Hairy Chest - manly or gross?

[lenny]

That's exactly my situation. The SO "caught" me looking at porn twice now and made me "promis" I would never do it again even though I am lucky to get my rocks off over 10 or 15 times PER YEAR. So I can't watch porn, I can't fuck my SO, I can't spank it when she's around because I get so turned off by her lack of understanding.... What's a guy to do? When getting out of the relationship is not an option all that remains is eternal blue balls or pooning. I chose the later but still regret I ever had to.

GF

I'm curious as to why a woman would only want sex once a month, why she can have such control
over a guy as to require him to do the same, why he would stay in such a relationship, and pretend
to be going along with it, and why she is really so naive to think he is obeying her demands. Maybe
she needs to see a sex doctor/shrink. But i'd be inclined to cum into her breakfast cereal bowl
while she is eating it. What she is requiring would be to me like 95% castration, and since sex is
about all that i live for, it would also be like asking me to commit 95% suicide. IOW she'd be telling
me to drop dead or kill myself.

 

[mistressfreyja]

I'm super scent-inclined, and fur simply holds scent/pheromones.

I LOVE the smell of a man that has just done some laborious, and is exuding manly scent.

Plus, it's soft and feels lovely to run your fingers through.

Yummy

That said, I can also completely appreciate soft skin unimpeded by hair.

 

[mimi]

When people marry they make a commitment to love and have sex with only that person from that day on.

If one party deliberately withholds sex then that is a breach of contract.

The first party should have the right to demand that the other party give it up on certain days, or, first party can look outside for relief. That should be in the fucking marriage contract!!!

Regular sex can reduce prostate gland problems. A wife who withholds sex is contributing to the deterioration of her husbands health.

Really, I wonder if just growing a set and using cave man tactics would work. No woman wants to have sex with a man who lets her boss him around...

If a person doesn't like sex they should not get married...period!

I was able to get laid once or twice every 3 or 4 years in my marriage. I thought I was unattractive and it depressed me. After the divorce this man's girlfriends would phone crying about the fact that he would not touch them after the first initial sex...just enough sex to get ya interested...and pretty cold sex at that!

 

[Harmony-bc]

I don't like prickly. I prefer furry, trimmed, or smooth. It really doesn't matter to me. It all feels nice. The only thing I ask is please do not shave your chest or stomach, yuck

I like trimmed pubes, because there is less chance of tickling my nose causing me to sneeze This has never happened, but wouldn't it be embarrassing if it did ?, hahaha

I could never be in a monogamous marriage. I would die of boredom. Imagine one person for the rest of my life, ack I am capable of being monogamous for a year or so, maybe. I was watching the L word, and Shane (I'm just a little more feminine, lol) so reminds me in so many ways of me.

I too believe if your partner doesn't fuck you that it is a breach of contract and she is very selfish for not understanding your need to go outside to find what you need. Every single person on this whole planet needs sex and more importantly intimate touch.

 

[Puddlegurl]

Mmmmmmmm yummy sexy, growing up in the 90210/New kids on the block /Baywatch generation the fad was slick shiny tanned mens chests but it kinda grossed me out ..lol... Its very intoxicating to be ravished by a testosterone filled natural man... yumm..

Is a hairy chest on a guy manly or gross? Ladies? Guys? What do you think? Is smooth the way to go?

 

[Gr33kFreak]

Sorry for the double post earlier. I also wanted to add that my opinion on the original qustion is: manly. Waxing is for swimmers and alt sex folks. Just my opinion. To add to my other "situation" the worst part is I am still super hot for my SO even after a decade of putting up with the "95% castration".

GF

 

[Jethro Bodine]

This year I have had my back and shoulders "sugarred" but I leave the chest alone. Most of the ladies I know don't mind a hairy chest on a man but its the back and shoulder hair that turns them off.
As for the pubes, a regular trim keeps the underbrush from taking over. Most of the ladies seem to appreciate it when giving a BJ.

 

[mimi]

AHHH!

I just had the loveliest chest today...the hair formed a beautiful pattern as it spiraled it's way down to the groin....so beautiful.

I like the testicles shaved but not the top of the groin...I find it a bit startling to have that part shaved. If the pubes on the actual penis are trimmed down to the base then a bush just above is quite attractive.