Guide me please!

[Baaz Gill]

Hi Guys

this is my first time posting on this website and I need guidance.

I live in Abbotsford area and I have never tried any escort service in my life. I have a gf since last 5 years and she’s the only one I am comfortable with to be in bed. I just want to make myself confident in bed with any woman.

anyhow, can you guys guide me in how to find some cheap service to start with. I really don’t know the terms you use here and secondly, I dont know the cons for meeting any girl from here. I dont wanna go with massage thing but I always don’t wanna spend too much money.

my budget could be around 150 HH cz I am really not sure if ill go and do something. Please help me figure this out and if there are any service agencies with this cheap rates here.

Thank you everyone in advance!!

 

[blakealridge]

yikes lol

terminology:
https://perb.cc/xenforo/threads/escort-abbreviations-acronyms-terminology-used-on-ads.223932/

beginner's guide (I haven't actually read this lol)
https://perb.cc/xenforo/threads/vancouver-visitors-guide-2023.333856/

 

[dare.devil]

As you are first timer, just a word of caution, this hobby is extremely addictive and once you start it there is no going back. Your gf/partner will NEVER match the experience you will get in here, and you will crave for more. It just starts with being good in bed like you said but goes deeper into the brain.

 

[Baaz Gill]

As you are first timer, just a word of caution, this hobby is extremely addictive and once you start it there is no going back. Your gf/partner will NEVER match the experience you will get in here, and you will crave for more. It just starts with being good in bed like you said but goes deeper into the brain.

thank you bud! Tbh, I really am not sure if I’ll go the second time but I just wanna give it a try.
Do you know any budget options nearby?

 

[dare.devil]

thank you bud! Tbh, I really am not sure if I’ll go the second time but I just wanna give it a try.
Do you know any budget options nearby?

The only problem with your budget is that most of agencies discouraging hh appointment,so keeping at a higher price of approx 240 with approx 60-80 diff in hourly price. If you have, scope go for an hour for 260/300 and you will get great options on tempgf on LL. However if you still stick to 150 hh, I would suggest to go for lineup at tiger spa. There might be some other Independent providers which I am not aware of.

 

[Moo211992]

Hi Guys

this is my first time posting on this website and I need guidance.

I live in Abbotsford area and I have never tried any escort service in my life. I have a gf since last 5 years and she’s the only one I am comfortable with to be in bed. I just want to make myself confident in bed with any woman.

anyhow, can you guys guide me in how to find some cheap service to start with. I really don’t know the terms you use here and secondly, I dont know the cons for meeting any girl from here. I dont wanna go with massage thing but I always don’t wanna spend too much money.

my budget could be around 150 HH cz I am really not sure if ill go and do something. Please help me figure this out and if there are any service agencies with this cheap rates here.

Thank you everyone in advance!!

My advise. Do not go this dark path.
It is like being a drug addict. It starts with trying then you are hooked with no way out. Each time you will say it will be my last time doing this then you find yourself doing it again and again.

Do not talk about self control and this BS. I was the most discipline person you could have seen. I graduated class 1st in engineering and worked in top place and made good sums of money for my age.

It all started with having difficulty finding a girl friend. Instead of waiting and accepting that, I went to this dark path as a temporary measure.

Look where I am now. I make 200k in a good year and at the end of the year I have few thousands in savings.

You can say to yourself that you are different and you can budget it. Trust me you can't.

Moreover, you can get assulted, robbed and scammed and meet people you would never have though you would meet.

For me it ended with a getting assulted and cops
being involved and likely to get charged!!
I couldn't have thought in my wildest nightmares that I will be there.

Stay on the shore. You will be safe. DO NOT DO IT!

 

[dare.devil]

My advise. Do not go this dark path.
It is like being a drug addict. It starts with trying then you are hooked with no way out. Each time you will say it will be my last time doing this then you find yourself doing it again and again.

Do not talk about self control and this BS. I was the most discipline person you could have seen. I graduated class 1st in engineering and worked in top place and made good sums of money for my age.

It all started with having difficulty finding a girl friend. Instead of waiting and accepting that, I went to this dark path as a temporary measure.

Look where I am now. I make 200k in a good year and at the end of the year I have few thousands in savings.

