Mistresses & Courtesans - Where to Find?

[Sir Woodster]

About 6 months ago I put up a post on this subject and got some great feedback in a general sense...

Now the question comes to light - where would one find a mistress or courtesan....

Such a person could be a SP who is looking for a more consistent clientele - she could be a student who just wants a something on the side with a clear NSA relationship but with financial benefit (books are expensive) or it could be a professional gal who is seeking some extra support to help with a mortgage or just to "get ahead" a little...

Wondering who is watching this - who is interested - and where would one find such a person...

As with the last general query I posted - a summary of the results will be posted...

Open responses and PMs are welcomed....

 

[vancouverman]

Such a person could be a SP who is looking for a more consistent clientele....

and which one is NOT looking for such??????????????????????????

 

[Big Trapper]

Yeah, the lineup carries on over here - behind me!

 

[crazydancer]

thought about this subject before. well, advertise in perb maybe one way. craig list maybe another. or just local paper. just be clear on the topic n initial contact. let's say "distinguished rich gentleman looking for a mistress. etc etc." then if u ever find one who's interested, just make it like a bussiness contract. i wonder what kind of response u'll get. u never know. many desparate young female students out there.

 

[Herb_The_Perb]

I think a lot of theis depends on just how much you are expecting, and how much you're offering, no?
Maybe you can give us the details.

 

[dreamer222]

Interesting question. I have wondered about sort of a time share mistress concept where a number of people pool their resources and contract with one lady for a specific number of sessions within a specific period of time. Might be a good arrangement for all concerned?

 

[Sir Woodster]

and which one is NOT looking for such??????????????????????????

By "more consistent" one means the right number of regulars so that new clients are not needed, advertising is not needed, basically she has her private stable of stallions who look after her needs.....

Now a courtesan or mistress has a different approach - I know, I've been there and it was a fantastic arrangement the only ended with my being transferred across the nation and now I'm thinking why not go for it again...

I think a lot of theis depends on just how much you are expecting, and how much you're offering, no?
Maybe you can give us the details.

Yes, it does depend on what is offered and expected - but why would I give up the details so publicly... that's like holding a royal flush, putting it on the table and THEN asking others to place their bets..... shhhhheeeeeessssssssssssssssshhhhhhhhhhhh

Interesting question. I have wondered about sort of a time share mistress concept where a number of people pool their resources and contract with one lady for a specific number of sessions within a specific period of time. Might be a good arrangement for all concerned?

That concept can work and has been known to work well - the logistics are tricky and the more people involved the greater the probability of the tricky part turning nasty....

 

[Ray]

In 'The Province' newspaper, there is an ad that comes up a few times a year.

'Generous gentleman looking for part-time girlfriend

I've wondered what sort of responses that would get.

Don't underestimate the workplace.
Many secretaries and receptionists are at the bottom of the pay scale, and sometimes, look to supplement their income. I've dated a receptionist at my old employers place, and have dated women from the workplace in the past.

 

[Ashley Fame]

lol

In 'The Province' newspaper, there is an ad that comes up a few times a year.

'Generous gentleman looking for part-time girlfriend

I've wondered what sort of responses that would get.

Don't underestimate the workplace.
Many secretaries and receptionists are at the bottom of the pay scale, and sometimes, look to supplement their income. I've dated a receptionist at my old employers place, and have dated women from the workplace in the past.

Too funny...a couple of years back I actually responded to that ad, took the damn bus to Richmond only to find dissapointment...this guy a TRUE freak of nature! Needless to say, it fell through...

How else was I going to pay for my school books?!?!!

 

[Rain Man]

www.sugardaddie.com

There sure is a website for everything

 

[Sir Woodster]

www.sugardaddie.com

Too bad it doesn't have listings for BC

Don't underestimate the workplace. Many secretaries and receptionists are at the bottom of the pay scale, and sometimes, look to supplement their income. I've dated a receptionist at my old employers place, and have dated women from the workplace in the past.

Great concept that could land one in a heap of serious legal trouble if the relationship went sour in anyway and you were deemed to be in a "position of authority" ....

 

[curvy_nympho]

Mistress or Courtesan

I have always found this concept to be an interesting one too!

To me, it implies an exclusive arrangement between two people - the "benefactor" and the "mistress".

She creates an environment in which her benefactor feels totally comfortable and at ease. They might go out to dinner and the theatre, see a movie or go on a bike ride, (whatever activities they both enjoy doing together) as well as all the erotic and sensual pleasures they cared to indulge in.

If he travels for business, she would create a welcoming "home" for him or would be a "date" for functions. She would cater to his needs and have his favorite wine, foods and lingerie on hand.

Basically, she creates a sensual oasis.

The relationship is more than just a simple transaction. There would be genuine affection involved, just not all the messy strings of a relationship or spouse.

The benefactor would, in turn, pay his mistress' expenses so that she is available to him whenever he had need of her company.

I know that this happens in present day (not just 200 years ago!), but perhaps not as often.

Has anyone had this type of arrangement?

Bella

 

[crazydancer]

most listing r from toronto!

 

[majikcalgary]

i found only about 30 listings in calgary... unfortunately alot of those pics are on every dating site on the net which often indicates they are fake lol

 

[majikcalgary]

sorry... i searched for ads with pictures.. should have been specific

 

[Sir Woodster]

To me, it implies an exclusive arrangement between two people - the "benefactor" and the "mistress".

Has anyone had this type of arrangement?

Bella

Yes, this does imply an exclusive arrangement - and that was the common form in days gone by. What I'm finding amongst people is a desire for a "part-time" arrangement to supplement a busy life. Someone may date, attend social functions yet there is a "lover" relationship with the benefactor. Students and single (sometimes married) people in the workforce can benefit from such an oasis...

And yes, I have had such an arrangement in the past which is why I'm exploring it again...

 

[Sir Woodster]

Too bad it doesn't have listings for BC

Yes it does! I have met some men from Vancouver on there and there are other ladies on there from BC! When you click on search, in the middle it says If you would like to view profiles from another country you may choose one here.
United States United Kingdom Australia Canada Former USSR

click on Canada and voila! have fun!

SHE'S RIGHT... a search for BC says there are 166 ladies in BC seeking a sugardaddy....

 

[The Real Tiger]

Sir W... ever considered a submissive?

Now I know it is a little different then what you are looking for but many find happiness in a full time or part time D/s relationship... and one can have multiple submissives...

Food for thought...

Regards,

Tiger

 

[curvy_nympho]

Mistress or Courtesan

Yes, this does imply an exclusive arrangement - and that was the common form in days gone by. What I'm finding amongst people is a desire for a "part-time" arrangement to supplement a busy life. Someone may date, attend social functions yet there is a "lover" relationship with the benefactor. Students and single (sometimes married) people in the workforce can benefit from such an oasis...

And yes, I have had such an arrangement in the past which is why I'm exploring it again...

I have always said that I was born in the wrong era! With my curvy figure I belong in corsets and I think I would have made the perfect mistress. I am a sexual and sensual person, a good listener and have a great imagination to keep things fresh. I also like my own independence and hate being tied down all the time. To me, it seems like the perfect arrangement.

I wish you the very best of luck in your search! I hope you find the right woman to meet your needs.

Bella

 

[necko]

can't say no

an sp I became friends with became the mistress of some well to do quy, what she hated was that she could never say no, she was on his beck n call when ever he so desired after a well the dinners out became less and less frequent, has did the trips out of town, for this she was paid 5k amonth after expenses.he ended by having her evicted out of the place he rented for her.A bit of a slap if u ask me. They found each other at the Marble Arch Bar. She was ecorting and dancing