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In Love with an SP
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I'm sure every guy has been through this in the civilian world and many of us also have in the SP world.It's easy to happen when you're single and you meet someone really great and sex is awesome.I've had it start to happen with a couple SPs I was seeing regularly even though I didn't go into this looking for any kind of relationship.
Best thing to do in either types of this scenario is to stop seeing her right and find someone else really great.This will give you some perspective that there's lots of other great options out there and help stop your subconscious from making you think about her all the time.Another SP is fine if actual dating isn't an option.
Best thing to do in either types of this scenario is to stop seeing her right and find someone else really great.This will give you some perspective that there's lots of other great options out there and help stop your subconscious from making you think about her all the time.Another SP is fine if actual dating isn't an option.
You tell an SP you love her (and she says nope) - pretty much game over. 90% of the time you are "in love" with only the part she's chosen to to show you during that 1 hour (or more) portion of time. Chances are you don't really know her. Chances are it's your dick fooling your heart into feeling stuff.
SP tells you she loves you - possibilities are endless but how would you deal with that? Most of us who see escorts are not "acting". A lady gets to see the real you...and sometimes the you that you don't even show your wife/gf.
SP tells you she loves you - possibilities are endless but how would you deal with that? Most of us who see escorts are not "acting". A lady gets to see the real you...and sometimes the you that you don't even show your wife/gf.
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Larry Storch
Yep, it took a close brush with bankruptcy to open MY eyes. Not blaming her, spent months bashing myself over it. Recognize it for what it is, a hobby. No different than gaming, or flying drones etc. Entertainment, NOT a relationship.
When you go to an incall, leave your shoes and heart at the door.
This is a hobby, as someone pointed out earlier and that is about it. You are in love with only the side you have seen. To be in love you have to be in love with everything about that person and trust me, you have not seen her as a person. She is good to you for the time you are together and you have no idea what kind of person she is afterwards.
So... BACK OFF! Unless you wanna be a train wreck for rest of your life.
T8E
This is a hobby, as someone pointed out earlier and that is about it. You are in love with only the side you have seen. To be in love you have to be in love with everything about that person and trust me, you have not seen her as a person. She is good to you for the time you are together and you have no idea what kind of person she is afterwards.
So... BACK OFF! Unless you wanna be a train wreck for rest of your life.
T8E
All good advice, however it is difficult to keep emotions out of the equation. I find myself in a situation where I have become somewhat involved with an SP after seeing her for nearly 10 years. Initially it was only seeing her for a session once in a while with no contact or communication between visits. A few years ago she invited me over for a coffee one afternoon, it was nice just to sit and talk without the time limits imposed by seeing her for a session. Things progressed somewhat slowly after that, to helping her out with jobs around her place, to going over once in a while for a visit and a few drinks. The past while I have been seeing her more and more frequently, occasionally after seeing her for a session she will contact me the same day and ask me to come back to spend the evening with her.
It has gotten to the point now where I go see her 3 or 4 times a week to visit and spend time her, we send texts/emails to each other pretty much everyday, sometimes as many as 10 or 12 emails a day. We have become good friends and share many aspects of our personal lives. I have no illusions about having an actual relationship with her but feel privileged she has chosen to spend as much of her free time with me as she does and turns to me when she needs help or wishes to discuss a problem with her personal life.
It has gotten to the point now where I go see her 3 or 4 times a week to visit and spend time her, we send texts/emails to each other pretty much everyday, sometimes as many as 10 or 12 emails a day. We have become good friends and share many aspects of our personal lives. I have no illusions about having an actual relationship with her but feel privileged she has chosen to spend as much of her free time with me as she does and turns to me when she needs help or wishes to discuss a problem with her personal life.
And ......take your shoes and heart with you when you leave!!!
I reminded myself that every time I left. All ladies I have seen ( all retired now ), I was very fortunate not to fall into that hole, but I held back. Those ladies were special and fantastic.
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As usual, nothing needs to be said after Lady Companion.
I would like to ad a different twist thou.
Consider yourself very lucky. You've obviously found exactly what you are looking for in a provider. Some spend thousands and never get there. As i see it you can continue to see her and have the time of your life. Or cut the cord and move on. The only caveat is her place - her rules. If you keep seeing her you have to respect her boundries or she will cut you off. Its never easy when you have feelings that aren't reciprocated. Good luck.
Wasn't there another guy that posted something similar but with a erotic massage girl? Whatever happened to him?
I encourage him to keep paying for the escort but for time spent with penis in her only. Dont be paying for chitty chatty time.
Will wind up to be cheaper than a divorce still.
Will wind up to be cheaper than a divorce still.
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westcoast555
Get a grip. Move on.
Either enjoy her for what the relationship is - or pack it in and stop seeing her... or any SP for a while for that matter.
You need to sort out your shit. You are going down a road that is a dead end of disappointment, disillusion, sadness, heartache and possible financial ruin.... and you know it.
You're lucky she's cool enough to be straight with you and not lead you on in order to squeeze as much money out of you as she no doubt could.
True. Also he only met her a month ago. Has he communicated and ever met up with her outside the appointments, or is he just making it awkward by saying "I love you " during the sessions
