Life-changing providers?

[Poonosaur]

Preface: I understand and am fully aware that, at the end of the day, encounters of this nature is a business transaction with the purpose of fairly compensating both parties first above else.

To my fellow Perbians, have any of you ever met a provider that has changed your life in a good way? Encounters (and repeats) that just oozes with passion, chemistry and almost soul-like connection? So much so that you stop seeing anyone else voluntarily (more so that seeing her takes precedence by miles)

I’ve recently found my unicorn, and my experiences have been intense, profound and downright healing. The chemistry, in all regards, has been amazing. The craving we have for each other, we’re head-over-heels like we’re 15 again (eventhough we’re both much older), even beyond the physical.

So much so, I have even stopped watching porn and meeting other women. All my love juice is now for her alone.

Now, I’m not saying I’m falling in love (at least not in the traditional sense), as I am happy with our arrangement and her work and wouldn’t wish for it to be any other way. It’s purely an enjoyment of each other and fulfilling each other’s needs, and being very present in the company of one another for now.

I imagine Perbians who had shared similar experiences are likely not here anymore, but I would love to hear anyone else’ experiences, even providers’.

 

[jamasianman]

Sounds like you are getting a bit too attached brah. You are on Cloud 9 now but the mention of not seeing other sps and no porn gives me cause for alarm. If you can't keep it professional and just enjoy your time together then maybe you need to end things before you get too attached.

Let me put it this way. If she all of a sudden retired without warning or cause would it really hurt you or would you get over it quickly.

 

[Smiling23]

There have been girls that make you feel alive again and it sounds like you have that. We all have needs here and those needs are unique to us and when we find someone that connects just in the way we need it can be special. I have been exclusive to see the odd person like this and it feels great. Can even feel great for quite some time where you have no desire to see anyone else. No porn though - good grief man!

The key thing is to know it is a beautiful illusion and appreciate the girl for being so skilled with it. If you are lucky she will likely have legit feelings for you above and beyond the expectations of her job. Providers have emotions, the need for connection, the desire for love just like us. However, in all but the rarest of cases, I have to second what jamasianman said.

 

[imseekingunow]

As you mentor this hobby is first and foremost a business transcation. Nevertheless we are human and despite our best intentions we may develop feelings.

I have been with countless women now and generally we both have a good time and good connections but only one where she was always on my mind. I experienced what you are experiencing now. She was business like but i think she sensed my feelings for her and took it to the next level GFE. I was hooked. I did not feel this way in years and did not think I would ever again.

As jamasianman mentioned it was very painful when she retired without warning and they ultimately will. You will wonder what you did wrong. It took me a while to get over her.

Be grateful for what you have and enjoy it while you can but you might see other providers to ween yourself off her so it is not as painful when she retires.

PS it has happened to me a second time. Still painful but less so because I know it is not forever.

 

[dare.devil]

As you mentor this hobby is first and foremost a business transcation. Nevertheless we are human and despite our best intentions we may develop feelings.

I have been with countless women now and generally we both have a good time and good connections but only one where she was always on my mind. I experienced what you are experiencing now. She was business like but i think she sensed my feelings for her and took it to the next level GFE. I was hooked. I did not feel this way in years and did not think I would ever again.

As jamasianman mentioned it was very painful when she retired without warning and they ultimately will. You will wonder what you did wrong. It took me a while to get over her.

Be grateful for what you have and enjoy it while you can but you might see other providers to ween yourself off her so it is not as painful when she retires.

PS it has happened to me a second time. Still painful but less so because I know it is not forever.

It can happen, but you need to realise the situation here. If provider is well reviewed and very good at her job, it means anyone met with her felt the same way as you did, its not because she felt you were special but she is an excellent provider. Its just you were more emotional than others to think on that route.

 

[angry anderson]

Preface: I understand and am fully aware that, at the end of the day, encounters of this nature is a business transaction with the purpose of fairly compensating both parties first above else.

