how many of you perbs asked out an SP

[LADY-VIA]

I LOVE YOUR ATTITUDE!!!!!!!!THERE'S MUCH MORE NEEDED WOMAN LIKE YOU !!!

THANKS LUV.. I kinda like my attitude too... and if someone doesnt.. they can blow me

VIA

 

[LADY-VIA]

IM JUST REAL.. i try to be as real as possible . I KNOW i have a strong personality and i have strong opinions.. Its been a while since i have been active on the boards... and I just want people to really get to know who i am and what i believe in, that way when I meet people " clients " they already have a basis and grounding point with me. There already is a grounding point for conversations because I am not a stranger......... so to say.. and i have taken the time to allow other people to get to know me. My opinions and my thoughts make up who i am and id like people on here to know who i am and what makes me tick.. I may be beautiful.. but I think my mind and my thoughts are a bigger asset than my looks. Your looks fade.. but my sould will last until the end


SINCERELY TRUE
VIA xxxb

 

[LADY-VIA]

im possesive of the men i date. I dont like them to be with anyone else. There is sex and there is love. FUCKING IS JUST FUCKING. but when emotional attatchments get involved, I go snakey. If your lucky enough for me to fall in love with you.. then the only other play time with other women is when im involved

 

[juniper]

I've known several girls in the business who have made a love match with a client in tha past, some stopped working, others didn't.

I don't write off the idea of falling for a client (you don't have much control over your heart afterall!) but I am pretty good at keeping my two lives distinct and seperate.

As for clients dating sps, I know very few men who would be okay with their love being with other men but there are many out there (of both sexes) who would have no qualms about it (ie: those in the swinger lifestyle). I admit I would have a difficult time with someone I was in love with being with anyone else, I guess that makes me a hypocrite

Not a hyocrite, Ingrid, just flawed like the rest of us and, incidentally, I appreciated the honest response.

 

[LADY-VIA]

Now that sounds more than fair!

well i think so.... I am bi, so I enjoy other women as well

 

[mercyshooter]

And most parents don't accept this career!

 

[mmmgirls]

its important to remember that what we do, does not define who we are. We are people too !!!!

Well said Lady-Via.

Perberts, if you are ever thinking about asking an SP out on a date, and want to get romantically involved her, please do yourself and the SP the courtesy of really thinking about what you are doing. Many SPs are leery about dating clients, because often times they are the ones that end up getting hurt, usually because the guy can't handle what they do. Are you OK with her job, and can you really handle her having sex with other guys? Do you understand the difference between the love they give you, and the job they do? How would you feel if somebody asked you out, became romantically involved, and then asked you to quit your job once you got a little more serious? If you are truly interested in dating an SP, you have to accept and love the person, just the way they are.

I think in the back of your mind, you'd always be thinking if your being played as a mark.

This one is an easy one. If she charges you for her time, it's business.