Penis Envy

mimi

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An article I read concerning penis implants ended with the statement:
"Freud was wrong. It is men who have penis envy, not women."

Fact: The quickest selling dildo's are those measuring 4-6".
5.5" is a very common size for a penis and is a very comfortable fit. There is a lot more you can do with a penis this size...deep throating for example! And it never bashes into the bladder during heavy hot banging.

The only problem I have had with a small penis is the owner. A fellow who does not appreciate his appendage tends to berate it in small ways. He may joke about it or tell me he wishes it was bigger so he could really give me a good fucking.

This just makes me sad for the penis, poor able fellow!

And that's another problem....if I say: "let's get this little fellow into some action" the owner feels insulted by my reference to size. Which means, my friends, that size is held to be a measurement of a man's manliness....too bad eh?

I am always referring to my breasts as 'little' puppies...I don't mind if a gent says he would rather see someone larger...I don't feel compelled to have massive breast implants (although I have worn a padded bra and it was fun) and I wish all men with average and below average size penises could feel like wise.

Men send us pictures of their big erections to entice us into encounters. But, the penis is not the focus for us in lovemaking. Our lovemaking is about touching and stroking hands and feet and necks and the backs of arms and, really, the entire body. A picture of a man's penis does not tell us whether he is a good lover and the size is rather immaterial to our orgasms.

So, in a previous thread a woman stated that she disliked a certain action being performed by those who deemed themselves less well endowed, and, I took this to mean that the action itself was not the rub (pun) but, rather, the client was making too much effort to overcome his own esteem issues and not leaving room to enjoy other options.

I have run into this. A fellow has decided that there is only one way to do a thing and cannot be persuaded to try something new. This only becomes a problem when he is expecting to please you and it is not pleasing...then one must resort to faking pleasure to reaffirm a confirmed conviction, and, a vicious circle is repeated.


Men, be kind to your penises.

 

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An article I read concerning penis implants ended with the statement:
"Freud was wrong. It is men who have penis envy, not women."
Awesome post Mimi, it does seem like the problem is mostly with men. I have a different idea of penis envy though, as explained to me by my ex-wife. She said, for her the jealousy lies in the fact that men can have orgasms so easily with a cock. Basically she wished she had one, so much so that the easiest way for her to reach orgasm was by masturbating me along with herself, she imagined the penis as an extension of her own body.

For me, sure I'm like any guy and wish it was bigger, but I will never risk harming the little guy with implants or get big quick schemes, even when I tried Viagra I thought the little guy wasn't himself and didn't appreciate the effects.

Men, be kind to your penises.

 

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What if he said, well let's put this guy in your Big Gaper?
Well that doesn't make any sense, then it just sounds like he's complaining about his little tiny pecker again. :confused:

Empathy is what this is about
LOL, you really don't understand women if you think they have empathy for our cocks. :rolleyes:

But actually if you think about it Mimi is showing empathy, that we shouldn't be so hung up about the size, what she's saying is that most women don't fixate on it and neither should we. :)
 

mimi

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Big Gaper, OMG that is hilarious! I nearly fell off my chair laughing.

After my husband witnessed the birth of our first baby, ya know, the head coming out and the vagina and labia stretched around it, he joked about wrapping his legs around the bed post to keep from falling in when we had sex...we got a lot of mileage with that one.

Yes, personal issues face many people, be it weight, breast size, penis size, nose shape, hair follicle shape etc....

I specifically chose to refer to penis envy because this is not a weight watcher's web page, it is a site devoted to procuring sex...and the penis is sometimes involved in sex.

I have known people who went through incredible lengths to disguise the issue they felt sensitive about.

Life is short...enjoy it...some day we will all be dead and the body parts we anguished about will rot away into nothing.
 

mimi

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Oh please don't go!

You have scarcely graced our presence! Due to the comments of two irreverent and opinionated women you would leave almost as soon as you came and prevent us all from knowing you better.

Would you deny us, as a society, as a community, the opportunity of having the benefit of your unique perspective? Your deep sensitivity and your empathetic soul are a welcome illumination into the many facets a topic may produce that might otherwise remain lost in shadow and obscurity. How does one learn if not exposed to opinions that are contrary to one’s own?

The illustration of your character becomes brighter and more fascinating with each post, and it is precisely that character that is so seldom seen in these types of forums, and, more often needed.
 

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Which is the reason for empathy and HB doesn't understand the word if he thinks that empathy is given to a body part. Empathy is the product of understanding another person's perspective.
You're probably right, I'm sorry for being so insensitive to your perspective. I will try harder to understand why guys with small penises need constant affirmation and nurturing to their fragile psyches. Nice poem by the way. :)
 

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You're probably right, I'm sorry for being so insensitive to your perspective. I will try harder to understand why guys with small penises need constant affirmation and nurturing to their fragile psyches. Nice poem by the way. :)
A hot kiss can go so much farther than a big cock Mr HB40.
 

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I also don't mind the neg rep hits either HB. I will always respond to a negative rep hit with a positive rep hit. :)
I can assure you I did not neg rep you Ropey. I may not be too empathetic but I'm certainly not petty.

Just to remind you, this thread is about penis envy, you sure seem to be proving Mimi's point. ;)
 

mimi

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Neither was this negative reputation mark made by me. If I fail, I fail for all the world to see. Although my sense of empathy, a most desirable trait, is less developed than the standards you dictate, I do take pride in my courage and my steadfastness in the general principles of ethics as they are applied to a modern society.
 
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Hubbie, he does well on all counts, are you feeling threatened? I'm loosing faith in you sweetie, where is that mojo you usually pack?
I'm sure he does L.t afterall he is the dood! Keep the faith .....you gotta believe! you just gotta!!
 
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