need suggestions for prolonging the fun

[godfather_77]

I have very recently gotten into this hobby and had the pleasure to see a couple of women, one of which I would like to review but await her go ahead. Any way the issue is that the first time we do anything usually a BBBJ I last as long as the dudes in the "jizz in my pants" video (if you are not sure what I mean have a laugh and search YouTube for it). I know this will happen so I usually book at least two hours then I can usually come about 3 times. The problem is that the first time is usually not as relaxed as the 2nd or 3d where I can last longer. This aslo casues hesitation in me booking some of the BJ queens that advertise on this site. I'd be done the minute they open their mouths I am exagerrating a bit, but any suggestions as to what to do, I don't want to use creams because the girl's mouth will become numb when she's doing the deed, that will make for very interesting conversation. Would you tell the SP before hand? Have a pre game wank? Any suggestions welcome.

 

[godfather_77]

Thanks for the info. what is the stuff called?

 

[namssa]

Talk to the SP and let her know of your "issue". I am sure she would try to take it easy on you, maybe she is too intense for your little guy. You could think about your ex, works wonders on me to kill my erection.



My situation is pretty much the oppostie of yours in that I have never cum from a bj. I have seen some of the best and I am not even close to popping the weasel. Has taken me quite some time to be able to cum in under an hour at all.

 

[LittleAsianGuy]

Jerk off one or two nights before the planned session and you'll last longer.

 

[blazejowski]

Jerk off one or two nights before the planned session and you'll last longer.

...or the morning of... usually works for me...

 

[FortunateOne]

Does it really matter if the first time is quick if you plan to stay longer and get msog? I cannot think that it should be an issue, and if you wish, just go with a massage and hj to start things off. That way you won't feel like you cum too too soon, and you also take the edge off. It is easier to control a hj to slow things down than a bj or fs.

I am surprised tho that someone so relatively new is already booking 2 hour appts, going for msog and bbbjs. Most newbies are more concerned about their health (so cbjs instead) and of getting a bit of experience with shorter appts before commiting $ and time towards longer ones.

Are you doing fs at all, or is this all bjs? Just curious as to how you came about choosing to go all in rather than a more cautious approach to get started, then booking longer times when you know the sp is the best one for your needs.

 

[Rusty Shackleford]

I once took an antidepressant called Effexor XR. It is often prescribed off label by doctors to men that are a little too quick, though I took it for other symptoms. It must have worked overtime in my body because it almost made it so I couldn't cum at all. I remember several times where I'd be pounding like a jack hammer non stop for god knows how long, almost to the point of a heart attack, but I ended up throwing in the towel because I just couldn't cross the finish line . Made my g/f at the time feel bad because she thought she wasn't doing something right and that she was the reason I couldn't blow it. Apparently ecstacy (mdma) has the same effect, as both drugs have something to do with the chemical serotonin. I eventually discontinued taking Effexor and things returned to normal. That's just my experience though. Other guys say it works perfectly and exactly as they wanted.

 

[uncleg]

Tie a rope around it, that way when you cum you don't squirt. Mind you, your nuts might explode.

 

[blazejowski]

Tie a rope around it, that way when you cum you don't squirt. Mind you, your nuts might explode.

Or, safer yet, a cock ring?

 

[godfather_77]

Thanks for the advice. FortunateOne I like to go all in so its an experience and not just a "pop and go". I do research the SP by looking at their reviews or asking people on this board. So far I have not been disappointed (knock on wood). I also look for a GFE and anything les than 2 hrs less than an hour I am thinking about just getting off IMO.
Missy thanks for the link!