That's not surprising. I've been to some sex clubs and brothels where girls set their rate based on the client. Really had nothing to do with age per se, more appearance, demeanor, etc... Had a colleague that was a real asshole and his cost was through the roof compared to the rest of us.
No men over 50 restriction?
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I am in the 60 year old range and greatly appreciate ladies who state they are not comfortable, meaning I might not get their best, with my age group so I can avoid a less than favourable experience. There are lots of ladies available so it makes sense to spend time with ones that are most at ease. Sweet VIPs in Victoria has ladies who are particularly comfortable with customers with all sorts of disabilities making the hobby available to the broadest population.
I don't think older guys should avoid 20 something gals. I rather see ladies below 40 as it keeps me feeling young and rejuvenated. Just looked at some of the scenes in Pattaya,and you know exactly what I mean.
We could especulate as to the reasons why women would rather not see older men,but better answers to your questions, would come from the ladies who have that restriction.
I don't think there is an age to retire from pooning or abstain from sex. My SO has a regular that is in mid 70's and I know she has clients older. Apparently can keep up fairly well with the youngsters and usually better connection.
I solved my problem by marrying a younger SP lol
Well said from a SP's point of view. It is surprising to me how a few mid 20's SP acknowledge they have a fascination with older guys. One who has since retired said she was always checking out older guys when in public, 'wondering if . .'My thought is that if you wouldn't want to sleep with a women 25 years older than your current age, don't complainWhen the business transaction is sex, it's important both parties don't hate their lives when doing it.
But don't stay away from the 20 somethings. Just stop chasing the ones you can't have and enjoy the ones who want your company, many do! I liked older men since I was pretty young, so I loved it when I started doing this in my early 20's and could fulfill my sexual desires for an older man. There are many younger girls I talk to that feel the same way.
I don't know if it's like a role play in their head or have had thoughts of being with some one who is mature and experienced. One comment I've heard a few times is some of the younger guys cum and then that's it. Leaving the SP thinking what about me? Hence they have a look at mature guys who give and receive as clients.
I too, fit well into the over 50 category. this story is documented elsewhere on perb but I think I should chime in here with my experience with this issue.
First let me say that, since starting this hobby I have visited ladies from the ages of 19 to musta been close to 70. One of my faves is now 22 and has been my go-to gal since 2016... She calls me all the time just to chat.
Last year I contact a young lady in Victoria.. I am explicit about my age, what I look like and what I would like. She says Yes and sure to everything..Bottom line it was the worst service I have ever had. My guess was she was not into older men and had just discovered that with me... Later one of our colleagues here on perb was asking about her... I suggested he had better tell her his age... She just stopped replying to him once he did.. OK We all know why I gave her a rating of -3 for her BJ skills. I just wish she would post this in her ads.
First let me say that, since starting this hobby I have visited ladies from the ages of 19 to musta been close to 70. One of my faves is now 22 and has been my go-to gal since 2016... She calls me all the time just to chat.
Last year I contact a young lady in Victoria.. I am explicit about my age, what I look like and what I would like. She says Yes and sure to everything..Bottom line it was the worst service I have ever had. My guess was she was not into older men and had just discovered that with me... Later one of our colleagues here on perb was asking about her... I suggested he had better tell her his age... She just stopped replying to him once he did.. OK We all know why I gave her a rating of -3 for her BJ skills. I just wish she would post this in her ads.
A few things about this thread. Age is only a number. You can have a preconceived thought about what a 20, 40, or 60 year old looks like, but you have no idea until you meet them. I'm 50 and still look better (both body and face) than many guys half my age. As a side note my dad is in his 70's and the fucker looks fantastic! So this idea about who wants to sleep with a 50 year old guy or have you seen the body on a 50 year old guy holds no water. Jonah Hill has had a terrible build and look his entire life.
Then this thought about guys not willing to fuck women much older than themselves. I have no problem and in fact dated a woman 15 years older than me when I was 40. However, she was smoking hot. But this idea too is flawed for the simple reason men in general age much better than women do. Typically a 50 year old guy is going to look much better than a 50 year old woman. Again, always exceptions, but for the most part this holds true.
Do I have a bias or preference? Sure. I don't like young women. They may be hot, but I feel I typically get nothing else from them. Conversation is weak, mostly because there is no common ground. In fact the only really young escort I truly enjoyed spending time with was Manuella. Also sex. Yes I will say it. I find most young women are terrible at sex. And it's not a practice thing, I just find women close to 30 seem to enjoy sex much more and have a better understanding not just of men but also themselves. So late 20's and well into 30's is the age I prefer. Beyond 40? Now this really comes down to genetics and how well a woman has taken care of herself.
