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Marriage - SP and Client

Sunset

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It's actually best for a SP to marry a Guy she has seen as a client. There's no need to have a secret past and a favorable history is on their side.

There are several documents regarding the subject of SP’s marrying their clients. In the old days, it was quite common for working ladies (SP’s) to marry the gents that they saw as clients. Due to the honesty and their past experiences, the marriages between providers and the clients historically have been more successful as compared to other marriage arrangements.

It seems after a working lady became committed, they were more loyal to being monogamous and had a stronger desire to be more pleasing to their husband. Moreover, the marriages between an SP and their client were probably more successful because they understood each other more fully, had no secrets and were naturally more vulnerable allowing them to have a much deeper emotional, social, intellectual and spiritual connection.

Don't misunderstand me. I'm not looking to marry an SP or any woman for that matter. What I'm saying is that I believe, based on history and my own experiences, they would make the best wives, if they were to marry a man that they've seen as a client, providing both parties sincerely loved each other and the relationship was kept monogamous.

Would I be open to the possibility of having a loving relationship with an SP that resulted in marriage? Absolutely. I wouldn't see any girl, SP or not if I couldn't have a real human connection with them, so the possibility always exist.

Examine the marriages between bar girls/ hostesses and military men after World War II and you'll find a higher percentage of successful marriages than others. Certainly a lower divorce rate.

Up in smoke goes all that bullshit about keeping it strictly business and not getting emotionally attached. If warm feelings develop between an SP and her client and either party doesn’t want it, they can move on. However, if they do like it, based on history, their chances of a more fulfilling, honest, loving, loyal and successful marriage is on their side.
 

Storm

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Some truths to what you wrote Sunset.

You said you're not looking, but if you do find yourself fancying one. Keep yourself seated and belt tied real tight my friend. It's one hell of a ride.
 

dirk_dog

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Wow. Youve said a lot in that post.

Where do you get your facts and stats that you base your ideas and arguement on??

I dont doubt a relationship or marriage can work between a client and SP, but to say it has a better chance to work is a far stretch. Theres a lot of things going against such a relationship from the start. For one, you should consider the backgrounds of each. Why is the girl hooking? And why is the guy hobbying?
And now thats 2 people who need to get out of the lifestyle.


And good luck on your pursuit of a relationship with an SP. Search the escort message boards and you will see countless posts of men falling for SPs, MPAs, or strippers. I dont recall of seeing any that ended positively. Im sure theres the odd one that ends up great but your definitely taking your chances in getting played and hurt and ending up broke.


Sunset said:
Due to the honesty and their past experiences, the marriages between providers and the clients historically have been more successful as compared to other marriage arrangements.............


Up in smoke goes all that bullshit about keeping it strictly business and not getting emotionally attached. If warm feelings develop between an SP and her client and either party doesn’t want it, they can move on. However, if they do like it, based on history, their chances of a more fulfilling, honest, loving, loyal and successful marriage is on their side.
 

roadguy

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How could you possibly generalize the prospects of such a union.
So many variables.
All sp's are different as are the clients.
Generally speaking I feel it would be a difficult proposition.
Not impossible.
Very difficult.
Both would have to know themselves very well and be ready
for a major committment.
If they had interests in common, beside sex, it could work.
 

Quimby

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Here Here ...

Now, how do you convince her to get out of the BIZ ... the cash and lifestyle is the hardest thing to give up?

Q
 

O-Shoes

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Is Lauren from PH available in Edmonton? assuming she quits the biz and becomes my free sex slave..

One can dream can't he?
 

chuck1561

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yeah but

once I dawn my speedo and shake my money maker, it`s all over but the cryin..lol..ok and the screaming and then the frantic running.. :p ;) :D then all you guys will be out of the running..you know what they say..once you go chuckie you never go back :cool:

bet none of you can
do this either ;)
 

Sunset

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LMAO...Chuckie, that's funny.

Back to the point. I agree about an SP getting out of the biz for an relationship to work. The working ladies in the past who married their clients got completely out of the biz and never went back. It's impossible, I think, to have a successful relationship while an SP is still working and forget about being married to a working SP.

Women in the earlier years who experienced successful marriages with their former clients did not indulge in drugs. I think if you get emotionally involved with a girl, SP or not, who's into drugs, you're probably in for a lot of disappointment.

I believe there are SP's that are fully capable of giving and receiving real love from their clients, getting and staying out of the biz, marrying a former client and having an exceptionally successful marriage. For some reason that I can't explain, I think a former SP will make the best wife. A former SP, I think is more capable of being monogamous, more exciting and joyful to live with. Hence, former SP's make better wives.
 

Penhold

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Re: yeah but

chuck1561 said:
once I dawn my speedo and shake my money maker, it`s all over but the cryin..lol..ok and the screaming and then the frantic running.. :p ;) :D then all you guys will be out of the running..you know what they say..once you go chuckie you never go back :cool:

bet none of you can
do this either ;)

Interesting wallpaper of a barbell.

I've read about and seen pictures of "glory holes", but usually the pictures are from the other side of the wall and show your penis protruding through the wall receiving a bj from an anonymous woman (or perhaps even from a man - how would you know? :D ).

Guess you must be shy. But thanks for sharing anyways.

:D :D
 
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