Emily I am sorry this goof keeps coming back & causing you grief.
I went through some grief with that disgruntled ex-client, that has even gone as far as trying to get me evicted among endless texts & harassment.
I think the best thing to do is step away from the computer & not respond at all. I'm not tying to sound harsh cause you know I luv ya, but with you continuously mentioning outing your name it is putting information out there again that most have forgotten & moved onto the next girl to discuss bad or good. The men that have met you know you are none of what he says, & you knowing what he says about you isn't true & that's all that should matter. It won't affect your business nor have people thinking otherwise.
The police told me with my ex-client is to ignore him & eventually they will go away cause your not giving them the satisfaction at knowing this is bothering you or affecting your everyday life.
Like the advice that was given to me by many not just the police ignoring him is best. The mods will take care of him when his decides to out a location or where you can find a Providers real name. Plus he has zero credibility here & looks like zero friends here & in real life.
Ignorance is Bliss.