To my fellow Perbians, have any of you ever met a provider that has changed your life in a good way? Encounters (and repeats) that just oozes with passion, chemistry and almost soul-like connection? So much so that you stop seeing anyone else voluntarily (more so that seeing her takes precedence by miles)

I’ve recently found my unicorn, and my experiences have been intense, profound and downright healing. The chemistry, in all regards, has been amazing. The craving we have for each other, we’re head-over-heels like we’re 15 again (eventhough we’re both much older), even beyond the physical.

So much so, I have even stopped watching porn and meeting other women. All my love juice is now for her alone.

Now, I’m not saying I’m falling in love (at least not in the traditional sense), as I am happy with our arrangement and her work and wouldn’t wish for it to be any other way. It’s purely an enjoyment of each other and fulfilling each other’s needs, and being very present in the company of one another for now.

I imagine Perbians who had shared similar experiences are likely not here anymore, but I would love to hear anyone else’ experiences, even providers’.

So much so, I have even stopped watching porn and meeting other women.

Me too. Born again Christian now!
Congratulations! Contact info please.....

All joking aside. I hope it lasts. The one I fell for turned ugly.

 

[angry anderson]

As you mentor this hobby is first and foremost a business transcation. Nevertheless we are human and despite our best intentions we may develop feelings.

I have been with countless women now and generally we both have a good time and good connections but only one where she was always on my mind. I experienced what you are experiencing now. She was business like but i think she sensed my feelings for her and took it to the next level GFE. I was hooked. I did not feel this way in years and did not think I would ever again.

As jamasianman mentioned it was very painful when she retired without warning and they ultimately will. You will wonder what you did wrong. It took me a while to get over her.

Be grateful for what you have and enjoy it while you can but you might see other providers to ween yourself off her so it is not as painful when she retires.

PS it has happened to me a second time. Still painful but less so because I know it is not forever.

Still painful but less so because I know it is not forever.
imseekingunow

That could be taken as slightly ominous. what with your handle and all. lol.

 

[Forum mod]

Not saying the feelings aren't real and mutual, but she is paid to make you feel special, that's part of the deal. So, maybe it is real, but maybe she's just really good at her job.

There have certainly been cases where a client and a provider end up in a relationship, even married. More often, once feelings develop, the end of the business relationship follows, almost every provider has a story or 10 about firing a client who crossed the line into "feelings".

 

[Poonosaur]

It’s great to hear the slightly different takes here, amidst a similar theme.

Will I be sad once this ends? Definitely. But I also know I’m highly likely leaving this city soon, so I know it will and I already feel bittersweet about it. But I’ve always been a romantic and do appreciate the sadness and heartache of a love lost.

I like the aspect of this hobby where there is a clear transaction involved, as that keeps me grounded to reality. I have been getting some freebies and amazing perks (with safety in mind) and while I do appreciate them, I would start to get concerned if it got entirely free.

I also like that it is a pooning arrangement, as currently I’m uncomfortable at being the sole provider of a person. Not feeling great about having too much power over a person.

I guess to take the advices given here, I won’t limit myself to just her but I will enjoy this little window of reward the universe has given me for what it’s worth.

 

[Mr. J]

Even though I wouldn't call it life changing per se, a local lady in Winnipeg continues to wow me in many ways with each visit. It will make seeing others a touch tough given how amazing she is, but so it goes.

 

[Mr.Plum]

Great thread and quite timely for me as I've been experiencing and wrestling with some of the same. I've recently even thought about stepping away for a few months to recalibrate.

I've only been seeing providers for about 6-7 months now, so still quite a noob. In that time I've seen seen more than 10+ companions and I wouldn't say that I have had a single negative experience so far (thanks to all the reviews here).

I feel quite lucky that I found my unicorn 4 months in. The connection felt instantaneous and the sessions have been everything I was searching for. No two have ever been the same and they continue to get even better. We've also had some really great intimate conversations.

A very good reminder that this is a business. The same feelings that I experienced and still have were also described in previous reviews and were ultimately what led me to reaching out to her in the first place. What was supposed to be a one time splurge, has led to me seeing her every month since.

jamasianman posted an interesting question on what you would feel like if your provider suddenly retired (or moved away). I probably would be a bit heartbroken. I'm sure I'd get over it eventually, but it would take a little time.

