Are you guys ever worried about stis/stds I went and saw a SP the other day and I got a bj but used a condom but can not stop stressing about it, if I used a condom I fine? Right?
Sorry, not meaning to be rude /not meaning to sound rude at all, but why should you worry about other people's worries? If that worries you, then simply protect yourself, which, I gather from your post, is exactly what you did.
And I do not see why you should worry about something that worries you but that you are already protecting yourself from.
So, yes, if you are worried, then protect yourself (use condom for bj and sexual intercourse obviously, do not kiss). Take it easy, do not take my response personal and above all stop worrying (you are already doing your homework, in that regard, as per what you wrote) and happy hobbying! Worries do beat the point of hobbying, obviously (you are supposed to do this for fun, not to worry. It is one thing to protect yourself, and you seem to be doing that already. It is another thing to hobby with worries. That is not hobbying anymore. That said, if this hobby is too scary for you, then stop. do not hobby as it won't do you any good)