I messed up and need some advice

[TPH]

OK, so here is the story. I'm 30 and I have an older MILF girlfriend. She has a daughter that's in her first year of college.

So I ended up getting drunk with the daugther one night and we ended up having sex. It was pretty wild to have something young and inexperienced. We said it wouldn't happen again but we got drunk again and it happened again. Now it's happening as much as possible when we can have time. She's into it as much as me.

Here's the problem. I was doing my girlfriend from behind one night and thinking about her daughter. I was pretty horny and as I blew my load in my girlfriend I called out her daugthers name just as I came. It did not go over well. My girlfriend pulled away right away and was disgusted asking me what I meant. I didn't know what to say.

Anyone got an idea how I could make it up to her? I like my girlfriend and I don't want to lose her. Thing is, I would also like to keep doing her daughter because we have a good time together. Nothing weird or creepy is going on, this is all consensual sex. My girlfriend is good to me and we have a pretty open sex life.

 

[Horse99]

Quit drinking......or next time when you are drunk again, and it seems like a good idea, ask your MILF g/f if she's interested in a 3 some with her daughter....tell her you have too much love in you for just one woman....

 

[badbadboy]

Quite literally, you are screwed.

She may be your GF but you have ventured into a mother's domain. Never mess with a mother's child.

No recuperating from this one IMHO. No amount of bling will remove this one from her memory.

 

[Ribald]

best damn story I've heard in a long time! "nothing weird or creepy is going on". LOL!

 

[bcneil]

First post, I'd say this is a fake story by some bored kid coming to the site

 

[Iroc]

1st time....an honest, drunken mistake (or was it???)......If you were SO!!!!!! drunk that you could not completely control your libido.....how did you perform????
If you were just sober enough to perform......did you not have maybe just a little resistance left in you to say...NO..

2nd and 3rd times......well sorry thats just wrong....

Feel sorry for you.......but much, much more sorry for the mother - daughter relationship.

Hope all turns out well

 

[mikehawksbig]

Oh, seriously. BS.

 

[HankQuinlan]

Or write to Dan Savage, so he can call bullshit.

 

[TPH]

I'm a regular but I never signed up before because you don't need to sign up to read the stuff in here. I'm not hurting anybody with this because both are adults but I do know that my girlfriend would see me as an epic fail if she really found out. I don't think she knows we really had sex, I just think she thinks I was having a fantasy about her daughter while I was doing her. I just want to know if there is any way to save this? I been thinking that I tell her that I was just tipsy and having a fantasy and it was a mistake. I would like to keep dating my girlfriend but this fling with her daughter is pretty good and they are both grown up and it's not illegal so who cares right? You see, I have let my girlfriend have a younger guy into our bedroom that we met off Ashley Madison so if it's OK for her to sleep with a 20 year old it's OK to sleep with her daughter who is of age. Fair is fair. I guess I'm saying that I want to keep it a secret. I admit I have a problem with drinking sometimes and I have trouble controlling my sex needs. The girlfriend and I do have an open relationship but we have to mutually agree on things. She forgave me when she found out I did a SW from the Kingsway in my minivan. I don't know how man but she found a hair and confronted me. I figured it was better to tell her it was a SW than an actual girlfriend because it's not really cheating with a SW. But it looks like my goose is cooked on this. If it ends I hope i can continue to have this fling with her daughter though. It's too bad because I really like my girlfriend.

 

[wilde]

Looks like boderline incest to me

Incest
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This article is about the variable social/legal/religious infraction of sexual relations with close kin. For the biological act of reproducing with close kin, see inbreeding. For the descriptive term for blood-related kin, see consanguinity.

