One in four.

[sevenofnine]

About once a year I shake some bushed look for a change of pace to see whats out there.
Im happy with my sp, I saw her last week, a nice time. I just want to see whats out there, and well I suppose the lady I see is safe conservative gfe, so I guess I get curious and look for something more.

Anyhow.

I sent out four letters of intro to four ladies.
All of them more in the pse catagory.

Two never even responded to email.
One responded three days latter, and said sounds good andI had a question, Im still waiting for a reply to that.

Only one in four answered every email not fast, but she has an auto response so I got that right away then like the next day or so, her personal response,
which is not a big deal because she is a touring lady and not in town until next week,

Its intersting to me, ladies complaining its slow, and threads to that.
So answer your dam email.

The lady Im still in contact with, is international, international known and reviewed.
I have bumped into her on the net once or twice she has a lot of things going on, and I dropped a note to her from time to time over the last couple three years,
just saying hi, or I like what you said.
And guess what, she answered her email.
I wasn't even asking for a session, but she answered her email.

To be fair, I think I responed in kind, to the ladies ad's.
One lady, her ad was just a picture of her cunt and an email and number and saying come and get it. Well what do you say to that.

Another lady just a one line thing on back page, she answered her email but no follow up questions.
One lady a nice ad on the front page of a message board, I was interested, but she never answered her email, go fiqure you spend for a front page ad but don't answer your email.

The only lady Im still in contact with a very detailed ad, a web page, lots and lots of info etc,
Only one question one thing needed to be said on my part.
May I have an appointment please.
plus all the info she required of me.

 

[HughGRection]

I made a post a little similar to this myself. Contacted a new provider, asking for a specific experience. She couldn't be bothered to respond.

My advice to you is that if you contact a provider, and she can't find a minute or two to email you a response back, then don't waste your money. It's a vision of attitude to come. They are plenty of polite, considerate providers out there who value their clients.

 

[NataliaBijoux]

It is quite possible, that they weren't working, or they were away.. etc. You can always check to see if they are bumping their ads.

Sometimes I don't get emails right away.. A lot of them go to my junk folder, so they don't come through on my phone and I have no idea they are there, until I log into my email from my computer!
It could be a vision of an attitude to come, it very well might not be.. could be due to different circumstances like I stated above. we do have friends and personal lives, some of us may not be available all the time. But it would be considerate to shoot of a quick email stating you are not working etc, and I will email you when i am working again and will be available.

 

[VanessaofBC]

The most direct way to get in touch with any lady is call or text unless email is specified.

Unfortunately , not all ladies are "business minded" and hence the reason they have this job.

Personally, my smartphone never lets me forget I have an email, but I had to change the settings for that!

 

[sevenofnine]

I just checked my email.
The lady who ran her ad on backpage.
Finally emailed me again

One email took five days,
This next email took six days.
And she never answered my question of what her rates were,
All she had was one line on backpage with no rate info.

Only replied with a question of how long I want.
lets see if it goe on this rate and she takes a week to respond to that,
I might fucking be dead before I see her,

Miss Melody,
you talked about stupid clients.
I agree,
But shit there are stupid sp's out there as well.
with no rate info posted and you ask she can't tell you, only asks another question.
One week per email.

Its like going to the dentist for fuck sake.

 

[yazoo]

My presumption is that if someone is active on PERB, then they're probably pretty good with email. If they are not, then they maybe don't use it very much.

I would say half of my punts have been over the phone bookings. The other half have been in a fishbowl :wave:

But I've never done email. I guess I just have an assumption that it wouldn't work well.

 

[kauffman]

The most direct way to get in touch with any lady is call or text unless email is specified.

Unfortunately , not all ladies are "business minded" and hence the reason they have this job.

Personally, my smartphone never lets me forget I have an email, but I had to change the settings for that!

What exactly does that mean? I'm not sure i get the connection between being business minded and having "this job". Are you stating that all sp's because they are sp's are not business minded? Im not sure I follow....

 

[VanessaofBC]

What exactly does that mean? I'm not sure i get the connection between being business minded and having "this job". Are you stating that all sp's because they are sp's are not business minded? Im not sure I follow....

