How we act with different women

[the old maxx50]

I admit I act differently with each women .. and these are the few that i have known for the last 4 /5 yrs and i have seen them all for sex , some i still do , but mostly they all people that i think of as friends and i like to hang out with . With some i find i can be more open and free with what i say .. weather they actually like or not I just say what i think .. others i am more guarded .. I not sure why i can't just be as open and my self with them all ,, I don't think i can be truly my self with any one .. and yet with the girls i know from the ST I definitely can be more open about some parts of my life and ideas then i can with my dentist , the next door nabour , or people i work for ,, even if i am on friendly terms with them all .

But when it come to women i really never could talk or act that openly with them ,, and still can't and still hold back with these girls that know me more intimately then any one .

I still have to say i am shy even at my age .. all though i am better then i ever was ..lol:thumb:

 

[thehedonist]

I've learned to never open up. They don't care. They're just counting down the seconds until you're out the door.

Things are no different with civilians either, except instead of paying with money, you're paying with looks and social status. And once those are gone - if you even had them to begin with - they too will want nothing to do with you.

If you want unconditional love, get a dog.

 

[uncleg]

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If you want unconditional love, get a dog.

O.K. if that works for you, why not ?......

 

[who]

Lock your wife and your dog in a car trunk for four hours and see who's glad to see you

 

[Popoff]

Lock your wife and your dog in a car trunk for four hours and see who's glad to see you

Good idea, I'll give this a try and let you know how it goes.

 

[sevenofnine]

You have to speak clearly from your heart to a women.
Tell her what you feel about her, honestly and openly, well as long as its nice.

I was never an openly happy guy, to much sadness in my life for that.
But I met this women at work just so dam happy,
I liked to be next to her, it made me happy, I told her that.
She always looks for me, she is single, I think she wants me to ask her out, but shit, Im married and have an sp.

The sp, I see now, I had a rough child hood she was the only one I ever talked about it with,
I told her what it meant to me.
Were still trying to fiqure it out what we are to each other, but in a good way.

The first sp I ever saw, was such a dominate sexual women the most dominate sexual women and the most well pornstar women I have ever met. She pretty much jussst molested me in her entrance hallway our first session.
She asked me why it took so long for me to come back to her after our first session. It was several years.
I told her truth fully. She scared the hell out of me.
She asked me if I wasn't scared now.

I told her I found some big girl panties to put on.
She told me I don't have to leave, as in period I don't have to leave.
Honestly I think girls are so used to being lied to and manipulated by guys to get in there pants.

That when some one speaks to them from his heart.
i dunno but you have to try it.

 

[the old maxx50]

Speaking to a women from my heart .. scares the hell out of me .. because I don.t like having my heart crushed .. I know i assume i know the answer to some of the thinks i would say and ask The answer would be "no" But if it is never said then .....

I care a lot for the few girls i know , and with one we can say .. "I love you " and mean it ... but it is just one of the forms of love .. and loves has many facets that never come in to play..

I would like to find that one person that actually can't wait to see me every day and never want to leave ,, just as i feel ,, But there is more to life then just unconditional love ,, responsibility allway over shadows the necessities of life and that is what gets in the way when being open with the women i know or any women that a man is interested in .

 

[yazoo]

If you speak from your heart, you'll end up with a Very Good Friend, - platonic of course. A bit of mystery gets you laid.

 

[LADY-VIA]

Lock your wife and your dog in a car trunk for four hours and see who's glad to see you

lmaof .. WHAT THE FUCK lol

ITS SO DAMN TRUE THOUGH


IF I HAD A HUSBAND THAT DID THAT HED HAVE TO RUN FOR HIS LIFE AFTER HE LET ME OUT !!!!!!!!!!!!!! and locked up all the kitchen knives

 

[AA_Train]

I used to find talking to women difficult because I would put them up on a pedestal or i would be afraid they would get the wrong impression of me, as I tend to be pretty outspoken, honest and blunt. Now, i just be myself and let them decide whether they want to take it or leave it. I don't think I 'm perfect or even suited for some, but I think a lady can do a lot worse than me

In the context of SPs the word love should never enter into it. May be easier said than done but i think in the long run you would be doing yourself and the lady a great disservice by catching feelings. If you reveal such feelings to them, the bad ones will take advantage of it and the good ones will no longer feel comfortable around you. That doesn't mean you don't care about them and maybe one can love them in the human sense, but for specific romantic feelings, you are setting yourself up fro a big letdown.

When one puts their heart on the line in any situation, there's always a good chance it's gonna get picked off. That's life. That doesn't mean it won't hurt or that you should start trying after unsuccessful attempts, but if you are aware of that possibility coming in, it will lessen the severity of the heartache and allow you to move on quicker.

At the end of the day, they are just women and women are human beings. They are unique, but not exalted. If you want to talk to one be it on the street or in a bar or at a party, go over and talk to them. You'd be surprised how often "Hi, my name is" works as a pick up line. They don't bite (well some do if you play your cards right he he he )