Let's hear it from the SP's. Why do you work?

[hornydude]

Let's hear it from the SP's. Why do you work? WHAT? What keeps you going client after client, day after day? What do you mean?

I know the answer could be very obvious.... such as needing money. I need the money. But some SP's give GFE, GFE? which means to me that they actually enjoy their work. who? But what is the enjoyment of? Enjoyment of sex (with basically anyone)? NO. Enjoyment of sex with certain clients? Enjoyment of the idea of having many anonymous partners? At least I get paid now. Enjoy different bodies, different cocks? FUCK YOU! Do you enjoy being an SP? FUCK YOU! What is the pleasure, if any? I look like I'm doing alright, don't I???
If you enjoy having sex with clients, how would it interfere (in your heart/mind) with actually dating someone? My man drops me here every night. What's it to ya?
Is being an SP an empowering thing? Either that or get raped. From the pooner side, I remember in my early days, I felt a huge (albeit narcisistic) power easily dishing out $300-$400 whooooa thats ALOT of money!!!! for a session from any SP where the going rate was maybe $200. Made her feel good and I felt good doing it. I would always get special treatment. Does it empower you to take money from someone, make them a drooling idiot for the next 15 min to 1/2 hour, and send them packing weak-kneed? Do what?

What about the future? Do you think much about it... Oh ya, some day I'm gonna have the white picket fence...say when you get to be 40 or 50? I need a fix or I won't see tomorrow. Do you still want to be doing it? What? If not, what is your plan? I've got my girls in school. 5 and 9 they are. How would you transition out of it? Trans what? Do you hope/plan to find a life-long love? I got my girls. Do you hope/plan to start a new career? Maybe go be a social worker when I get the bills paid.

How do you view yourself now? I'm blonde aren't I? It's not natural tho. If you had an offer for a regular job that paid say $3000 to $4000 month, OH my god, could I make that much social working????would you turn it down and still be an SP? OH YES and get off the street. Would you be an SP on the side and still take the job? Oh, maybe still yes. Would you just take the job and never go back to being an SP? See how my girls are doing when theyget to be 18.

Sydney xo

This is actually profound.....I'm speechless....I'm actually inspired not to be an asshole.

Perhaps I'm just feeling weird, but what she said really, really made me think. I hope I can be a better person for some reason....can't really say I've felt like this before.

For the record, I'm not just spewing shit like normal....

Very odd mood inspired by this.

Oh, and I passed up a young sw today....feeling oddly good about that, too.

 

[wolfd]

I have to say, this is the stupidest fucking post I've seen on this board yet. This is the sort of thing that is best left to be asked in person, or not at all.
There is an option to actually delete the post on your own georgebushmoron. If youve never tried the option before, this would be an opportune time.
This will likely turn into a long, drawn out thread of assinine comments by everyone except the SPs that it was intended for.
Oh, look. its already started...

The guy is entitled to say his piece just as much as you are.

 

[ihatemyskirt]

I do it for the money.

 

[noneasgood]

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As for me? I don't care why women do this job, I am just glad that they are willing to do me for cash ... because I sure as shit can't charm my way into anyone's pants!

I've always said that I have a lot of respect for any woman who can have sex with me!

Both of these paragraphs were interesting reading. The first one cracked me up and the second one adds a perspective I hadn't thought about, at least not in the manner you phrased it.

 

[lenny]

OK, Lenny, does that one-sided misogynistic reply assuage your own feelings of low self-esteem?
You've named four possibilities out of about a dozen.

Yah, i'm feeling much better now
that my 7 day "vacation" is over

;

John 7:24 Judge not according to the appearance, but judge righteous judgment.

 

[shedevil]

I like my job. I like meeting new people(in many ways). If I was offered a job that paid that well, of course I would quit. Personally,I wouldn't get involved with anyone doing this job, it is way too hard on the guy. Besides, how would the dinner conversation go? I think in the end or in a heated arguement you would be nothing but a *****. So, take it as it comes and enjoy it while you can. It really is one or the other. It is hard enogh not to attach yourself to a favorite client. Keep it as a fantasy. Most SP's wouldn't admit it, and for good reason. You are giving up an aspect of control over the situation. It can go wrong of course, stalkers and so on. Then there are the people who use SP's as a dating service and have the expectation before you do. That is the hardest. Trying to push someone away niceley can always backfire. Personally, I don't want to do this forever. Most will go back to school eventually. I will. I think in the end, it is going to be hard to walk away. You develop a friendship(dare I say?)with a client, and then poof, you are gone. I can see it being difficult, but I am a believer that one day the right one will come along. Right now, is about anyone.

 

[georgebushmoron]

I like my job. I like meeting new people(in many ways). If I was offered a job that paid that well, of course I would quit. Personally,I wouldn't get involved with anyone doing this job, it is way too hard on the guy. Besides, how would the dinner conversation go? I think in the end or in a heated arguement you would be nothing but a *****. So, take it as it comes and enjoy it while you can. It really is one or the other. It is hard enogh not to attach yourself to a favorite client. Keep it as a fantasy. Most SP's wouldn't admit it, and for good reason. You are giving up an aspect of control over the situation. It can go wrong of course, stalkers and so on. Then there are the people who use SP's as a dating service and have the expectation before you do. That is the hardest. Trying to push someone away niceley can always backfire. Personally, I don't want to do this forever. Most will go back to school eventually. I will. I think in the end, it is going to be hard to walk away. You develop a friendship(dare I say?)with a client, and then poof, you are gone. I can see it being difficult, but I am a believer that one day the right one will come along. Right now, is about anyone.

Thanks for your post! It was informative, insightful.... and I like your personal touch.