For the past year, I spend $2000/week on hookers. I would spend more, but my dick stops working after $2000/week. And you know what else? I have No regrets maaan. Just make sure you keep fucking your wife too or she's gonna FIGURE YOU OUT! Or you could just stop, because you're only gonna want to spend more. The end.
HELP: No longer feeling intimate with Wife after started pooning.
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Well I can only comment on SPs here in Vancouver, as that's all I've ever spoken to personally. Maybe you're right, the two cultures may be different. So as long as you're speaking just on Chinese SPs, then I suppose I'll just take your word for it. However, SPs usually don't tell clients their entire life story right off the bat, so it's hard to discern if what they're telling you is true or if they prefer to keep some things private.
Wow, a pooning budget of $104,000 per year...that's impressive. And some of you guys complain when a guy is too honest about the size of his 'unit'.
Thank you everyone for your kind words and thoughtful input, lots of interesting feedback and Im definately going to keep it in my mind. I wanted to reply to each and everyone of you but its just not possible therefore I do have to tell you this. Im going to tone it down and do everything I can to save my marriage.
The society has failed many of us with their illogical expectations to be the perfect man, they have failed to see us for our positive aspects and only judge us on their norms and values that has been instilled upon us since birth. My situation is definately not unique as many others before me or after me will continue to face. However by no means Im going to give it all up and there is no way else to go but to proceed ahead, albeit my pooning visits are going to be scaled down, introduce stripclub lifestyle so I return home with blue balls and smarten up on the loose ends to avoid getting sloppy or carried away.
Hopefully that will be the end of my worries and find the perfect balance.
The society has failed many of us with their illogical expectations to be the perfect man, they have failed to see us for our positive aspects and only judge us on their norms and values that has been instilled upon us since birth. My situation is definately not unique as many others before me or after me will continue to face. However by no means Im going to give it all up and there is no way else to go but to proceed ahead, albeit my pooning visits are going to be scaled down, introduce stripclub lifestyle so I return home with blue balls and smarten up on the loose ends to avoid getting sloppy or carried away.
Hopefully that will be the end of my worries and find the perfect balance.
All the best, HL...your commitment to your relationship has come through loud and clear, right from the start.
Just thought I'd add a twist to this thread...today's MSN Lifestyle article, "Monogamish"...
http://lifestyle.ca.msn.com/love-sex-relationships/monogamish
Readers, what do ya think?
http://lifestyle.ca.msn.com/love-sex-relationships/monogamish
Readers, what do ya think?
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Me too bro. I like variety, what can I say. I live on the island and monger in Vic but I will be in Van 5 days in May and want to experience two visits with sp's.
1) massage first or last and full service with prefer a caucasian girl but an attractive asian that can speak english is fine too.
2) I'll have a car and have never selected a girl out on a stroll and would like to try it if its safe, like during the day until 8pm or so.
What MP's and strolls can you recommend. My budget is approx $150-200 each visit.
Thanks in advance,
westdune
1) massage first or last and full service with prefer a caucasian girl but an attractive asian that can speak english is fine too.
2) I'll have a car and have never selected a girl out on a stroll and would like to try it if its safe, like during the day until 8pm or so.
What MP's and strolls can you recommend. My budget is approx $150-200 each visit.
Thanks in advance,
westdune
Interesting thread for sure,
To be perfectly honest, since i started pooning it has actually helped my sex life with my SO. From some of the posts i have read it appears i am in the minority here but i once joked with a lady i have seen a few times that my SO should be paying for the sessions since she is actually getting more attention.
Things can get a little stale in a relationship so i think if you care about your partner you should make every effort to make the relationship work. Maybe for some guys it means having to give up the hobby while for others they can manage both. I'm not a hypocrite by any means and if i found out she was getting a little extra attention on the side, i would not have a problem it as long as it did not interfere with our family life.
Not to say we have an open relationship, we certainly don't but in my case it works. I am low volume and indulge once a month but come home to her and still have a lively sex life. Maybe i'm the problem and want more than she can provide but likely the issue is just some variety needed in my life and the no strings attached apsect of this business is very appealing to me. If i had to pick betweeen my hobby and family, i would not leave my family but everyone's situation is different and i don't judge. I hope the poster can find a way to make his situation work, I think this may be quite common actually.
To be perfectly honest, since i started pooning it has actually helped my sex life with my SO. From some of the posts i have read it appears i am in the minority here but i once joked with a lady i have seen a few times that my SO should be paying for the sessions since she is actually getting more attention.
Things can get a little stale in a relationship so i think if you care about your partner you should make every effort to make the relationship work. Maybe for some guys it means having to give up the hobby while for others they can manage both. I'm not a hypocrite by any means and if i found out she was getting a little extra attention on the side, i would not have a problem it as long as it did not interfere with our family life.
