t plan

It's funny .. I have never had a live in relationship.. so i don't know what it is like to have that spontinuity. or if that really exists in a relationship. How often . do a couple rip off each others close when they come home from a hard days work .. and just fuck each other in the hall. or are in town , and just start going at it .. that is spontaneity.. any thing else is planed .. Making the nice dinner . the candle light dinning table ..the soft music.. all for some planed intimacy.. and sex..
So maybe some times . it is easier to just go see an SP. But of course there is no guarantee. of sex there either.
Why do i say that .. well I have one girl that i just love to see . I can phone her up on the spur of the moment. and some times in an hour or two .. we are together.. But we never know what will happen . i love being with her and we could end up doing any number of things .. from .. photos to going at it for an hour and a half... and other time it is a bust for one reason or another. But there definitely is spontaneity.. on my part and hers.. Of course the planning part is .. when can i afford to see her.. If I had my way I would see her three .. four times a week .. and i have when i first meet her.. Now it is down to twice a month If I am lucky.. and I can't really plan when I want to see her .. because of here schedule.. but she is very good to me.

 

[kman32]

One of the aspects of seeing a SP is that it takes the "surprise" out of knowing whether you'll get laid or not

My 2 cents...
Taking the "surprise" out is what you're paying for. It's the only added benefit to seeing an escort.

Now relating to SP's, how do you view it that there is no element of surprise for sex? It's a planned event. However, when you're in "normal" m/f relationship, sex is something that isn't planned, but tends to happen "spontaneously".

I know what you mean. You'll never get a booty call from a SP, unless you've been a regular for years. And a SP booty call still means 'bring money'. But when a lover jumps you out of nowhere, well, what's better?

Do you think SP sex is different then "relationship" sex ? Do you think that it's more mechanical in nature?

Yes, it's different. I wouldn't use the word mechanical however. I'd say it's just much less intimate, I mean you're calling her by a made up name and if she's like most SP's, she's presenting you with a persona she's created for her clients. It has boundaries she won't cross, truths she won't reveal, and insecurities that are well hidden. I would put SP sex into it's own category, but it's much closer to casual sex with near strangers. But hey, it's all good. Just good for different reasons.

 

[littlejimbigher]

At least when you are horny and looking for sex you know you're going to get lucky with a SP. It aint that way with a wife.

 

[cruiser]

At least when you are horny and looking for sex you know you're going to get lucky with a SP. It aint that way with a wife.

Very true........