Then this thought about guys not willing to fuck women much older than themselves. I have no problem and in fact dated a woman 15 years older than me when I was 40. However, she was smoking hot. But this idea too is flawed for the simple reason men in general age much better than women do. Typically a 50 year old guy is going to look much better than a 50 year old woman. Again, always exceptions, but for the most part this holds true.
Do I have a bias or preference? Sure. I don't like young women. They may be hot, but I feel I typically get nothing else from them. Conversation is weak, mostly because there is no common ground. In fact the only really young escort I truly enjoyed spending time with was Manuella. Also sex. Yes I will say it. I find most young women are terrible at sex. And it's not a practice thing, I just find women close to 30 seem to enjoy sex much more and have a better understanding not just of men but also themselves. So late 20's and well into 30's is the age I prefer. Beyond 40? Now this really comes down to genetics and how well a woman has taken care of herself.
Perception can't be helped and takes time and experience to change. I always had a milf/cougar fetish in my youth and when I was 18 I hooked up with a 45 year old, to this day she is the only woman who I had such an age difference with. I did not regret it then and I don't now. I had this perception though that I would never go for a woman who is older than 45 and I'd say that was my view up until I was maybe 25? My perception changed when I crossed paths with the formerly 45 year old I hooked up with at 18 (at the time she was 52+) and I knew that I would have hooked up with her again even at her age. Circumstances didn't allow anything to happen again at this time, but oh well. At this point in time she's like in her mid 60's. Would I now? I don't know, but probably.
I remember an SP who (nearly 10 years ago) advertised back then she wouldn't see clients under 30, but also wouldn't see anyone over 50. I still see her advertising and without mentioning names, sometimes her ads show no one under 35, but nothing any longer about an age limit. It takes time for perception and experience to change.
I remember an SP who (nearly 10 years ago) advertised back then she wouldn't see clients under 30, but also wouldn't see anyone over 50. I still see her advertising and without mentioning names, sometimes her ads show no one under 35, but nothing any longer about an age limit. It takes time for perception and experience to change.
Why, they already get that disabled wheel chair parking right by the front door, they get the cheaper meals at restaurants, and they get that fat pay check every month just because they've worked their entire lives, they get to live in those cool old folks homes, and get looked after at all times.....and now they should get Escort discounts because their hair is silver?
Seniors get all the perks.
Agreed. This hobby is a decadent luxury, and one does this because they can afford it, not because it's a necessity that one can't live without.
About 40% of the members here are seniors or within a few years of becoming one...thanks ,but I wasn't being serious.
I also knew that Forthedevil was about to get banned because of another thread...it was my lame attempt to distract him, till the Mods got on board.
I see it had no affect, and he was banned anyways.
If a lady decides to give out a discount to anybody....that's her decision, and hers alone.
But your probably right, it shouldn't be viewed as a necessity.
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Being definitely over 50, I usually see women late 30s to 50.
Recently I was asked by a boss to try a couple of new young ladies 23 and 25.
Both were a lot of fun participants, mutual enjoyment, and I had a great time.
So I don't think about the age difference when it's going to be there anyway.
If an ad says no older gents, that's okay... the girl doesn't want to fuck daddy or grandpa. Her choice.
Then there's my sweet young'un who does want to fuck "daddy".
Recently I was asked by a boss to try a couple of new young ladies 23 and 25.
Both were a lot of fun participants, mutual enjoyment, and I had a great time.
So I don't think about the age difference when it's going to be there anyway.
If an ad says no older gents, that's okay... the girl doesn't want to fuck daddy or grandpa. Her choice.
Then there's my sweet young'un who does want to fuck "daddy".
To discount or to decide that something or someone is not worth considering or giving attention. The joy of different meanings!!
That probably, explains a lot . LOL
https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?264581-Perbatory/page5
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This is a great analysis lukom !
And this is, another analysis...
IMHO its more about comfort, and being comfortable to offer the best Experience !
Superficial, IMO, doesn't really describe the situation ?
As "lukom" alluded to, Things change over time .
Thank God, or some facsimile there of, this Lady never quit the Business !
https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?170711-Get-REAL-GFE-for-4-99-!!&highlight=Emmanuelle
I wouldn't have fit her Restrictions back then, but, thankfully Life is an ever evolving process .
She's now one of my favorites, and provides as good an Experience as one of your ATF, who I've seen twice !
And She's travelled to almost 40 Countries, including Scuba Diving, which is considerably more adventurous !
I could fantasize about taking her to Cozumel, Mexico !
You're not going to be, so lucky ?
Now, who's superficial ?
Just saying...
Cheers
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We all see providers for different reasons. Yes looks plays a part when I select a lady, age does also play a part, but ultimately I make my choice by researching a lady's reviews and posts to get a feel of her personality. I enjoy the companionship probably more than just getting my rocks off.
