Orgies events
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Join the swinger community . Its no longer just married couples in their 30’s . Theres a whole community in Van & surrounding area . Off the top of my head theres a huge event (orgie ) in New west once a month , but tons of events yearly .
Start by looking up Vancouver sites for people “ in the lifestyle “ there are tons , & a huge community, seriously .
That’s quite interesting that it’s no longer married couple only. How did you find this out? I was a member of fetlife for many months but it was a couples only club …for the most part.
If you go into the events tab and toggle for "Sex Party" you'll see quite a few gangbangs that are advertised.
Another method is to join groups that are specifically for gangbangs/orgies. From here you can see posts from people who are planning events early on.
Reddit !
Just use the internet like a bread crumb trail . Fetlife lead me to many other sites and open group chats about the scene here . It’s much bigger than I would have imagined . Yes being in a couple makes it easier but not impossible.
Hell if you dated Polly only women you might even find a willing partner .
I’ve seen enough legit interviews w pornstars about how they got started and heard the same basic pattern a few times .
Got interested in the Polly scene,
Met a guy who got them into swinging ,,,
Lead to orgies , etc etc , easy to fill in the remaining blanks .
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You're asking for alot here. People are eager and willing but "quality control" isn't something that's practice in an inclusive group. What you'll find is a group of like minded individuals who are all turned on by the idea of multiple partners at once. I remember a friend who was into the scene for a while tell me sometimes the best part of an event was the snack table.
If you want an orgy with models, you better be able hot enough to be invited to one, or be willing to shell out the bucks to organize one yourself (or pay someone to).
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Precisely this is what my experience was when I signed up for fetlife ages ago. It was “fucking with extra steps”. If you are new in fetlife, you’ll mostly face the same level of toxicity as StackOverflow (seriously) . But I respect folk who went through the grind and liked the process of it all.
Many and I mean many of the couples are not good looking in the sense that they are really really average looking people like the rest of us minus the top 2-3 percent, maybe. If you think the majority of the people look even remotely good as the escorts here in van, that’s you are gonna be sorely disappointed. And for a good reason because that’s what “that” lifestyle is. Regular people enjoying their kinks. If you are not paying money for it, you are paying time. It’s as simple as that.
Personally I have joined back into it and maybe test out the waters again, I do want to experiment with a variety of kinks so it’s not like I want to live it 24/7, but just like my profile says “ in the bedroom only”
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