Well, part of the reason I do this job is because I am on my own schedule. I do what I want, when I want.

When I first started I thought it was great. I could turn on my phone and make a quick buck. I was not always concerned with getting back to emails or checking voice messages because my phone was ringing.
My GF wanted to go out. My BF was over. I had to go to class. I did not take the job "seriously".

Now, I take this more seriously. Every morning (since it is rare to find my up all night anymore , another reason girls are "unavailable")I wake up, check my messages, get back to clients, update my ad or website.

Thanks for asking for clarification instead of making assumptions, I appreciate that!

 

[PlayfulAlex]

I think that some look at this activity as a hustle, some as a hobby, some as a business, and some as a career. The important thing is that two people will eventually find each other. But it does take time to wade through the plethora of advertising to find that good match.

No one should mind doing their homework, in order to work towards a good match. You're seeking information and sometimes, her not answering is answering your question, now isn't it!?!

If she doesn't reply, or she doesn't answer your questions in her short reply, that is good information for you...it tells you to move along! :nod:

 

[AA_Train]

E mail is my preferred method of contacting ladies and most respond within a few hours. I rarely book short notice so that is am acceptable amount of time to respond. I find it is easier to go over the "nitty gritty" and discuss the business end of things. I usually only call the day of the appointment to get to firm things up and get location details, or if I want to see a woman that specific day.

 

[PlayfulAlex]

E mail is my preferred method of contacting ladies and most respond within a few hours. I rarely book short notice so that is am acceptable amount of time to respond. I find it is easier to go over the "nitty gritty" and discuss the business end of things. I usually only call the day of the appointment to get to firm things up and get location details, or if I want to see a woman that specific day.

And you are probably a dream prospective client!

 

[kauffman]

I think that some look at this activity as a hustle, some as a hobby, some as a business, and some as a career. The important thing is that two people will eventually find each other. But it does take time to wade through the plethora of advertising to find that good match.

No one should mind doing their homework, in order to work towards a good match. You're seeking information and sometimes, her not answering is answering your question, now isn't it!?!

If she doesn't reply, or she doesn't answer your questions in her short reply, that is good information for you...it tells you to move along! :nod:

How is this a hustle. The ad is posted and the men reply. THEy decide whether to stay. Nobody is forcing them. a HUSTLE is quite different. Someone that goes up to you and actively solicits and is persistent at trying to talk you into a sale. Its offensive that you would call anyone on erslist a hustler. Take responsibility for your choices

 

[kauffman]

I just checked my email.
The lady who ran her ad on backpage.
Finally emailed me again

One email took five days,
This next email took six days.
And she never answered my question of what her rates were,
All she had was one line on backpage with no rate info.

Only replied with a question of how long I want.
lets see if it goe on this rate and she takes a week to respond to that,
I might fucking be dead before I see her,

Miss Melody,
you talked about stupid clients.
I agree,
But shit there are stupid sp's out there as well.
with no rate info posted and you ask she can't tell you, only asks another question.
One week per email.

Its like going to the dentist for fuck sake.

perhaps there was something about your name that struck a chord with her. Maybe the way you asked questions? the language? there may be certain types she avoids due to potential personal connections. maybe she wasnt working for a week. DOnt take it so personally. sp's arent obligated to respond to everyone

 

[PlayfulAlex]

I think that some look at this activity as a hustle, some as a hobby, some as a business, and some as a career. The important thing is that two people will eventually find each other. But it does take time to wade through the plethora of advertising to find that good match.

No one should mind doing their homework, in order to work towards a good match. You're seeking information and sometimes, her not answering is answering your question, now isn't it!?!

If she doesn't reply, or she doesn't answer your questions in her short reply, that is good information for you...it tells you to move along! :nod:

How is this a hustle. The ad is posted and the men reply. THEy decide whether to stay. Nobody is forcing them. a HUSTLE is quite different. Someone that goes up to you and actively solicits and is persistent at trying to talk you into a sale. Its offensive that you would call anyone on erslist a hustler. Take responsibility for your choices

Wow, I'm flabbergasted that you would take such offence to my comments. If you think that NOBODY on erslist is a hustler, I suggest you spend some time reviewing the Neighbourhood Watch area here. My point was about the value of doing one's homework, which involves all aspects of engaging a provider, ie. reading ads, reading reviews, judging their professionalism, noting how they conduct themselves on the phone and via e-mail, etc, etc, etc...

