Income?

[needtomilk]

In 2019-2020, about 4% of my (gross) income went towards pooning.

In 2019, I grossed around 100,000.

 

[needtomilk]

I’ll answer each question:



I got into this when I was in my early/mid 20s. I was making just over $100k a year and back then it was $160-$200 to see an amazing girl.

I would go randomly if I wasn’t in a friends with benefits or casual boyfriend/girlfriend relationship.



Like you, and many other men, this is a common answer. The skills to attract one, often attracts the other. If you focus your efforts independently on how to be successful with your earnings and how to attract and charm others in a genuine way, your income and your sociability improve.




My current situation is not a typical one but I can refer back to a time where my life reflected some level of normalcy.

There was a stressful time in my later 20s while building a business and making very little income.

During a 8 month period, I refused to see an escort and I also refused to have sex with woman, even when the opportunity presented itself.

I knew that if I went to see woman it would trick me into thinking where I was at in life was okay. For me it wasn’t. I wouldn’t give myself what I wanted until I worked hard enough to get it.

I still went to the gym and made a strong effort to socialize with people/woman and it was difficult

I’m highly aware this is not normal behaviour but my outcome is also not normal either. If you really like money and sex, focus on the money part, and that starts with pulling your income up. You’d be amazed at what you can do when you force yourself to.

If you really must go, then have an entertainment budget for yourself and allot a % towards that total. Seeing a woman on $60k a year means maybe you don’t go shopping or eat out as often. Never compromise your savings and your plans to build for this sort of experience.



See above. I’ve struggled many times but I’ve always used that struggle as my brains way of telling me that I need to get my shit together.

Here is a unique way to look at this from a high income earning perspective.

If the average annual income in Vancouver is $100,000 and someone is earning $10,000,000 per year, it’s 100 times more income.

When you are looking to buy something, take away 100x off the price.

So when an ad for an escort is $400 per hour, it’s the same as an average person spending $4. You want to spend the entire evening with her for 5 hours? $20.

Imagine seeing a 10/10 model and you pull out a $20 to live out your wildest fantasy. The biggest challenge is how not to wind up falling down a rabbit hole at that point.

I might use your coping strategy that you outlined so that it can push me to freelance more, to make some extra cash on the side. Perhaps be able to pull in at least 20K more.

 

[masterpoonhunter]

Leading up to my 2nd divorce, I figured this would be pretty brutal so I got into a mode of some significant self improvement, physical, mental, spiritual and tried to repair the emotional side of me. The 4 houses and mine were in a pretty severe state of disrepair. One of the books, not a self help book, but more of a philosophical book that I thought really helped me was "The Happiness Advantage" by Shawn Anchor. His take on life is that we in the west tend to have it all backwards, working to make money which leads to success and happiness and well being and so on. His take was go for the happiness first, well being comes out of it, which leads to success and then money. That sure seemed to work for me albeit I cheated as the money was there, well half of it was gone after the big D but I really subscribe to that as a formula. Not some 'don't worry be happy' shit but really digging into yourself to find out what really is your happy place. It's kinda buddha like I guess. Anyway, strong recommend from et moi.

 

[204fun]

I have a fairly moderate income and have had little problem finding a nice balance that allows me basically a one hour session (300) every month with my regular SP. I used to have NHL season tickets and was paying about $4000/year for my seat. Now I watch the games on TV, spend way less on booze/food and get to have sex with an amazing and gorgeous woman once a month who is way out of my league. It's been a pretty good trade off.

It took me a while to find this balance as I blew through a lot of money in my first year or so of seeing providers. I went through periods where I was seeing 3-4 girls a month or booking longer sessions and it definitely put a dent in my finances.

There are absolutely times where I would love to book more than one session a month when a new girl catches my eye or I'm just really pent up, but for the most part I've been able to stick to this budget and it has worked for me.

 

[silkk]

60g’s in Vancouver is not a lot, if you have a home, theres tons of bills, property tax, cable/internet bill, terasan gas, electricity, cell phone, car insurance, gas, my recommendation is getting a second job like skip the dishes and use that money to bang!

 

[poorboyv6]

I earn over $100,000 a year, and used to see an escort about once every other week until I paid off my mortgage. Then I saw her almost every week until she retired this year. I've been maximizing my RRSP since I was 20 years old, and was able to pay off my mortgage a few years ago.

I was able to hobby by only eating out once a week, buying only used cars and not drinking or smoking. Another way I saved money is by doing things myself, such as repairing the toilet and furnace, and fixing my own car. I also think very carefully about what I really need, and what is just a want, so I almost never impulse buy.

I have other hobbies too, but for the most part live a simple life. No cable, no big screen tv or collecting habit.