Not to say we have an open relationship, we certainly don't but in my case it works. I am low volume and indulge once a month but come home to her and still have a lively sex life. Maybe i'm the problem and want more than she can provide but likely the issue is just some variety needed in my life and the no strings attached apsect of this business is very appealing to me. If i had to pick betweeen my hobby and family, i would not leave my family but everyone's situation is different and i don't judge. I hope the poster can find a way to make his situation work, I think this may be quite common actually.
Be a john when you are fucking a SP. Don't stray into the realm of false emotions and attachments, because it's all business no matter how much these girls sweet-talk.
With the wife, remember who she is... the woman you married and love. Turn off the john mode when with her and simply relate to her.
The sex does not have to be what you get outside, but rather that it reflects the intimacy between the two of you. Different level, man.
Make the effort to do it a least two to three times a week with the wife, and with the frequency there may follow a reduced need for effort as your appetite for her resurfaces.
If you want to include some of the outside forms of pleasure, view porn videos together that demonstrate what you like and suggest "why don't we try that, honey?"
You can balance your urge for the sexually new through the SPs out there (keep it moderate though, bro) with the special closeness of making love with your wife.
If you cannot understand the difference between the two, then choose one or the other and hope that you make the right choice.
With the wife, remember who she is... the woman you married and love. Turn off the john mode when with her and simply relate to her.
The sex does not have to be what you get outside, but rather that it reflects the intimacy between the two of you. Different level, man.
Make the effort to do it a least two to three times a week with the wife, and with the frequency there may follow a reduced need for effort as your appetite for her resurfaces.
If you want to include some of the outside forms of pleasure, view porn videos together that demonstrate what you like and suggest "why don't we try that, honey?"
You can balance your urge for the sexually new through the SPs out there (keep it moderate though, bro) with the special closeness of making love with your wife.
If you cannot understand the difference between the two, then choose one or the other and hope that you make the right choice.
Haha, no Man she doesnt give in the bum.Hardlover...do yo u want me to bang your wife while u watch?
Sides I toned down my habits to once a week which seem to help.
Maybe the wife knew that she had a frisky one on her hands when she married him...so she turns a blind eye to the escapades! :fear:
HOLY CRAP!!! How often did you poon before?!?!?! I am single and only do it once a month or so. I may go 6 months without pooning but I guess we're all different which makes me wonder how often the average person here does it each month.I toned down my habits to once a week which seem to help.
OK...you must have a few thousand shares of APPLE.
Even if you went cheap, that is a minimum of 600 - 1000 bucks per week!!! How do you hide that kind of money just disappearing. I guess if it was just for a few months that you binged like that it can be transparent.
Hey Bro's
Im in trouble, Im no longer feeling intimate in bed with my wife after my newly acquired pooning habits.
Before we used to do it 4-5 times a week but now Im finding myself coming up with all sorts of excuses and no longer feeling the urge. This is very troubling to me and I dont know what to do, I always understood that pooning is better than having an affair so that atleast there is no emotional attachment of the third party, however strangely this is affecting the physical aspect in relationship.
Did I bit more than I can chew for? All I wanted to do was have my cake and eat it too, I know I sound selfish but I just wanted to have the best of the both worlds and I love her a lot and dont want anything to change between us. To be honest when Im pooning, its just pure business and as long as I can keep things in balance without affecting or altering then I can atleast blame myself for giving in to temptations, but I feel more guilty for the fact that Im no longer getting turned on.
What to do?
Wow, you cheated dude and you don't even know it; "no emotional attachment of the third party" -whatever. Since you went with the "have your cake and eat it too" proverb, I'll make one up that seems appropriate: 'You don't need to stir your stick anymore, when you already have the perfect cup of coffee.' Cheesy I know, but you've already put the ring on your favourite one so best to stick with her and not hurt her feelings. If she is not, be honest to her how you feel from the get-go.
Albeit, guys who are committed or attached, will wander their eyes towards other pretty women from afar, the wise man says, "I ain't sleeping with another woman unless my wife invites her over."
When I meet my special someone, I may be tempted but I'd put on the figurative vision blockers like those horses have when they're at a crowded parade -My eyes only for the wifey!
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I'm surprised at the negativity towards the impetus of the damn forum here. Quit your wife if you want to pay someone else to f*&k you? That is the reason, outside of all others, this hobby/profession/seriously good time if you are lucky, exists. I fully respect all those that honour their wives. Perhaps they should not be sounding off on a board that promotes sex for hire. As an advocate for a legalized version of this hobby, wife or no, I say to all, "Who you f*k is your business. If you pay for it, we want to know if it should be our business, too." Carry on carrying on.