You can say to yourself that you are different and you can budget it. Trust me you can't.

Moreover, you can get assulted, robbed and scammed and meet people you would never have though you would meet.

For me it ended with a getting assulted and cops
being involved and likely to get charged!!
I couldn't have thought in my wildest nightmares that I will be there.

Stay on the shore. You will be safe. DO NOT DO IT!

It's bitter truth plain and simple.I already told him but gave info also, as he requested.

 

[blakealridge]

You guys had better never do anything fun or ever leave the house cuz you might ENJOY yourself or DIE. Those are the only two options. BEWARE

 

[dare.devil]

You guys had better never do anything fun or ever leave the house cuz you might ENJOY yourself or DIE. Those are the only two options. BEWARE

Truth is not to please everybody. When enjoyment becomes addiction, costs too much and takes away the happiness.

 

[Moo211992]

You guys had better never do anything fun or ever leave the house cuz you might ENJOY yourself or DIE. Those are the only two options. BEWARE

Let me be truthful. I understand that you have a bussiness out of it. So it is fair to assume that warning opinions won't be acceptable to you. Trust me, my advise to him or other members advise won't damage any bussiness there are always new client.

However, I think no man really want to be paying for sex. No man wants to addicted to something that destroys financially, mentally and emotionally.

Most Johns are there because of a trouble in their life. Either a breakups, in ability to get a girlfriend, unhappy marriage,... etc.

I would prefer for that gentleman to keep on searching for love, happenies and genuine company of a woman that wants to be with him for himself not an hourly rate.

I do not want him to be addicted. I do not want him to start an evil that would consume him on so many levels for so long.

 

[Late30’s]

My advise. Do not go this dark path.
It is like being a drug addict. It starts with trying then you are hooked with no way out. Each time you will say it will be my last time doing this then you find yourself doing it again and again.

Do not talk about self control and this BS. I was the most discipline person you could have seen. I graduated class 1st in engineering and worked in top place and made good sums of money for my age.

It all started with having difficulty finding a girl friend. Instead of waiting and accepting that, I went to this dark path as a temporary measure.

Look where I am now. I make 200k in a good year and at the end of the year I have few thousands in savings.

You can say to yourself that you are different and you can budget it. Trust me you can't.

Moreover, you can get assulted, robbed and scammed and meet people you would never have though you would meet.

For me it ended with a getting assulted and cops
being involved and likely to get charged!!
I couldn't have thought in my wildest nightmares that I will be there.

Stay on the shore. You will be safe. DO NOT DO IT!

Couldn’t agree more. It’s one of the worst hobby one can get addicted to. You start with trying and end up spending thousands and thousands of dollars. I’m addicted quite myself and it has ruined my life financially and emotionally.

Bitter truth, I could have own a place for myself if I didn’t get addicted to this hobby or paid for sex to begin with. You get poor while the other gets richer.

 

[GreatJJ]

Mr. Gill, you had stated, looking for cheap service. Try a street walker then, and hopefully, you will treat her with respect. In the end, better stick with your girlfriend.

 

[maniacalone]

Couldn’t agree more. It’s one of the worst hobby one can get addicted to. You start with trying and end up spending thousands and thousands of dollars. I’m addicted quite myself and it has ruined my life financially and emotionally.

Bitter truth, I could have own a place for myself if I didn’t get addicted to this hobby or paid for sex to begin with. You get poor while the other gets richer.

Grass is always greener. Men have vices. It’s our nature. Booze. Drugs. Gambling. Women.

You have lived your life pursuing beautiful women. I’d take a life of this addiction over any other. A life most condo owning married men would envy you for.

 

[SolidSnake]

Mr. Gill, you had stated, looking for cheap service. Try a street walker then, and hopefully, you will treat her with respect. In the end, better stick with your girlfriend.

This is probably a good way to get the OP off the idea. Girl quality, sketchy neighbourhoods, dubious hygiene and service, and likely getting a gift that keeps on giving.

OTOH, going on a real relationship may cost even more than pooning, financially and emotionally. (You don't lose half your assets with pooning, or at least not in one go.) I'm sure those who went through a divorce (or just a painful breakup) will completely agree.

