How old is too old?

[sybian]

There was a rumour going around a long time ago that I was some giant.......I'm 6 foot 195.
Then later there was another rumour going around,that I had a big stomach, because I mentioned I had a 32 inch waist......I don't have a six pack but my stomach is fairly flat I suppose.
A young lady I spent some time with , and booked thru this site looked at me after our very nice encounter, and smiled and said......"You know, I thought you'd be bigger"
So I said " Why, you disappointed?.....and I sure hope we are talking about my general body size, and not something else?"
She said that she had a preconceived image of me , and she had followed me through the Lounge on here.....and she thought I'd be some gigantic Cowboy, but was surprised that although I was fit , I was just above average in build, and height.

So I suppose that just makes me a big talker.

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

I've always said that my upper age limit is...you have to be younger than my father. He's 81 & going strong. To my knowledge, I've not exceeded that yet!

 

[SkinnyJohn]

There will come a time when I no longer will receive DFK from someone old enough to be my granddaughter. Until then I will enjoy GFE from girls half my age. There's only so much pretend an SP can do with older guys. Thankfully I don't have the dadbod guys my age have.

There will come a day where I quit this hobby. Not because lack of funds or boredom, but the girls I like to see now won't see me due to my age.

 

[UhOh]

If the girl asks beforehand how old I am I always add several years. That way she's less disappointed when I do show up.

 

[SkinnyJohn]

Seriously, any SP who expects Brad Pitt or George Clooney to walk through the door is in the wrong business (and chances are 99% they won't last).

I know if I was an SP, I'd sure prefer a low intensity, and appreciative, older gentleman over some jacked-up, testosterone-fueled 21 year old that wants to bang away at your pussy for 90 minutes, while never making eye contact?

There are a few younger SP's who if they saw GC or BP enter the door they would still not DFK grandpa!

Thank goodness men aren't SPs. Who would want to DFK grandma?

 

[pinky2]

I haven't seen too many SP's that screen for age (except those that don't want to see 35 or younger).

Don't recall ever seeing one that mentioned a weight restriction (that's probably a career limiting move - likely turns off even those clients that are well under that threshold).

Most common exclusion I've seen is ethnic (ie, no black, Indian, asian, etc).

Most established SP's that I've met have a pretty well-adjusted sense of reality when it comes to working this business. As long as clients are respectful and have good hygiene, the vast majority can work with whatever comes through the door.

Seriously, any SP who expects Brad Pitt or George Clooney to walk through the door is in the wrong business (and chances are 99% they won't last).

...and by the way, many SP's that I'm met prefer much older men (60's, 70's? even 80's...no problem). Why? Because of their wisdom or sage world view? Because our greying temples make us look distinguished? Perhaps, but the cynic inside me says likely it's because we're like taking candy from a baby (tired, out of shape, poor stamina, ED-challenged, haven't slept with their spouses in decades, melt at the first sign of intimacy...lol).

I know if I was an SP, I'd sure prefer a low intensity, and appreciative, older gentleman over some jacked-up, testosterone-fueled 21 year old that wants to bang away at your pussy for 90 minutes, while never making eye contact?

referring to actors Pitt and Clooney as being models of hoped-for clients is akin to clients hoping to see the women pictured in their advertisements as their providers.

seriously, who would imagine the glamorous women so often pictured, would resort to prostitution?

i think such photographs only serve to ignite passion as a fantasy, as a first step in getting clients out door so that, as is so often reported here, the ‘little head overrules the big head’.

 

[needsit]

Must say I am glad I asked. Thanks to you all, I feel much better and more confident as a result. Now, time for a trip!

 

[JonnyBoi]

You're very welcome needsit.

I believe it's time for a duo to reward yourself..

 

[Officeguy]

funny you pick 22....in my entire life my most memorable year until until 2016....had a crazy looking 28 year old gf who taught me a LOT...she had a sex drive that challenged me to be able to walk in the morning including several sessions starting after we got home from the 83 (legion) until sun up...and that was non stop sex...i soon learned if I had to go pee I could hold a hardon for many hours so just before leaving the legion I downed two quick pints lol....besides I was scared to pop before she tired out.....I think thats why its broken now, thank gawd I now have someone fixing it

 

[morementum]

Some ladies have weight restrictions..

Not for themselves though at times. It is a mixed bag and for every point you make, it works the other way. Very complex. I cannot quite figure out why some guys like older escorts as I am under 40 and the thought of being with someone my Mom's age creeps me right out but I see some guys like that and like very large women too and that isn't exactly something i am keen on either. Each to their own I guess.

