Is it Jealousy?

[masterblaster]

I was having a social visit with an SP I have become friends with Sunday night. We had a few drinks and she mentioned a provider I know that had the misfortune of doing a bit of jail time last summer, I had previously told my friend a bit about her. She asked me if I fad fucked the jail bird lately to which I replied not for a few months. Is the third time I believe she has asked me about having sex with her.

After a bit later in the evening she then asked me how many women I fucked since her and I were last in bed a couple weeks ago. I told her zero, which was the truth, not sure if she believed me or not. I found it a bit surprising she questioned me about other women. Seemed like a bit of jealousy but I'm not sure.

 

[Fullhouse]

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She just wants to make sure that your master only blasts her.

 

[justwannahavefun]

I started getting the same feeling a while back from the regular I was seeing. Every visit, I would get that the same question several times. I started to sense that there was some jealousy there. And if I said yes, her attitude would change for the night as she felt the need to put that other provider down. After a few times of hearing that I just started saying no because I just didn't want to get into it with her.
That was one of the reasons I stopped seeing her and I'm glad I did. I am having so much more fun now seeing a greater variety of providers.

 

[Amuse0ne]

Sex workers have healthy libidos competition can lead to jealousy so who really knows for sure. I'd just accept it, it feeds the male ego and give that bad girl a little spanking next time for good measure.

 

[Kingpin29]

I had that happen to me with a SP I was seeing regularly, she would ask me the same questions multiple times and sometimes even demand I show her my messages on my phone. She would even tell me straight up she was jealous of me seeing other girls. Usually I had nothing to hide, but if I said yes, she would put the other provider down or tell me I can't see the other girl anymore. If I said no, she would sometimes not believe my answer. She even made a rule for me saying I could only see other girls one time, and only with her multiple times. But once I stopped caring about how she reacts, she would be much more "fun" to be around so to speak. A little bit of jealousy is fun to play around with, strokes the male ego. But too much is when you need to put the foot down. The nature of this kind of work provides alot of intimacy and emotion, so jealousy can totally happen on both sides.

 

[badbadboy]

Some SP have all time favourite clients just like pooners have their own most regular date?

Maybe she is just checking to see if she is also your ATF at this moment in time. Deciding if you are still worthy perhaps?

It's unusual to receive these type of questions. Most SP I've seen do not like this type of discussion.

 

[clu]

Jealousy can happen but keep in mind that jealousy and territoriality can look a lot alike.

In my company business, I can get a little territorial and inquisitive of clients that may be entertaining giving work to my competitors.

 

[Cock Throppled]

I had that happen to me with a SP I was seeing regularly, she would ask me the same questions multiple times and sometimes even demand I show her my messages on my phone. She would even tell me straight up she was jealous of me seeing other girls. Usually I had nothing to hide, but if I said yes, she would put the other provider down or tell me I can't see the other girl anymore. If I said no, she would sometimes not believe my answer. She even made a rule for me saying I could only see other girls one time, and only with her multiple times. But once I stopped caring about how she reacts, she would be much more "fun" to be around so to speak. A little bit of jealousy is fun to play around with, strokes the male ego. But too much is when you need to put the foot down. The nature of this kind of work provides alot of intimacy and emotion, so jealousy can totally happen on both sides.

SP's can be insane, too. I'd run far and fast from any SP (or any woman) acting like that.

 

[Correct]

SP's can be insane, too. I'd run far and fast from any SP (or any woman) acting like that.

This ^^^ is good advice!

 

[Stamkos]

I had that happen to me with a SP I was seeing regularly, she would ask me the same questions multiple times and sometimes even demand I show her my messages on my phone. She would even tell me straight up she was jealous of me seeing other girls. Usually I had nothing to hide, but if I said yes, she would put the other provider down or tell me I can't see the other girl anymore. If I said no, she would sometimes not believe my answer. She even made a rule for me saying I could only see other girls one time, and only with her multiple times. But once I stopped caring about how she reacts, she would be much more "fun" to be around so to speak. A little bit of jealousy is fun to play around with, strokes the male ego. But too much is when you need to put the foot down. The nature of this kind of work provides alot of intimacy and emotion, so jealousy can totally happen on both sides.

And you kept seeing her why? :noidea:

 

[Kingpin29]

I never took it personal. Aside from those moments, she was quite fun to be around and overall had a good personality. Women are going to be women, sometimes you just gotta not care.

 

[ddcanz]

Isn't the whole idea of seeing SPs is to keep it NSA with all the personal BS put aside?
Random conversation regarding other fucks is one thing, but regularly pushing it on numerous occasions is offside. Rules, phone exams, trashing the competition and the like?
Run Forest, Run!

 

[poonerboi]

Could be she is setting you up as a mark.

 

[steverino]

I tend to think it more often a financial issue. If a guy is spending $500 or a grand a month on a lady then his seeing competitors is potentially a serious threat to the ladies income.

 

[felixthecat]

It's January. Women are extra vulnerable and afraid of being alone. There is a higher chance of breakups (I just witnessed one very recently).

If an SP doesn't have a boyfriend, it helps her to feel loved if she has devoted fans. It might be neither business-related nor jealously like in real relationships. Just a need to know somebody cares about her.

And, having drinks socially with an SP, surely it's not a surprise some topics would come up that normally don't.

 

[masterblaster]

Could be she is setting you up as a mark.

Doubtful, I've seen her for a number of years. At one time she wanted to stop seeing me as a client as she said it was getting too close to being a relationship to her. Now we often talk about how a relationship might work. Haven't got the details worked out.

 

[poonerboi]

Doubtful, I've seen her for a number of years. At one time she wanted to stop seeing me as a client as she said it was getting too close to being a relationship to her. Now we often talk about how a relationship might work. Haven't got the details worked out.

Well then it is obviously jealousy/possessiveness!

 

[felixthecat]

Well then it is obviously jealousy/possessiveness!

It might be her way of figuring out a different question. If they are to start a proper relationship, is he going to be monogamous?

They are already not in a strict provider/customer relationship. Compare it to civilians dating, having sex and one of them is trying to figure out where they stand. I don't see anything wrong in asking something like "are we seeing other people".

It is a trickier situation than civilians since she is going to have sex with other people for money. It requires more open communication to figure the things out. Basically, I recommend asking her directly, would she expect her boyfriend to stay faithful while she continues working. There is no standard answer for that.