At a group dinner one evening with friends and a few strangers I sat directly across from a SP I had seen that afternoon. No way to ignore it so I reached over to shake her and her dates hands and introduced both me and my SO. By doing so she heard my real name and she could then use hers and we wouldn't make an error use our "stage" names.... Lots of social-type chit chat at dinner and a party after.....but no one was the wiser.
I am so pissed right now!
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Sounds like an urban legend...
MrGreen. You are one cool cat to hold it together in that scenario.
My closest encounters were just mall sighting. Don't know if the girls saw me.
I followed protocol.
I actually use my real first name for pooning. It's a common name and if I do get in a situation at least someone's not calling me a strange name
But also because I couldn't keep track of all my fake names and passwords.
MrGreen. You are one cool cat to hold it together in that scenario.
My closest encounters were just mall sighting. Don't know if the girls saw me.
I followed protocol.
I actually use my real first name for pooning. It's a common name and if I do get in a situation at least someone's not calling me a strange name
But also because I couldn't keep track of all my fake names and passwords.
Totally inappropriate. You have every reason to be pissed. We chose this profession, and living in a city this size? I just assume everyone knows what I do, and act accordingly. Even acknowledging a contact in public could unknowingly cause them serious headaches. I left the business completely for a good chunk of time...bit of advice to any sp's out there doing the same - if you'd rather not run into former clients all the time, don't go work at Canadian Tire, lmao. Soooo wasn't thinking on that one. But whatever, you just train yourself to not react when you see someone you know, that under different conditions, you'd say "Hey!!!" and give a big hug to, buuuuuut since they're buying their Xmas tree with the wife n kids.... Yeah. But seriously though, if I were out with my little sister and got approached, there's be some daggers in my eyes to say the least....completely different ballgame than the person you're dating being asked if he's still seeing "SpinVikki" :doh:
I can honestly say I have been on both sides of this conversation. Once as a pooner, and few times with the SO.
As a pooner it was at a wedding and the more she had to drink the braver she became. Finally she came over and said do you remember me. Sure, how are you doing. Well I quit the business and I am having some trouble paying my bills. My response was I have also quit the business and I oh yes have you met my SO, she also has recently quit the business. Conversation was over.
The SO on the other hand has had a couple of occasions that where harmless. However she has had one X client that ended up following her home from Safeway and knocking on our door. He was a little surprised when I answered the door and he bolted for his car. A couple of days later the SO spotted him again parked on our street on her way home from work. She took down his license plate which she had a friend run and received his real name and address. A couple of days later there he was again parked a few house away from our house, so I walked down a politely asked him what his problems was, and he politely told me it was a free country and he could park any where he likes. Well the next day the SO called his wife and told her where she could find her husband at 5 pm most nights. We are happy to say we have never seen him again.
As a pooner it was at a wedding and the more she had to drink the braver she became. Finally she came over and said do you remember me. Sure, how are you doing. Well I quit the business and I am having some trouble paying my bills. My response was I have also quit the business and I oh yes have you met my SO, she also has recently quit the business. Conversation was over.
The SO on the other hand has had a couple of occasions that where harmless. However she has had one X client that ended up following her home from Safeway and knocking on our door. He was a little surprised when I answered the door and he bolted for his car. A couple of days later the SO spotted him again parked on our street on her way home from work. She took down his license plate which she had a friend run and received his real name and address. A couple of days later there he was again parked a few house away from our house, so I walked down a politely asked him what his problems was, and he politely told me it was a free country and he could park any where he likes. Well the next day the SO called his wife and told her where she could find her husband at 5 pm most nights. We are happy to say we have never seen him again.
Hopefully it turned out for that A-hole like the guy in this clip when she calls his wife at the 1:25 mark. LOL!
I never see visiting sp's and have run into 4 sp's in public. With 3 of them absolutely nothing happened it was like we never knew each other and never acknowledged each other. But one I seen as I walked into a bar to meet friends of mine. I had seen her a few times but stopped seeing her because I met a better sp. I hadn't seen her for about a month and when I walked into the bar she was intensely starring at me. I sat with my friends and everytime I glanced at her table she was starring at me. I was getting a little stressed thinking my friends would see her starring at me and I also thought if I went to the bar to get a drink she would come up to me. I could see she was wasted and thought she might do something stupid so I finished my beer and told my friends I wasn't feeling well and was leaving. So I went home and was stressed out thinking she might go up to my friends and say something like where did Joe go. Nothing happened and I never saw her again. If I was still seeing her she wouldn't have done anything but since I stopped seeing her she probably wanted to talk to me and get me back as a regular. Or find out why I hadn't seen her for a while.
Maybe she was worried you would go up to her and her friends and say something, you both were looking at each other. It does work both ways.
Ya thats funny I glanced her way or looked at her through the corner of my eye she on the other hand starred intensely at me even when I turned my head and glanced by her I could see she was locked right on me. Awkward, she was buying drinks for two skinny wanna be bikers in black leather jackets. So I thought her money might be getting low and she may approach me so I left. Would she have we'll never know.
Or reputable local sp's. If your only guarantee of discresion is because the sp isn't from here I would think that better research on who you see should be done. Just my two cents.
I lost a good "vanilla" female friend because of someone who broke the rule of discretion. My vanilla friend came to town and as usual we got together for a couple beers socialize, etc. She knew nothing about my involvement in bdsm activities. The two of us ended up running in to a mutual aquaintance with a Domme friend I knew in the lifestyle.(not a pro) The two of them (females) hadn't seen each other in a few years and I didn't know they knew each other. My vanilla friend asked the other "so what have you been up to" type questions. So the Domme friend proceeded to tell her all about her bdsm lifestyle and just had to open her mouth about me and my involvement. My vanilla friends' response (which I knew was coming) "I don't know anything about that shit and don't want to!" Needless to say, she hasnt really talked to me since then. I even tried phoning her to see if maybe I could soften the blow, but she wouldn't answer my messages.
