Need Some Advice...

[Verb]

Okay check this out. I have been seeing this SP for quite sometime now and I am basically getting whatever I want with her. Money is not the issue between us but when do you know a sp is tellin you the truth? She charges me the minimum and Bareback FS was offered because she knows I am clean and I know she is clean. I have never done it with her BAREBACK yet and I am just wondering what are the responsibilty if I do her Bareback???? I am not sure if she is telling me the truth about her feelins because afterall she does sleep with other men for money. SO give me your opinion boyz and girlz.

 

[Snobound]

Just Say NO!

Verb, far be it for me to be anyone's concience, but...
[slap up side of head]
What the hell are you thinking with man?
Does it matter whether you have been seeing the SP for a day, a week or 5 years, and whether or not she is telling you the truth. You can't possibly know the status of every person she was ever intimate with.

Any person who is sexually active with multiple partners, regardless of their occupation, should not be having unprotected sex in this day and age.

IMHO, that is strictly for people in a long term monogamous relationship, who have had themselves tested first.

Use the big head, and put a cover on the little one, mon ami!

 

[imagination]

grab your senses and say thanks but no thank-you. too scary to take chances.

 

[imagination]

Hmmm...that's a thought LG.

 

[Snobound]

Clarification

If condoms should only be used with monogomous relationships, do married men use condoms with both the SPs and the wife or g/f????
Not sure how that might work

LG, actually my point was that BB sex should only be practiced by partners in a monogamous relationship.

If a guy has a SO and is also seeing an SP, that's hardly monogamous.
Whether he uses a condom with the SP and not with his wife/GF would depend on his comfort level with the protection afforded by the condom, I suppose. How he would otherwise explain to his SO why the decision to use condoms with her.....errrrr???????

 

[Steve Ray]

Chances are if you are getting bb then she is either currently or has in the past gone bb with somebody else.

 

[darius]

hahaha
whoa!!!!
i had just woken up from a nap when i wrote the above post what i meant was if BB was only for monogomous relationships, does that mean married pooners should use a condom with their SPs and SOs?
I'm not sure how that would work, consitering explaining to your wife why you are using a condom would be a little odd

Or married pooners could practice abstinence in their marriage like me!

 

[darius]

if you are thinking with the head that's located at the end of your neck then the answer's gotta be NO.

 

[VanIsland Lisa]

Oh ew! I always think if someone in this buisness (client or sp) doesn't wanna wear a condom then they are probably infected already. Why else would they risk their lives and not care? Don't do it!! If this woman wants to commit e.ct get her tested before you go bareback. God only know what she's been doing(and who)
P.s also watch out for pregnency traps! She may be a great girl
but why risk it?

 

[Alexboy]

NO !

How do you know she is clean ?

 

[RoadRocket]

Advice

No flaming from me. You just asked for an opinion and mine is no, do not go bareback.

 

[Tyler Durden]

Bad idea.

 

[Verb]

Well she did have her test papers if i really wanted to see it. She never offered BBFS but I asked and she said only if I get tested. My test came out good but I don't think I am gonna go through with it. I am a pretty good judge of character most of the time and she really seems interested in some kind of relationship. I guess I am gona go out and buy a magic 8 ball.

Thanx for the response.

 

[chuck1561]

as usual very well put Grendleaxe..

that hits the nail right on the head..and not that I'm trying to be critical to you verb but with ref to..

I am not sure if she is telling me the truth about her feelins because afterall she does sleep with other men for money.

the trust issue would be a two way street here..saying or implying that a sp is untrustworthy or a liar because she sleeps with other men for money then what does it make us "Angels" who pay the money for their services and have to lie to others about it..as I said not being judgemental of you or anyone but it is a two way street..

 

[delacar]

better safe than sorry.

Hey Verb, better to play it safe now than be sorry later. Don't chance it,good luck.

 

[dipitydoo]

go bareback if you keep her for yourself. not that shes a posession but you get my drift. you and her can take that responsability when you are not putting others at risk, period.