How many it takes?
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Thank you for finally admitting that. It is a source of income.
How do you see it?
What on earth does this mean? What is it?
Bigfoot88 didn't actually say the girl in question is an SP. When I read his post I thought he was describing social dating with a civilian. Then I read Angie's post and realized that he probably meant an SP.
it depends on the chemistry between us. i felt close to one lady on the first visit, or i felt her being close to me,
another lady, our first few sessions were just awkard, but there was something there, we even had words at some point down the road.
but now were close, i even struggled with perhaps being to close. but it only makes the physical better,
and were both involved in our own life family, it is a job for her,
and i understand that, i pay her,
so it is what it is,i enjoy it, her company
believe she enjoys mine,
but its stupid to think we could have something outside of this hobby. were to different. but for the few hours we get together its enjoyable.
no use ranting on a girl because i have feelings for her, and have to pay her. its her job.
it feels nice i enjoy it. both the physical part and feeling her friendship
but still one day, i might just turn my back on this.
i enjoy her company but i only see her once every two weeks. in between i try to or do have a full and active life.
one day she will just fade away.
kind of sad actually.
another lady, our first few sessions were just awkard, but there was something there, we even had words at some point down the road.
but now were close, i even struggled with perhaps being to close. but it only makes the physical better,
and were both involved in our own life family, it is a job for her,
and i understand that, i pay her,
so it is what it is,i enjoy it, her company
believe she enjoys mine,
but its stupid to think we could have something outside of this hobby. were to different. but for the few hours we get together its enjoyable.
no use ranting on a girl because i have feelings for her, and have to pay her. its her job.
it feels nice i enjoy it. both the physical part and feeling her friendship
but still one day, i might just turn my back on this.
i enjoy her company but i only see her once every two weeks. in between i try to or do have a full and active life.
one day she will just fade away.
kind of sad actually.
This pretty much describes my situation, although I have been seeing the same women for a little over 5 years now, so it's been fun. We do go out for the occassional lunches in addition to our playtime, so even though I give her $$$, in many respects it's sort of a friends with benefits type situation. One thing I don't do is bring money to our get togethers, instead I directly deposit money into her bank whenever she's in financial straights.
The dangerous number for me is when i fart during a session & instead of getting grossed out, said sp just starts giggling like a school girl.Definately way too comfortable with each other at that point.
i had met some girl more than 60 times. but.. she's gone.
now.. im deeply unhappy and need a shouder to cry on.
ha ha ha..
I bring this thread back to show men don't get smarter with age. Kazesora is now my dearest friend. We are now tormented by the korean girls whom we saw over 60x. They were not the same girls. Our heads are totally fucked. Tomorrow we are going to fuck another girl 2 hours each separately to get revenge.
You pay to get treated like a king for 45 minutes & it seems so real you believe it is
Then when you come to your senses that it's all fantasy & it's time for revenge???
Bad pooner
Agree totally. Sometimes my head is swimming in obsessing about an SP for a few days after a particularly intense session - talk about value for money. Those thoughts are a total break from the day to day, so I see them as something to be enjoyed not avoided.
But I always know that it is me and only me who is doing the obsessing. The object of my desires moved on 15 mins after I left the room.
No firm number for me. Maybe because I do not live there and visit about 5 times a year, a repeat each trip with a very special lady is something I very much look forward to.
After 25+ visits, it still does not get old.
But there are still others while I am there, but hardly ever see somebody more than once. But, there are some exceptions, of course. I am human, I am still a man, and that is what we do, I think?
After 25+ visits, it still does not get old.
But there are still others while I am there, but hardly ever see somebody more than once. But, there are some exceptions, of course. I am human, I am still a man, and that is what we do, I think?
the trouble is a good session is one where you feel connected and it is intense and it seems real. And if it feels that way it very well may have been mutual. I think the trick is to realize that for the hour, or whatever amopunt of time you spend together it is just the two of you separate from your lives. Just because she moves on after you have left doesnt mean that it wasnt real for her too. It just means that it is a necessity of the job to be able to compartmentalize. Can you imagine how difficult it would be otherwise? It's a skill. But don't discount that for the times spent together there isnt a mutual realness about it. But be realistic about the fact that this kind of profession requires very disciplined emotional detachment at some point
kauffman has made a very good statement, I would have to agree with it for the most part. Yes, It is to make it real, that is what makes it special. With each individual it is a unique experience, for males or females. Many would like to, for a few moments, escape from reality and feel uninhibited with someone they are comfortable expressing themselves with. 