 

[kd75]

My advise. Do not go this dark path.
It is like being a drug addict. It starts with trying then you are hooked with no way out. Each time you will say it will be my last time doing this then you find yourself doing it again and again.

Do not talk about self control and this BS. I was the most discipline person you could have seen. I graduated class 1st in engineering and worked in top place and made good sums of money for my age.

It all started with having difficulty finding a girl friend. Instead of waiting and accepting that, I went to this dark path as a temporary measure.

Look where I am now. I make 200k in a good year and at the end of the year I have few thousands in savings.

You can say to yourself that you are different and you can budget it. Trust me you can't.

Moreover, you can get assulted, robbed and scammed and meet people you would never have though you would meet.

For me it ended with a getting assulted and cops
being involved and likely to get charged!!
I couldn't have thought in my wildest nightmares that I will be there.

Stay on the shore. You will be safe. DO NOT DO IT!

😂🤣. You are quite funny my man just got here and already trying to turn people 😂. Let the guy live for fuck sake. If he wants to commit a mistake let him hes an adult. And what do you mean by addicted? Addicted to paying, addicted to sex? Seriously what are you doing here on this forum?

 

[Late30’s]

😂🤣. You are quite funny my man just got here and already trying to turn people 😂. Let the guy live for fuck sake. If he wants to commit a mistake let him hes an adult. And what do you mean by addicted? Addicted to paying, addicted to sex? Seriously what are you doing here on this forum?

This is a great example to OP. You get so addicted to it that you starts to live in a denial just like this guy.

 

[kd75]

This is a great example to OP. You get so addicted to it that you starts to live in a denial just like this guy.

projecting much? 🤔 What am i in denial about exactly?

 

[blakealridge]

It’s scary that men paying for a legitimate service feel addicted and cheated. Go to a therapist guys, damn. Are you ok? Imagine saying this about any other profession or business. I could probably afford a downpayment on a house if I’d never eaten amazing food in a restaurant but guess what? I don’t wanna cook every day and I enjoy good food. Or if I’d never travelled. Or never got a car so I could go on adventures. Or never hired a personal trainer. Etc etc. but guess what? I did all those things and I’m not complaining about “addiction” because I’ve had a rich and wonderful life.

hire the sex worker. Go on the holiday. Eat the good food. We only get one life, don’t feel guilty for living it.

 

[musclebro]

It’s scary that men paying for a legitimate service feel addicted and cheated. Go to a therapist guys, damn. Are you ok? Imagine saying this about any other profession or business. I could probably afford a downpayment on a house if I’d never eaten amazing food in a restaurant but guess what? I don’t wanna cook every day and I enjoy good food. Or if I’d never travelled. Or never got a car so I could go on adventures. Or never hired a personal trainer. Etc etc. but guess what? I did all those things and I’m not complaining about “addiction” because I’ve had a rich and wonderful life.

hire the sex worker. Go on the holiday. Eat the good food. We only get one life, don’t feel guilty for living it.

I dont think anyone believes you live a happy and fulfilled life charlee 😂

 

[Moo211992]

It’s scary that men paying for a legitimate service feel addicted and cheated. Go to a therapist guys, damn. Are you ok? Imagine saying this about any other profession or business. I could probably afford a downpayment on a house if I’d never eaten amazing food in a restaurant but guess what? I don’t wanna cook every day and I enjoy good food. Or if I’d never travelled. Or never got a car so I could go on adventures. Or never hired a personal trainer. Etc etc. but guess what? I did all those things and I’m not complaining about “addiction” because I’ve had a rich and wonderful life.

hire the sex worker. Go on the holiday. Eat the good food. We only get one life, don’t feel guilty for living it.

It is the inability to stop doing an action that makes it an addiction. I can easily stop eating out or travelling if I wanted to and did it many times. But I know that stopping seeing escorts is extremely difficult, even when trying. I have to admit that. I seeking help to get out of this loop.

May be if you are a man facing the same problem you would understand its dynamics and what happens.

Regarding legitimate service, same can be said about selling cocaine. It is s a product and the buyer is an adult who knows what he is doing and let him enjoy his life he only has one. However, this product has an addictive nature that what makes it a problem- not able to stop and control.

I am not saying that I am in a place to advise anyone. I fucked up big time.