How many encounters does it take before you get tired of the same SP?

Chessmen

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Is it similar to a friends with benefits relationship where you can have a few months of sex and then someone catches feelings or you lose interest? (or run out of money in this case)
 

take8easy

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Let us start with you first. :)
 

DiscreetOG

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From my perspective, if it's the right SP, you may never get tired. I saw the same SP for 17 years. She was not only a great Gal, but fantastic provider.
 

Chessmen

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From my perspective, if it's the right SP, you may never get tired. I saw the same SP for 17 years. She was not only a great Gal, but fantastic provider.
incredible. Is there even a current SP who has been doing this for 17 years? This is even longer than many marriages and relationships
 

jamasianman

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If a lady gets too familiar and then the fantasy aspect drops a bit then I will stop. But usually I only do 1-2 visits per month so I don't see the same lady too often.
 

penguy

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In my 10+ years of pooning, I've only seen the same girl maybe 3-4 times max, for me, this hobby is about change and something different.
 

take8easy

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I have repeated about 6 or 7 sp's about 4, 5 times each. I have seen Tia about ten times. Then there was one where I left ten minutes in.

It's just that sometimes you feel that she has offered as much she could offer, and you move on. Regarding familiarity, I think it varies. Being more familiar can bring boredom or it can also make an SP more comfortable so she opens up more with repeat. But all good things do come to an end.

Another factor is what is out there. If I lived in a small town that had fewer sp's, then I would have repeated a lot more. There are sp's out there that I saw only once not because they were not good but simply because there are more options out there. Living in greater Van is that there is so much out there for same price and being a guy, I like that.

Just like anything else, as long as things are fresh and exciting, you repeat.
 

luvsdaty

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Sometimes I'll get bored after a couple visits, sometimes I'll see one girl exclusively for years.
I'm currently seeing a beautiful blonde mp here in Vic. She's the only one I've seen in the past couple months and I don't anticipate seeing anyone else for the next little while, we just clicked��
 

resercher

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I would not say I get tired of sp's . As a single male who Is not at this time in any sort of sexual relationship with anyone .

I am concerned about catching something. That no form of physical protection can prevent falling in love with a sp . Forgetting this is a hobby an entertainment .A distraction from everyday life To start thinking about having some sort of relationship with her build a life together etc.

When I actually paid my first sp for her services . A very attractive blond woman who had a charming personality . She also had that practical approach to sex . With the ability to laugh at and approach with a sense of humor. Without being rude or condescending and make you smile. At whatever mechanical malfunction may occur. As often does when two humans who do not know each other get together for personal services . That I think comes with experience . in the business .


She was the one who taught me about using baby wipes. One of several pieces of knowledge i have gotten from sp's over the years . I purposely when i went back to the massage parlor where she worked .Chose two of her co workers . Not because i did not like her. But because I liked her a lot she knew exactly what to do what buttons to push to get me off etc . .I knew if I did have another encounter with her. My mind would start going into fantasy life time partner territory . Which to use a rather crude analogy . Would be a bit like ordering a pizza and getting really good delivery Then deciding to stop grocery shopping for food and just order pizza from the same place for all your meals .
 

masterblaster

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I have been seeing the same SP for around 13 years, haven't got tired of her yet and vice versa. We have become good friends over the years which makes things a bit of a challenge at times but it's manageable.
 

wintersurfer

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Personally I have never gotten bored, the longest so far is around 150hrs (over 3yrs), another lady 120hrs and another 50hrs...
 

maxic

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Hmm its that rush going to meet somebody new I think and yea if she is hot for me and great in bed I repeat for sure but not like for a decade or something in my case lol, if I m paying I like definitely change period..
 

Woodyone

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I find that chances are pretty good if you see a SP more than once she is doing something special to float your boat. I have been seeing 1 for about 5 years as a regular that fulfills a bunch of my kinks! And on top of that she is a hell of a person.
 

se7landrover97

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Ive seen an Sp on and off for like 3 years now. She is retired or maybe semi retired, don't really know but we just have that fantastic chemistry that doesn't seems to dwindle. Its just gets better as time goes by. So many things to share and talk about. And of course the sex, is just great. Just saw her a few days ago.:) When she was still active, I probably was seeing her 2 or 3 times a month. PM me if you want to know who she is.
 

BIGOZZIE

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I have been seeing the same SP for around 13 years, haven't got tired of her yet and vice versa. We have become good friends over the years which makes things a bit of a challenge at times but it's manageable.
Same here masterblaster, I've been seeing two for over 15 years who are not in the biz anymore, we're more friends than customer and sp and sex isn't even an issue, the older I get the more I appreciate the companionship and they know they can rely on me for help anytime.
 

westwoody

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That's nice!
I saw my ATF from 1982 to 1999 and she is still my best friend.
Treating ladies nicely can be beneficial for both sides.
 

Guardian Angel

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With some I grew tired after 1 visit and there are 2 or 3 I never grew tired of.

Cheers
J
Same here. I find it interesting how you get excited over one lady, but not the next one. I am currently seeing one lady since November. I can't seem to get enough of her. The minute I am in her bedroom, I am hard as a rock and spend an incredible Hr or more with her.

G.A.
 
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