Need some advice!!

[JuJuBoy]

I am new to all this and I am currently in a situation that I don't know how to handle. I went to an AMP in Richmond about three weeks ago and really got along with the girl who I was with. We exchanged phone numbers that day and we basically talked on the phone every single day after that. We went out a couple of times together (dinners, bars, night clubs, movies etc) and she is treating me like I am her boyfriend. Don't get me wrong as I also enjoy the time that I spent with her but I guess her profession is what's holding me back. Am I crazy or stupid to even consider having a relationship with someone who works at an AMP? Any advice would be much appreciated. Thanks in advance.

JuJuBoy

 

[Quarter Mile'r]

Hello JuJuboy;

Of course first of all this should be in the lounge.
Anyway as has been posted on this subject before have
a great time while it lasts and think with the big head and not
the little one or you could get your heart yanked severly.

These broads are in it for the money, don't make any mistake
about it.
If it does go somewhere further it will be in your head to figure
out if you don't mind a hundred guys banging "your girl" and her gettin'
paid for it.

Nonetheless, welcome to Perb!!

................QM'r

 

[georgebushmoron]

She might not be in it for the money, I speak from experience. Set the ground rules. Figure out if she intends to keep working, and what her limits are when she works with clients. Find out if working at an AMP is her long term goal, and if not, ease her into something else. A girl from an AMP has a lot of benefits than just your average girl that I wouldn't overlook. Of course, there is always the risk that she likes her work too much or likes her clients too much. Just because she works at an AMP, I would not turn her down. I'd find out more about what's going on inside her first.

 

[Yman]

Do you guys like to talk about your work with each other? It might be therapeutic and interesting for both parties ? Take an interest and show you care.

Talk about all the different cocks she stroked that day. Talk about cock size and shape. Who could shoot their creamy load the furthest. How many times she got soaked in hot man juice, etc..

And if you're bothered by my above comments.....maybe you should think again. I'm just being a realist. Not that the above is neccessary, but I'm sure it must have crossed your mind.

 

[mustangjoe]

wake up,

she snuck into the country in a container and now she is trying to marry any sucker who comes along for citizenship.

 

[jvc123]

right on mustingjoe...I agree....usually this stuff won't last.

 

[Chantal]

I have seen many men get burned by SP"S.I know of two men for sure, but it also happens outside the Perb world.I personally will not have a relationship while I am in this business...and would not respect a man that would allow me to do it.I do have standards..I would go with the flow..and go dutch when you go out...because there are men that like SP'S to be their sugar eye candy$$$$ and the girl is paying the man's way.Honest communication is a start......only an opinion.

 

[mustangjoe]

I have seen many men get burned by SP"S.I know of two men for sure, but it also happens outside the Perb world.I personally will not have a relationship while I am in this business...and would not respect a man that would allow me to do it.I do have standards..I would go with the flow..and go dutch when you go out...because there are men that like SP'S to be their sugar eye candy$$$$ and the girl is paying the man's way.Honest communication is a start......only an opinion.

ok, interesting enough but I'd rather hear your opinion about the perfect looking snatch.

 

[JuJuBoy]

Thanks for your advice everyone. I guess I will have a serious talk with her first and just let it go from there.

JuJuBoy

 

[Quarter Mile'r]

If you feel like it and want to share with the rest of us,
Let us know how it goes it would certainly be interesting
to see how this plays out.

If anything it might bring some interesting
responses from the members if not for just a good read.

Good luck bro'

.............QM'r

 

[hugedman]

......... Find out if working at an AMP is her long term goal, and if not, ease her into something else. ........... Of course, there is always the risk that she likes her work too much or likes her clients too much. Just because she works at an AMP, I would not turn her down. I'd find out more about what's going on inside her first.

Hello....george,
of all the girls you ask, they are going to tell you that working at an AMP or as an escort is not their long term goals. You gotta give your head a shake, even if it is her long term goal, she would not tell you that...

 

[IQof10]

I know of 2 sp's that are married and yes the husband knows. In one case he is in the other room while the deed is done. A legal pimp one might say.
But citizenship may play a big part here.

 

[lenny]

You are not crazy. I was never happier than when i was
in a "relationship" with a SW. It only lasted a few months,
though.

 

[john9]

JuJuboy

Love what you do, do what you Love. Why cares about others. Go for it if you feel you are happy with, right.

 

[georgebushmoron]

Good advice Everest. Some might be too close to the bone, discomforting, but revealing. It's the kind of advice you have always known deep down to be true, but not always willing to face when in the evolving romance. Thanks!

And would you mind elaborating on the circumstances around what you say, "some reviewed on this board have told me how much they have loved me" ? I'd be interested in knowing, for I have experienced similarly.

 

[chuckw]

My opinion on this subject?

Too close for comfort.

Bad things happen nine out of ten times.

 

[mick_eight]

The take I have on this [1] not all men want perfect women,to some of us living with a wild lady if all part of the matrix [2] I believe we all have a certain tone , when xx meets xy and the tones match, it is like a magnet,nothing can stop the result. [3] if all other things match ie. jobs, kids,outlook,morals. we have a life time partner, if they don,t match it will end in future,most likely in flames. [4] sometimes the best matches are the worst for day to day life, and finding the right mix is very hard, Divorce rates tell us it is a very hard thing to do. [5] PERB is the place where you can be any persona you want,but you can never change your tone.[6] try and find someone where tones play a song together , not a scream.

 

[georgebushmoron]

Everest,
pretty much the same, but haven't quite spent a year together. However, I warned her that although I like sex, if she was seeing me for sex that I would stop it right there (there was no need to say if she was seeing me for money as we hadn't exchanged money ever except the usual fare at the amp, but that stopped long ago). She has not told me that I am the best sex ever, but she often asks me out to go have sex. She has talked about having a baby with me, something I don't take seriously at all but perhaps she does. She has told me a lot about her life, and often tries to demonstrate the truth behind what she tells (without my asking). Nevertheless, she has a huge sex drive, which is a big concern for me - as I wonder how much working at the mp is for money and how much for her own pleasure. Unless I discover another reason (such as a big lie, dating another), if I determine that working at an mp for her is largely for pleasure, I will stop this affair cold.

 

[lenny]

one day she suggested lunch. turned out that she was pretty wealthy (probably has more wealth than 80% of pooners).

what i did not like were all the lies, the big ones, the small ones and the old ones and the new ones ... lies lies and more lies. so what was real? yes she loved me but if on a scale of one to ten my great loves were 9.5's, our love was more like a three or four.

Why lie if she is so wealthy? You spent a lot of time together
& i take it the sex was great.

 

[georgebushmoron]

turned out that she was pretty wealthy (probably has more wealth than 80% of pooners).

Just curious... her wealth came from working at the amp?