I have seen a couple of providers since meeting my ATF, but as vonlichtenstein also said, the bar has now been set so high , everything else has felt a little sub par.

Thanks fellas! There is some comfort in reading all your thoughts and probably a lot of members here have or will go through the same.

I'm sure l'll still see a few other providers here and there, but I will certainly enjoy the time I can spend with my fave, while I can.

 

[Lets Review]

The amazing Laiya changed my life in that she was my first incall experience, and made me realize that alleys, backseats, and short-stay rooms were not the only options. The website, quality surroundings, and professional attitude showed me that this is a business, and can be run properly. It raised my standards and has made the rest of my journey much better.

 

[imseekingunow]

Still painful but less so because I know it is not forever.
imseekingunow

That could be taken as slightly ominous. what with your handle and all. lol.

Ha ha! Created handle many years ago when I would communicate with providers here. Different audience. Still relevant as I don't have a large window of time to play and don't know when I would have that time so I am literally seeking them then.

 

[kd75]

What a simping world 😂🤣..You're hilarious

 

[masterpoonhunter]

On the topic of life-changing ...
Well in my decades of pooning I have met some absolutely amazing goddesses that in the moment gave me some life changing, mind altering, and wonderful moments.
But as far as life-changing that honour goes to the 2nd wife and in particular as I moved my last suitcase and the golf clubs out of the big house I built and left her with half ... Now THAT is life-changing.

 

[white Ninja]

Great thread and thanks for sharing. I don’t mean this in a harsh way at all, but it sounds like you’ve got a case of One-Itis.
It also sounds like the catalyst for you getting a case of the feels is mind blowing sex. Nothing wrong w that at all, but be mindful and try to keep a level head. I’m speaking from experience here, Otherwise that trait can land you in some sticky situation, just saying.

 

[YYC]

Sure. I've had lots of people in lots of areas of my life that have contributed to who I am today. But be really careful because while the ladies can change our lives put up a really tall and thick wall and don't for a minute think that translates into her having any feelings for you. we are wallets, we are ATM's, we are never anything more or anything less.

 

[luvsdaty]

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I would have to agree, that makes total sense . Even in civilian life women constantly have to be on the look out for guys unwelcome behaviour, including guys becoming obsessed w them when there are no residual feelings returned.

I know this because I speak to women are they at my work.
Thus, that’s why you have the common misconception that a guy thinks a certain woman has RBF syndrome. But the truth is she’s likely had a bad experience that caused her to feel she has to behave that way as a defence Mechanism.
If thats the case in civi life , imagine being a sex worker.

Agreed. I have a friend that's very beautiful and she screen shoted a picture of her fb friends request and there was over 800 requests with a lot of perverted propositions

 

[white Ninja]

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Agreed. I have a friend that's very beautiful and she screen shoted a picture of her fb friends request and there was over 800 requests with a lot of perverted propositions

I once conducted a personal experiment to see what I was competing with , with online dating .
I created a fake profile as a women and made the write up , as high maintenance, and entitled as I could , thus unappealing.
With no photo .
I waited 3 days , zero hits .
On day four I googled hot girl taking a bathroom selfie and attached a photo .
In one single day I got over 100 guys messaging . Some went on about how we are connected , others eluded that you are my soul mate kind of stuff ,
everything in common , etc etc.

Learned what I needed to and shut it down



.

 

[dare.devil]

I once conducted a personal experiment to see what I was competing with , with online dating .
I created a fake profile as a women and made the write up , as high maintenance, and entitled as I could , thus unappealing.
With no photo .
I waited 3 days , zero hits .
On day four I googled hot girl taking a bathroom selfie and attached a photo .
In one single day I got over 100 guys messaging . Some went on about how we are connected , others eluded that you are my soul mate kind of stuff ,
everything in common , etc etc.

Learned what I needed to and shut it down
.

Even its also evident on all social media platforms like instagram with heavily filtered photos ( you can even tell just by looking at those pics) where guys proposing them for marriage lol. Well its a sad reality that guys dont use mind and think from below the belt when it comes to women/girls.