Incest is sexual intercourse between close relatives[1][2] that is illegal in the jurisdiction where it takes place and/or is socially taboo. The type of sexual activity and the nature of the relationship between people that constitutes a breach of law or social taboo vary with culture and jurisdiction. Some societies consider incest to include only those who live in the same household, or who belong to the same clan or lineage; other societies consider it to include "blood relatives"; other societies further include those related by adoption or marriage.[3]

Incest between adults and those under the age of majority or age of consent is considered a form of child sexual abuse[4][5] that has been shown to be one of the most extreme forms of childhood abuse, often resulting in serious and long-term psychological trauma, especially in the case of parental incest.[6] Prevalence is difficult to generalize, but research has estimated 10–15% of the general population as having at least one such sexual contact, with less than 2% involving intercourse or attempted intercourse.[7] Among women, research has yielded estimates as high as twenty percent.[6]

Father-daughter incest was for many years the most commonly reported and studied form of incest.[8] More recently, studies have suggested that sibling incest, particularly older brothers abusing younger siblings, is the most common form of incest,[9][10][11][12][13][14][15][16][17] with some studies finding sibling incest occurring orders of magnitude[not in citation given (See discussion.)] more frequently than other forms of incest.[18] Some studies suggest that adolescent perpetrators of sibling abuse choose younger victims, abuse victims over a lengthier period, use violence more frequently and severely than adult perpetrators,[19] and that sibling abuse has a higher rate of penetrative acts than father or stepfather incest, with father and older brother incest resulting in greater reported distress than stepfather incest.[20][21][22]

Consensual adult incest is equally a crime in most countries,[23][not in citation given] although it is seen by some as a victimless crime,[24][25] and thus it is rarely reported.[citation needed] While others argue that the increased mortality of babies from heterosexual incestuous couples is enough to criminalize the act.[26]

Most societies have prohibitions against incest.[27][28] The incest taboo is and has been one of the most common of all cultural taboos, both in current nations and many past societies,[29] with legal penalties imposed in some jurisdictions. Most modern societies have legal or social restrictions on closely consanguineous marriages.[30]

 

[Dark_Knight]

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Here's the problem. I was doing my girlfriend from behind one night and thinking about her daughter. I was pretty horny and as I blew my load in my girlfriend I called out her daugthers name just as I came. It did not go over well.

A good reason to never use names while having sex!

 

[REDRICO]

I call BS...BS...BS...

 

[hmm3030]

The best case scenario is that this is BS and a desperate cry for attention. The worst case scenario is that this is true and you need to get the hell out of the these peoples lives so they can try and repair the damage that you have done to them. Either way, you need to grow-up, gain some self-control and get a life.

 

[Miss*Bijou]

Or write to Dan Savage, so he can call bullshit.

LOL Good answer!

At first I was going to rip into him because I think this is just waaaay low (and hella creepy, damn it! lol) especially when he went on to explain that not only did it happen once but that it happened again and that his major concern here is to get advice on how to get away with continuing it?!? Is this guy for real?

Hm I'm thinking no and I call bullshit but if it's not.... then I'm thinking biggest douchebag EVER. Eww. I mean, seriously. wow.


(btw - Someone compared it to incest but as slimy as he is, I wouldn't call him incestuous though.)

 

[jnewton]

(btw - Someone compared it to incest but as slimy as he is, I wouldn't call him incestuous though.)

Agreed. He isn't related to either of them so no incest. The only way incest would be involved is if they had a 3some, and that is some serious EWWWWWW!

 

[LalaniElectrica]

The age of consent for BC is 19 years old, and consent cannot even be given if under the influence of alcohol. This person (OP), if they are actually genuine, should stop drinking immediately and move out so these women can be free of this predator. He is in a position of trust in this household and he's obviously abusing it...If you are in such an open relationship, you should swing with other swingers and your partner, but now you need to leave because continuing on with the affair with her daughter is actually a crime...You want your cake and want to eat it too, you are letting the freedom get to your head and now you are insatiable...sober up! Life is not a drunken free-for-all and you're going to get caught and everyone's going to get hurt.

 

[Devils_Advocate]

I call BS...BS...BS...

Agreed..I seem to remember an episode of Rescue Me that is awfully similar.. My advice enjoy while the ride while it lasts since unless time travel is possible the deed is done.

 

[Yman]

Options

Does your girlfriend have a sister ? You might want to bang her too as a fallback plan--just in case she finds out you're banging her daughter.

 

[Ray]

I'm calling bullshit on the story.

A woman with a college age daughter will be in her 40's. And dating a 30 year old? And bringing him home when she has a 20-something daughter at home?

Nope.

 

[Miss*Bijou]

I'm calling bullshit on the story.

A woman with a college age daughter will be in her 40's. And dating a 30 year old? And bringing him home when she has a 20-something daughter at home?

Nope.

Demi Moore did it....she was 42 and he was 27!