Is it wrong to seek a SP to be your "friends for benefits" ?
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Women in general, especially younger, tend to be intrigued by the "bad boy/asshole" image. After they have been ripped off, taken advantage of and beaten numerous times they may finally give that up and seek a more mature male.
Very true, lots of women out there that would be interested in a FWB relationship with the right guy, or even with the wrong guy in some cases.
As long as you can read the signals correctly, and have something to offer the lady, it is possible. As women tend to be social animals for the most part, the "friend" factor is important, although if you get into the "friend" zone, you are pretty much doomed. Dood's points are very valid.
You are right, there is really no incentive for them to do that. You would have to bring something very unique to the table and if you are a "younger" guy, you are pretty much out in the cold.
WOW, I think that is very true! I like that a lot.
Women are indeed attracted to strong men for a feeling of security and safety that they provide. Unfortunately, a lot of strong men tend to be assholes or jerks, but that is not entirely a bad thing either. Nice guys tend to come in two flavours............. strong or door mats pretty much.
*There all caught up on my posting in this thread.......WHEW!
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lol. it reallly depends on what SHE is looking for, if anything at this time in her life. she may be ok being single or hanging out with her gf's who may or not be in the business. i saw one SP in the mall one time, she didnt see me, she was too busy checking her blackberry (likely replying to her clients). she was all by herself and not only did she look hot, but she was in casual clothes. She was also by herself too. I think the more older or mature girls may be looking to settle down or at least to have a companion. The younger ones, not so much. However, in reality, I find that in most cases, guys just do want to have free sex and preferrably have her as trophy where he can show her off to her friends, or they end up on Perb because they lack that bit of something at home. LOL.
Exactly, and for those women, the term 'alpha male' becomes equated with 'asshole'.
I really like your quote sultry secrets. I also agree that most assholes and jerks are weak rather than strong. But, to a younger female the jerks and such provide the thrill that they enjoy and thrive on. It is not until much later that most of them realize how destructive such people really are to them.
Wow ...great come back. Very mature and intelligent. So of course the question now becomes; are you of legal age to be on this site?
I am frequently attracted to men who make me laugh with their wit & humour because it tells me 3 things:
-he's clever
-he's not afraid to take a risk
-he likes to have fun
I don't give a damn about washboard abs, perfectly coiffed hair, and what VIP rooms he can get into... I just want a happy, confident man with fantastic lover skills. Bald spots, pot bellies, and crooked smiles can still turn me on if his character works for me!
-he's clever
-he's not afraid to take a risk
-he likes to have fun
I don't give a damn about washboard abs, perfectly coiffed hair, and what VIP rooms he can get into... I just want a happy, confident man with fantastic lover skills. Bald spots, pot bellies, and crooked smiles can still turn me on if his character works for me!
Maybe on some unconscious, biological level, but for the most part an outdated notion; today's women are a lot more independent than in the '50s.
How is this not a bad thing??
Agreed, however if someone is allowing themself to be a doormat, they're likely with the wrong person to begin with.
Geez, he's respectful and polite too, I don't know girls, he sure sounds like a winner....you might want to reconsider...
