How far in advance do you like to pre-book/schedule?
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I take short notice appointments in Coquitlam, but I am so much more appreciative of 24 hours to a few days ahead. I know not everyone can schedule in advance, but it really helps me plan, especially if they want a booking in Vancouver where I share studios with other people.
It depends.
How bad is my particular itch is a driving force! If the deadly semen backup is severe it's "can I come over in the next 30 minutes?"
Is this to be a new exploratory appointment? You know do I break out the cologne and the good deodorant? That could be a "really interested in seeing you - how is your schedule tomorrow night or if busy, the next evening"
And so on.
All depends.
How bad is my particular itch is a driving force! If the deadly semen backup is severe it's "can I come over in the next 30 minutes?"
Is this to be a new exploratory appointment? You know do I break out the cologne and the good deodorant? That could be a "really interested in seeing you - how is your schedule tomorrow night or if busy, the next evening"
And so on.
All depends.
I try to book about a week in advance so I can add it into my meeting schedule... easier for time management...
Yes, I like to plan and book a couple of weeks out too, especially if she’s a regular and also has “calendar integrity”.
If she’s a new or periodic contact, usually I request 1-3 days ahead.
If I have a “Wood Emergency” or am sufferring from SRH, then, ummmm, I can be there in half an hour! 😆
Typically 1-7 days in advance. If it’s someone I really want to see on a specific day or time, I would book about a week in advance. If it’s a 4 or 6-hour dinner date for a special occasion at a specific restaurant, I book weeks or more than a month in advance.
Super short notice requests drive me crazy, I can pretty much never accept them! 😩 The day before or longer is greatly appreciated. I hate having to turn down a booking with someone who otherwise ticks all the boxes but asking at 3:20 if you can see me at 4 is just not reasonable, especially because I don't live at my incall location.
Minimum 1.5 hours is usually the best I can do lol
Minimum 1.5 hours is usually the best I can do lol
One of the reasons my marriage failed is because we couldn't get pregnant. For four years we scheduled sex to increase the chances of getting pregnant. I hated that entire time of life and I have a bit of PTSD about scheduling sex now. But I get that what I'm looking for with a provider is more of a relationship than a transaction which means I need to plan in advance. So in general a day or two in advance. If I'm travelling somewhere though I research and plan and will often book a date once my travel plans are finalized, even if that means months ahead.
Now that I'm much older I rather see if my member is willing to go that day. I can't see myself booking days in advance. Junior might be asleep and can't wake up. Best might be the day before but that's it.
I like to try for at least a few days notice for the ladies that I have seen not all of them are full time or not at their incall location all the time. Plus as a bonus it gives me something to anticipate during the time leading up to the booking.
Agreed. Sometimes an incall is shared so a few days in advance will get a mutually beneficial time. Also if it is the first time a few emails/texts are needed to establish a rapport.
I do both depending on my immediate needs. Although I’ve had much more satisfying encounters when I pre planned. I tend to stick to rub and tug style parlours if I have an immediate need and they serve a very goal oriented task. On the other hand I’ve prebooked several weeks in and the build up is intense.
For me, I mostly book when I'm off work -- weekend or if I have time off. With that being said, if I happen to have a day off and I'm in the mood, I would ask her if she is available to play. Otherwise, I'll ask her what is the best time for her and work something out. So, in sum, same day ( if possible) or at least a couple of days in advance. Overall, though, I'm pretty easy going.
If I had a regular though that I think would be a different ball game.
If I had a regular though that I think would be a different ball game.
I aim for a minimum of the night before. However, sometimes my gaze has fallen upon a radiant beauty and I'm moved to book in the moment!
There have even been occasions where I have booked as much as a month in advance for a well reviewed traveling SP. It really builds as I count the days and then hours to our date!
There have even been occasions where I have booked as much as a month in advance for a well reviewed traveling SP. It really builds as I count the days and then hours to our date!
