Im doing a mind reset. No porn, masterbation, or ejacultion. Im looking for no release sessions.

[TheChampion]

Hi guys. I'm on week 3 of no PMO (porn, masterbation, or orgasm) I feel great. Motivated and charged up. I want to make it to 90 days. But I'd like to find a SP who would be into the following.

Mutual massage, cuddling, kissing, and also social time. Like just hanging out holding hands going for walks, eating out. Gfe social time no sex no ejaculation of any kind.

Is there a website or way to search for this social time. With rates or any recommendations?

Does anyone have experience with sugar babies sites, cuddleup.com, rentafriend.com



This whole no PMO journey I've done it before and the benefits are amazing. So I'm trying to redo it again. The mind plays tricks and trys it's best to get its porn fix.

www.yourbrainonporn.com is the site I refer back to to focus on the journey.

I'm starting to get horny again just talking to waitresses. Every time I ejaculated ejaculated much I lose interest in alot of things lol

 

[Real Sonny Burnett]

Sounds like you need a girlfriend more than an SP.

 

[Island_man1]

I'm not sure what the problem is. I would say any SP would be willing to do what you're looking for as long as you're paying them. But I think you're wondering if there are any SPs who would do this for lower rates than what they charge for FS, and I think that is the problem as most would tell you they charge by the hour regardless of what you do with them. I've asked. Cuddle up from what I know is full of spammers (lots of fake ads) and the rates aren't low.
I myself have been looking for someone who'd offer cuddling and social and stuff like that for lower rates but I don't think there are any.

 

[druiddude432]

Hey man. If you are going for the nofap/no PMO challenge, or just to help you reset. I would suggest not seeing anyone during this duration to help boost the benefits. Whether it is a SP or cuddleup or whomever.
It would extreme hard for "Mutual massage, cuddling, kissing, and also social time" not to lead on to something else, especially when you are starting out nofap again. But that is just my personal opinion.
When I went nofap, I personally took/removed all the sites and things that might re-trigger my PMO habits, and it was so nice looking back to finally be free of that urging/needing feeling.

Just like other user said maybe you're searching for a gf, but that is still an external source of comfort/interaction. I'd rather spend those 90days focusing on yourself, doing what you love to do. Staying active, and falling in love with yourself. By the end of it. You will no longer need the urge to release through PMO and any external pleasure/comfort as you yourself are happy/fulfilled on your own. And also by that time you'll be vibrating on another level, and will definitely attract a partner that vibes with you. That will genuinely enjoy your company, heck that would be the "real" ultimate girlfriend experience. Again just my crazy opinion.
You actually inspired me as I've been trying to better myself, trying nofap etc. but have failed due to PMO or to seeing sps, only to feel super empty afterwards. Also been seeing an sp on and off with that I've fallen in love with for over a year, whom I need to let go in order to focus on myself.

Good luck on your journey brother! ❤

reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/9xdnbh/the_essential_rules_of_nofap/

7) If having sex with a sex worker/randomly hooking up reinforces that feeling you get when you watch porn, it’s porn.

 

[Rluck]

thinking "no release session" will help you in your quest to reset your dopamine is a massive cope. it's like a heroin addict telling himself "okay i am going to quit completely, but i'll just have a little bit of heroin to ween myself off it."

the biggest part of addiction is the anticipation because that's when your brain floods you with dopamine

guess what will happen during your no release session? it will be you anticipating a release and how great it would be to finally stick it in her. so in other words, you'll be flooding your brain with dopamine throughout the session

it is completely contrary to your goals

if you want to do the reset right, you have to abstain from it altogether

this means no porn, no sex with sex workers, no looking at naked pics, no fantasizing about past experiences. it means abstaining until your brain's dopamine receptors reset.

 

[beaveraddict]

Is this a genuine post or are you trolling us?

I've practised sexual abstinence during yoga & meditation retreats, or just by withdrawing for a period intentionally while single... but your post is like someone practising sobriety yet wanting to go to a bar and drink soda water. Why not just avoid the bar altogether?

Different strokes, I guess...???

 

[TheChampion]

Thanks guys your right I shouldn't even see sps, sugar babies, or anything in those 90 days. I keep scrolling instagram and getting horny watching Tik tok I should stop that too.

It's so hard but I do feel alot better like a inner sense of happiness is there. I enjoy listening to music again and just little things I took for granted.

