japanese girls and dating them

[joe45]

anyone find that japanese girls when you go out with them, they are open in going halves-when it comes to dating. i met one today and she just open her own wallet and paid her own share. this happened with a few japanese girls i met too. they ok with paying for their own part-be it meal, movie...
i notice chinese girls n korean arent like this. they want the guy to pay

also i heard they are also more open to sex and easy. is this true from ur experience. why do you guys think this is the case-considering chinese n korean girls arent. is it their culture and if so why are they like that.

what has ur experience been like with japanese girls compared to other asian girls-chinese, cbc, korean,flippno...etc and which do u prefer and like

 

[flash]

This might be a matter of economics. Although Korea and China are becoming quite wealthy and developed, Japan is still the economic leader in Asia (and the world). As a result, Japan is also more socially progressive. Japan also has higher gender equality than most other Asian countries.

 

[Bobo The Rabbit]

Bull shit, Japan treats women like shit.
Just look at Japanese porn, you have incest, rape and bukkake all being the dominant themes.
Its so bad that they have to put women on a different train from their men because sexual assault is common place.
Not only that Japan is the most openly racist country I have ever seen, they have signs all over saying no foreigners allowed.

Also CHILD PROSTITUTION is so common there they call it "compensation dating", how fucked up is that?
Older men pay young girls 13-16 for sex so often in their society that they had to come up with a nice fuzzy name for it.

 

[unlucky]

I am gonna have to agree with bobo on this one

 

[seoul921]

Yes, I have found J girls assume going Dutch, and they are sometimes surprised when I say I insist since I invited them. Also my experience that Chinese and K girls expect you to cover all expenses, but the J girls are more willing to have sex as long as you don't make it the focus. They just want to have sex for fun and there doesn't seem to be some stigma about it. Sometimes they seem so desparate about it I feel uncomfortable, as if it doesn't really matter that it me personally.

I've found Chinese girls think you are their boyfriend after you kiss them. K girls less so. All in all, I still prefer the incredible intimacy of Chinese girls (mentally and physically) over J and K girls. J girls I've found are definitely more distant but more agressive about having sex soon, maybe because it doesn't really count if ur a wite guy, like me. I've also found J girls less experimental in the sack compared to Chinese girls. I like Thai as well, but the economic disparity and educational level is hard for me. I've always had the feeling that they just wanted to get married and it drives me crazy when you have to explain what something like WWII is. Many educated, beautiful, horny and reliable Chinese girls out there. I've found J girls a little plain and stocky for my tastes. Prefer the taller, lithe, rounder assed Chiense girls. K girls seem a little mechanical in the sack, like it's work done, more like J girls than Chinese girls.

 

[seoul921]

My current J girlfriend pulled me into bed after the first date. Only time it's ever happened to me.

 

[flash]

Bull shit, Japan treats women like shit.
Just look at Japanese porn, you have incest, rape and bukkake all being the dominant themes.
Its so bad that they have to put women on a different train from their men because sexual assault is common place.
Not only that Japan is the most openly racist country I have ever seen, they have signs all over saying no foreigners allowed.

Also CHILD PROSTITUTION is so common there they call it "compensation dating", how fucked up is that?
Older men pay young girls 13-16 for sex so often in their society that they had to come up with a nice fuzzy name for it.

I've lived in Korea, Japan, and Taiwan and despite what you have seen or think, Japan has a higher gender quality index than Korea or Japan. Gender equality is one of the main parameters in determining the UN Human Development Index and Japan is ranked much further ahead of Korea or China. If you think Japan is unique with its male domination, have you been to Korea? It is not much different there. The only difference is that porn is very restricted in Korea.

 

[Bobo The Rabbit]

flash
Compensation dating, google it.

 

[flash]

I am aware of enjo-kosai or compensation dating. So what, teenage girls have sex with older guys so they can buy designer hand bags and fancy shoes. These girls are not sex slaves. They are naughty girls with expensive tastes. This does not mean Japan treats women like shit, as you say.

 

[blublubalz]

Maybe you should also read some of the horrible shit J men did through all their wars as well. Although that was some time ago, the underlying state of mind of the male is still far over to the perverted side. Many countries/ cultures include rape in their conquests, but the Japanese went beyond over the limit in sheer cruelty, sodomy, etc. you name it. Ask any country who's lost a war to them.

 

[87112]

If youre dating a Chinese woman from Asian be prepared to pay for everything. All her meals, her groceries, help with the rent even if youre not seriously dating. Those Chinese gals are experts at playing the " dismal in distress" role and sucking your wallet dry. They have no idea how long it takes us working stiffs to pay for things. And heaven forbid if you take them to cheaper places to dine, youre gone the next day. I know 1st hand