Hey Pillow,
You're giving me welcome food for thought. But it's hardly fair to associate me with "clients who have been known to bite down hard enough in daty to draw blood..."
Your concern for Chinese SPs is laudable, though I think you've a tendency to dress up your resentment toward these girls—for the way they've eaten into your business?—as concern for their welfare.
I've had lots of feedback from micro girls as well as from mamasans, thanking me for how well I treat these girls. Modesty prevents me from mentioning such praise in my reviews.
I don't share your view that Western SPs' remarks about the topic of letting a client shave their pussies "are no doubt the exact same things going through the minds of the asian sps who you see..." I'm not at all surprised most Western SPs wouldn't dream of letting a "stranger" shave their pussies.
But there's every reason not to extrapolate from their mindset to that of Chinese SPs. Understandably, due to lack of cross-cultural experience, you underestimate the differences between Western and Asian SPs.
The crux of the difference is that Western ladies were generally brought up in a culture of relative privilege and entitlement—whereas Chinese micro girls have almost always grown up under conditions of grinding poverty and squalor.
Notice, I'm not passing judgment on Western SPs; I admit, if I were female and had chosen be an SP, I'd more than likely be the same type of sourpuss contrarian as yourself. All too often, Western SPs make a pooner feel he has to walk on eggshells about where he's allowed to touch and what he's allowed to do.
Chinese SPs tend be humble, grateful, easy-going, forgiving and yes—"cooperative", not out of fear, but out of eagerness to please that's a deep part of their cultural identity. An elite Western companion might sneer at a $40 tip, but it goes a long way with micro girls (and sometimes even opens their backdoor or makes them amenable to ideas like pussy-shaving).
I daresay, at least one in 3 micro girls I'll politely ask to arrange a special shaving session will happily agree. I'd even bet that, of the remaining 2 girls, at least one is likely—upon receipt of my gift of a razor, shave cream and shaving oil—to shave off her bush in preparation of my promised repeat visit, a few days later.
Your judgment is peeking out, every time you respond to a non-asian sp comment, though. You assume and presume that anyone who is supportive of these asian sp's choice to be who they are is suspect, but you don't take the time to consider that your suggestions, for the main part, are overbearing and unwelcome. An actual asian guy (wilde) shows up here and spanks you for trying to find a work around cultural preferences.
It seems you only pretend to prefer the asian sp, when in fact isn't it simply that you can force them into situations that anyone who speaks English fluently or not an employee would refuse? Someone who makes 60 bucks a session, would of course appreciate the potential 20 dollar tip you might give her. But you don't even do that anymore lol.
What makes you think that you are any better a client than any of the guys who do not try to manipulate the sp's into strange and unusual (for them) scenarios. Someone who simply pays, gets the standard menu, and leaves?
There are sps out there who have what you are looking for, and are able to provide what you want, are also asian, they simply charge a higher fee and expect that when the time paid for is up, you will leave.
I can't imagine that any session you are involved in, based on your own reviews, stay within the 45 minute you pay for. And I can't imagine that you ever make up the loss potential income to the sps you see. You claim you are in the minds of 'elite' escorts, who you say would sneer at a $40 tip? What arrogance and assumptions you make about people based on absolutely nothing. And when did you ever give a $40 tip to anyone for anything, not even the one you whipped without warning? The ones you poke and prod anally without their prior consent? Anything I'm missing here about your pushy 'coaxing", as wilde would phrase it?
Now you claim I am looking out for their best interest, yet you somehow manage to imply that is a bad thing for me to do? Dressed up resentment? Why, because I object to you bullying them or trying to figure out how to best manipulate them? Dress them up? Turn them into little dollies?
You claim their "cultural identity" is to be "humble, grateful, easy-going, forgiving and yes—"cooperative"" and you don't think that has anything to do with being here illegally, an employee who owes a ton of money, just their nature?
You really don't know anything about asian women, do you, not ones you aren't paying. You assume that I have no experience with the culture, nothing like you have had lol. Unreal. You imagine, because it is convenient, that I've never met one, or seen one, I guess.
You pay them to say what you want to hear.
Then you want other people here to swallow what you are selling? I guess you figure if enough guys start 'suggesting' shaving, you will end up getting what you want. Passive aggressively, but at least you'll get it.
Unbelievably arrogant.
This is the problem with some guy with a half-ass understanding of Chinese culture. In traditional values, women with no pubes (shaved or natural) are known as white tiger and are considered bad luck. That's why almost all Chinese women have a bush. Maybe the OP can consider that before he asks (more like coaxes) any of them to shave. As for making shaving part of an SP's service. All I got to say is: dude, you've been watching way too much Japanese porn.