 

[g eazy]

Thanks guys your right I shouldn't even see sps, sugar babies, or anything in those 90 days. I keep scrolling instagram and getting horny watching Tik tok I should stop that too.

It's so hard but I do feel alot better like a inner sense of happiness is there. I enjoy listening to music again and just little things I took for granted.

There's a lot you can replace those activities with. I recommend putting soft locks on those apps... or better yet just remove them from your phone. If you don't have the balls to remove the app at least make them as inaccessible as possible on your phone (e.g. moving to last page in some subfolder).

 

[EuroSZabina]

I'm going to do the same thing when I'm in my old age home lol

 

[WashboardAbs]

Hey man. If you are going for the nofap/no PMO challenge, or just to help you reset. I would suggest not seeing anyone during this duration to help boost the benefits. Whether it is a SP or cuddleup or whomever.
It would extreme hard for "Mutual massage, cuddling, kissing, and also social time" not to lead on to something else, especially when you are starting out nofap again. But that is just my personal opinion.
When I went nofap, I personally took/removed all the sites and things that might re-trigger my PMO habits, and it was so nice looking back to finally be free of that urging/needing feeling.

Just like other user said maybe you're searching for a gf, but that is still an external source of comfort/interaction. I'd rather spend those 90days focusing on yourself, doing what you love to do. Staying active, and falling in love with yourself. By the end of it. You will no longer need the urge to release through PMO and any external pleasure/comfort as you yourself are happy/fulfilled on your own. And also by that time you'll be vibrating on another level, and will definitely attract a partner that vibes with you. That will genuinely enjoy your company, heck that would be the "real" ultimate girlfriend experience. Again just my crazy opinion.
You actually inspired me as I've been trying to better myself, trying nofap etc. but have failed due to PMO or to seeing sps, only to feel super empty afterwards. Also been seeing an sp on and off with that I've fallen in love with for over a year, whom I need to let go in order to focus on myself.

Good luck on your journey brother! ❤

reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/9xdnbh/the_essential_rules_of_nofap/

7) If having sex with a sex worker/randomly hooking up reinforces that feeling you get when you watch porn, it’s porn.

100% correct. If a person is really trying to do a reset (which is actually a brain neurotransmitter reset) they can't indulge in things like cuddling/no release. All these still provide the brain with the chemicals it craves - dopamine, serotonin, acetylcholine, GABA etc. These hormones are exactly why the second you cum, you want to roll over and be done with it. It gets much more complicated when you understand how this website, FB, IG, OF, Porn, etc fulfills the modern man's addiction to those chemicals. So, if someone truly wants to reset their brain, they need to stay away from this site, all social media sites, any dating sites, even hot women. Every single exposure stimulates these hormones/neurotransmitters. Trust me when I say this is a gargantuan undertaking. I have done it. It is literally exactly like the Seinfeld episode where George stops masturbating and suddenly becomes a brilliant genius that can think more clearly. It takes a few weeks for that effect to occur though.

 

[Burnie]

Before Covid I had a make out session with a South American girl from Cuddle up. She was a visiting student, very pretty with a great body.
We both kept our underwear on, she was topless, and I could roam freely everywhere but in the panties.
We made out for a full hour like teenagers and she was a fantastic kisser.
There was no release and I still felt great after. It was very refreshing and exhilarating. A nice change of pace and not expensive.
Sadly she's no longer here but there must be other options like that around.

 

[IvyOctober]

Many SPs will provide these services as long as you’re not expecting a discount because there’s no funny business involved! Good luck!

 

[ExpCharlee]

lol why is everyone saying to get a girlfriend? you know women have libidos too, right....?
also I am happy to do this kind of session. I also do edging sessions with no release if you wanna go extreme hehehehe

 

[yusk198444]

monastery, probably? A monk life is silently calling upon you, my friend!

 

[The Caffeinated Gent]

Or you could just live in the woods.

monastery, probably? A monk life is silently calling upon you, my friend!

Let's not forget summer is a good time for hiking with revealing and sweat drenched clothes! LMAO

 

[yusk198444]

Let's not forget summer is a good time for hiking with revealing and sweat drenched clothes! LMAO

LOL .. it's a crime to walk downtown vancouver in summer. The hiking trails are not helping either! 😑

 

[The Caffeinated Gent]

LOL .. it's a crime to walk downtown vancouver in summer. The hiking trails are not helping either! 😑

*Moves into monastery*
*Hot foreign tourist girl approaches the monastery*