 

[LalaniElectrica]

Ok, so 57 yrs old and a thick dick... mmm Sounds like fun to me! I can totally understand and appreciate much younger sp's preferring younger men, although when I was 19 or 20 I loved men in their late 30's & 40's for some reason. Not much has changed, I now appreciate all age groups, but in reply to the OP, 57 is not too old, whether you "jackhammer" lol for the whole hr or not, makes no difference. Some mature gents have much more stamina than younger men, so there's no hard or fast rule, lol, pardon the pun! Just arrive showered and ready to go, most sp's would probably be happy to "satisfy" you and your thick friend

 

[sofine]

This is a great thread and something I've been thinking about for a while. I'm about to turn 59 (yikes) and have been pooning since i was 22. Pretty consistently through being single, girlfriends and now a wife.

I like to think I'm a "young" looking 59 (i.e. I could probably pass for 50) and certainly feel young. But sometimes do wonder when/how pooning will stop. I am mostly a RnT guy now. Very very rarely into FS anymore. So i think that has partly helped with the transition into geezerdom. Also i do tend to favour more mature SPs so that makes the age thing less glaring.

But does definitely make one think. Hasn't caused enough concern for me to stop yet though Hopefully not for some time.

 

[needsit]

Ok, so 57 yrs old and a thick dick... mmm Sounds like fun to me! I can totally understand and appreciate much younger sp's preferring younger men, although when I was 19 or 20 I loved men in their late 30's & 40's for some reason. Not much has changed, I now appreciate all age groups, but in reply to the OP, 57 is not too old, whether you "jackhammer" lol for the whole hr or not, makes no difference. Some mature gents have much more stamina than younger men, so there's no hard or fast rule, lol, pardon the pun! Just arrive showered and ready to go, most sp's would probably be happy to "satisfy" you and your thick friend

Just to clarify, yes I am 57, and the thick refers to some extra pounds. The friend is pretty much normal.:shocked:

 

[dchoye]

I'm older guy as well and find that SP are more concerned with the client being generous , hygienic, and having a respectful atttitude than age. Most prefer older clients as they possess these attributes more so than younger guys looking for free sex on Tinder

 

[hankmoody]

I'm a male 57 years old with some extra pounds on. I prefer the massage side of the hobby more than full service lately, but have started to wonder if my age and larger girth are still ok with those providing the service. There are a lot like me in size and age who do not want to give up the pampering, but starting to wonder if it is something that perhaps providers may not be as comfortable with.

You know what they say.
If you have to ask...
Seriously how about exercise? You can't do anything about your age but you can change your body.
Start slow and gradually increase.
It will do wonders for your self esteem. Among other things.
I eat clean but if i do slip up my rule is always follow "junk food" with something good. Like fruit.

 

[Dick Ford]

Another reason that SPs have told me why they prefer older men is that older dudes are generally more experienced with women -- they know how to properly kiss a woman, know how to properly touch a woman, and are generally more open to the experience being a two-way street. Experience has its benefits!

 

[Claire Monet]

I prefer older gents in my personal and professional life for reasons such as maturity, respect, experience and they tend to be more established in their lives than the younger bucks. From my experience older guys tend to be more giving in the bedroom as well and that makes for more mutual enjoyment (I want to have fun too!). To the OP just be honest about your age when booking with a lady and stay true to yourself. If it weirds you out to be with someone much younger than yourself don't do it. Have fun!

 

[Officeguy]

Claire- you describe me perfectly...at 61 my perfect session is that it is OUR session with the sp I am presently with.....for me it is soooo important to be WITH a woman who is relaxed and enjoys being with me wether it's laying in each other's arms for a time or adventurous sex.....I am not into a wam bam thing at 61 I want to enjoy a slow sip of fine wine instead of chugging a beer.....and I too believe most older guys feel the same way

 

[ParadiseChaser]

Claire- you describe me perfectly...at 61 my perfect session is that it is OUR session with the sp I am presently with.....for me it is soooo important to be WITH a woman who is relaxed and enjoys being with me wether it's laying in each other's arms for a time or adventurous sex.....I am not into a wam bam thing at 61 I want to enjoy a slow sip of fine wine instead of chugging a beer.....and I too believe most older guys feel the same way

I don't think that has anything to do with age. That's how I liked it since I was 20. I love it when I make my partner feel good and she is enjoying our time as much as I do.

 

[JonnyBoi]

I don't think that has anything to do with age. That's how I liked it since I was 20. I love it when I make my partner feel good and she is enjoying our time as much as I do.

I'm a giver too.. I think the reason why I am enthralled with certain ladies in this hobby is because we often have a "give-off".. It's like the most Canadian thing one can do in bed! lol.