As a woman who respects herself, I cannot tolerate any vulgar, vernacular, or slang terminology being used to describe my intimate anatomy.
Breasts are breasts, not "boobs!" An anus is an anus.
And I prefer vulva or vagina, because that's what it is. Plain and simple.
I'm a lady, and I expect to be spoken to, and of, like a lady.
It's not much to ask.
The way I see it, any other terminology sounds like it's coming from someone who can't deal with being an adult speaking of adult things in an adult manner.
In other words, I feel that people who substitute alternate words for the real ones come across as immature. (Don't get defensive folks, I used an "I" statement.)
What is so difficult about using the words penis and vagina when you're an adult conducting business in an adult industry?
"Cunt," which is often used to refer to an entire female human being in a thoroughly derogatory manner by the most vile, abusive, vulgar, and disgusting men, is totally unacceptable in any situation, and as far as I'm concerned it isn't even fit to be considered part of the English language, or any other language, for that matter.
As for "pussy," "kitty-kat," "cooch," etc, puleeease! Can we grow up already? What are we here—children?