Simmer down...my comments were not painting broad strokes, they were making points about the fact that there are many different experiences being offered, and that folks will eventually find what they're looking for...on both sides of the equation...No ruffled feathers were intended!

 

[sevenofnine]

perhaps there was something about your name that struck a chord with her. Maybe the way you asked questions? the language? there may be certain types she avoids due to potential personal connections. maybe she wasnt working for a week. DOnt take it so personally. sp's arent obligated to respond to everyone

I respond in kind.
I mean the lady with a picture of her genitals and contact info.
With no history or anything I can research. Well a couple of months on a message board.
That gets one kind of reply or letter of intro.

The lady with a very detailed ad and web site. Years of history I can research all great
First class and resectfull all the way, She gets another intro

Some lady with a one line add on backpage.

No its not at all personal.
And I have been around long enough to know how to charm a girl and give her all the correct references etc. I don't actually think any women would refuse me, to be honest, I know how its done. Granted I have a history on this board, some women might not like me. But I have an email account with several references.
Unless I told them Im the idoit on perb that pissed you off they would never know.
And I could get in to see them.
Like I said I know how this is done.

I would never see a women like that any way, there are enough women out there who are happy to see me, with out seeing some one who doesn't want to see me.
Its like I said I know how this is done.

I just think some women don't.
The back page girl, she is known on a message board, been around for years.
She should know better to answer an email faster then a week latter. And answer a question with a question another week latter.
She just lost herself some business.

 

[sevenofnine]

To conclude this I suppose, I did end up seeing one lady.
She was professional all the way through and first class. Though a bit slow to respond to her emails.
That changed the day of the big event,
Guess what I phoned her as instructed, waiting for her voice mail to pick up like it always seems to with girls these days.
And a big surprise she answered.
Humorous nice, not one ounce of attittude. A hell of a nice lady.

I say again a hell of a nice lady, the one only way to go in my opionion don't waste your time on any one who isn't totally classy and professional in all respects.

I went for the full meal deal with her, meaning she had several options and packages.
Silly of me, Because Im not really I mean I don't push a girl to her limits. I don't push her at all as a matter of fact.
I leave it totally up to them what we do.
So even though I paid for greek and facials, I didn't think a girl would ask me to stick it up her butt.
And she didn't. Or squirt it all over her face for that matter.

The lady was very oral, which was what I was looking for, the lady I see doesn't kiss, other then that Im happy with her.
So I would have been happy with that.

At the start she asked me what I wanted, I said its up to you, so only myself to blame if I was in the mood to, But Im not going to blame her, I enjoyed it.
We didn't get around to any of the above mentioned services,
But about half way through she noted I wanted the full pse package, I just shrugged.
Then she started to perform on me which is not listed on any women's menue.

There was a thread about it a few months ago, and every women that commented said, it was just not going to happen.
But I never asked and here she was doing it.
Its very rare to recieve this as far as I can tell.

A nice lady I won't reveiw her or mention her name she is out there has an ad and a website, and well reviewed. Outstanding reveiws actually. My only comment would be there all true.

Again not to everyones taste, on the expensive side especially when you take all the options.
I enjoyed it yes.

But I think like a lot of comments its more about the chemistry the connection you have with the women.
I enjoy seeing the women I do,

And not to be rude or anything, but its more then connection or chemistry.
The women I see I like her body, all her little intimate bits and pieces. And she is so sensual and touchable.

 

[VanessaofBC]

To conclude this I suppose, I did end up seeing one lady.

That's great that you were able to reach someone!

And not to be rude or anything, but its more then connection or chemistry.

Although it plays a huge part in the overall experience! (for the woman, anyway)

 

[AA_Train]

And you are probably a dream prospective client!

You could do a whole helluva lot worse than me